I got my dear john letter today. So, it is over. That is all I am to tired to think.

:hugs I am so sorry!!!!

:hugehug I'm sorry sweetie!

wow....I'm so sorry... Too many people are going through this right now. It's so tough. Try and get some sleep hun =[ :hugs :hugs :hugs

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awww :hugs I'm so sorry

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OMG im so sorry hun :hugs

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:hugs I'm sorry hun

I'm sorry hun. I hope things get better soon and you start to feel better soon.

what an ass...he has no idea what a great thing he just threw away:no

I am here if you need me:(

:depressed stay strong

I'm sorry. Stay Strong

:bigsadhug I'm sooo soo soo sorry. guys right now are being so heartless and crappy towards us.
try and rest :hugs and stay strong..i know thats hard...i'm goin through the same thing so PM me if u need to :)

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:no so sorry girl...:bigsadhug

That sucks! I'm sorry.

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Oh no! I'm so sorry hun. :bigsadhug

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:hugs if you ever feel up to it fill us in. I'm so sorry you are going through this.

:hugs :hugs. so sorry sarah!

oh girl, i'm so sorry :( big hugs!!!! we're all here for you!

so sorry to hear that :hugs I know words may not help, but everyone here is thinking of you.

I'm so sorry sweetie :hugehug

:hugs that stinks :no

Sarah! Oh no!

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If you need me sweetie please let me know, ok??

Sorry I was sleeping thanks ladies.... things went bad-good-ok-bad-ok-worse.... lol I guess it is not totally a laughing matter... this was the email I got.

Hey Sarah,

I appreciate you being there for me and all you've done. But I've
been doing a lot of thinking, and we should call it quits. Seeing as how
I'm getting out of a failed marriage and my mind isn't ready for a
serious relationship. So rather than put you through that and me going
through the motions, I'm letting you go. It wouldn't be fair to you and
hopefully you'll find someone who will treat you like the way you
deserve to be treated. Again I'm sorry and I hope you don't think of me
too badly. I'll always value the time we spent together. And no I don't
think your some 19 yr. old girl I got to have sex with. Hope you have a
wonderful life.

And I sent him a care package which he got this morning but my sister already fucking opened it!?!?!?! :reallymad OMG I WILL KILL HER. ok... there were just like private things in there and stuff...

aww :hugs at least he was respectful in the letter, that's more than what can be said about some guys.

Very true. I guess that is why I m pretty ok at this moment... idk I am just weird I guess. Thanks tho ladies Ilove u all :hugs and :feathers right back at ya

whoa...i just saw this...i'm so sorry hun.... :hugs...if you just need to talk i'm here...
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As dear john letters go, that one is actually pretty honest and sensitive to your feelings. It sounds like your relationship is a victim of bad timing. Hugs to you. Take some time for yourself and go from there.

i'm so sorry :hugs

As dear john letters go, that one is actually pretty honest and sensitive to your feelings. It sounds like your relationship is a victim of bad timing. Hugs to you. Take some time for yourself and go from there.

Thanks babe.. Yea it pretty much was, hence why I am not all broken down and crazy about it. I just get up, survive, and hopefully get some sleep!!!

Oh no.. I'm sorry hun. :hugs

Gah, this seems to go through cycles. Everyone seems ok and then a hoard of break-ups come through.

Wow... Sara, babe. I'm sorry to hear about this. I hope you are alright.. Im gonna PM you. I love you!

My brother got his in the mail last week too. And, he's still in bootcamp. Can't believe that girl. I feel for you. Keep your head up, ok?

I got my dear john letter today. So, it is over. That is all I am to tired to think.

I am SO sorry :hugs

im so sorry

Aw thanks guys I am muscling through life. Lol. I should be crying my eyes out and whatnot, but he needs time for hiimself and I have to respect that decision I hope we can still be friends in the end.

So... yea I will be on and off and recovering. Thanks again guys

Aw thanks guys I am muscling through life. Lol. I should be crying my eyes out and whatnot, but he needs time for hiimself and I have to respect that decision I hope we can still be friends in the end.

So... yea I will be on and off and recovering. Thanks again guys

If you want to talk or vent or ANYTHING please PM me!!

I'm so sorry. I was hoping for a different ending. We're all here for you.

:hugs I'm so sorry hun

I am so sorry!

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:hugs i'm so sorry... :( what was his "reason"

Oh, Sara... I am so sorry. I just want you to know that you are way to sweet and too good for him. And you deserve so much better than this. I haven't seen you much in chat, it looks like you got a job so congrats! This will pass and you will find someone so much better. It makes me so mad that they write these Dear John letters!!! They of all people should know better!! :banghead If he could do this, he is not worth it! Uggg! Can you tell I'm getting pissed. Well, take care of yourself and don't work too hard. And still stay on here and come visit in chat. I need your support! And you can still be LAPD!!! Love you Girl!!!

I am so sorry that you are going through this.

Oh, Sara... I am so sorry. I just want you to know that you are way to sweet and too good for him. And you deserve so much better than this. I haven't seen you much in chat, it looks like you got a job so congrats! This will pass and you will find someone so much better. It makes me so mad that they write these Dear John letters!!! They of all people should know better!! :banghead If he could do this, he is not worth it! Uggg! Can you tell I'm getting pissed. Well, take care of yourself and don't work too hard. And still stay on here and come visit in chat. I need your support! And you can still be LAPD!!! Love you Girl!!!

Awww thanks babe! I will keep going, u r a doll... all of u are dolls I am just bleh. I can write more later I am late for class...ooops

I am so sorry. It's never easy. I hope you find the strength to keep your head up and keep pushing through. Good luck. :)

:hugs :hugs :hugs I am so so sorry!!!!

:hugs i'm so sorry... :( what was his "reason"

I do not even really know his reason... he was not ready for a serious relationship? So, I guess all I can do is say I understand and give him space :sigh

I do not even really know his reason... he was not ready for a serious relationship? So, I guess all I can do is say I understand and give him space :sigh

goodness.. you are a tough girl! im so proud of you!
:hugs
hang in there girl.
im so proud of you.. i wouldnt be like that.. id be like eff that you cant gettin away that easy! ha ha..
so you doin the right thing for YOU.. and that is commendable!
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wow....I'm so sorry... Too many people are going through this right now. It's so tough. Try and get some sleep hun =[ :hugs :hugs :hugs

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Yeah what's going on? Everyone seems to be in that boat.

I'm sorry sweetie. Chin up. We're here if you need us. :hugs

i am so sorry.
we are all here to support you.

I'm sorry honey :( If you need to talk we are all here for you! :(

:sigh I'm sorry.

Aww thanks again guy s ur so amazing. At least it was nice in the sense we still email....

He asked me if I was ok.... and I am like.... weeeell not really, but yea. I am doing better tho! Thanks ladies

goodness.. you are a tough girl! im so proud of you!
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hang in there girl.
im so proud of you.. i wouldnt be like that.. id be like eff that you cant gettin away that easy! ha ha..
so you doin the right thing for YOU.. and that is commendable!
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Haha, I just pretend I am strong... maybe I am to busy to let this all hit me.

:hugehug I'm so sorry

:hugehug I'm so sorry

U are a SWEETHEART TOO!!! I hope the rest of ur deployment goes super fast!!!!!! :D

Aw thanks guys I am muscling through life. Lol. I should be crying my eyes out and whatnot, but he needs time for hiimself and I have to respect that decision I hope we can still be friends in the end.

So... yea I will be on and off and recovering. Thanks again guys

Aww thanks again guy s ur so amazing. At least it was nice in the sense we still email....

He asked me if I was ok.... and I am like.... weeeell not really, but yea. I am doing better tho! Thanks ladies

I'm so sorry too, just about 3 weeks ago I went through a break up too so I know what you're going through. It didn't hit me till a few days later, I didn't cry that first day at all I did the next day when I was telling my roommate about it. It's good that he's still emailing you, while my guy said he still wanted to be friends and stuff he really hasn't talked to me for three weeks, so that makes it really hard.

Keep on hanging in there, hun!!

I just saw this thread, I am so so so so so sorry. If you need to talk, vent, cry, punch something ANYTHING please feel free to pm me!!

I'm so sorry. I was hoping for a different ending. We're all here for you.

U and me both. Maybe different time different place

I'm so sorry too, just about 3 weeks ago I went through a break up too so I know what you're going through. It didn't hit me till a few days later, I didn't cry that first day at all I did the next day when I was telling my roommate about it. It's good that he's still emailing you, while my guy said he still wanted to be friends and stuff he really hasn't talked to me for three weeks, so that makes it really hard.

Aw thanks sunshine, yea he is kinda like that. My sister is creating all this drama and I think he got sick of it, and my family all took her story as truth, and all I could say was wow... u all suck monkey balls

I just saw this thread, I am so so so so so sorry. If you need to talk, vent, cry, punch something ANYTHING please feel free to pm me!!

Aw u r awesome I prob will!!! and harass the crap outta ya.

I hate when I see a post in the category. Best of luck to you girl!!

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weird and lame... xDB emails me most days and it is like we never broke up, I need to talk to him... not around as much on here. I love u girls sometimes I get overwhelmed over all the man talk... b/c I have no man, but I check my mail etc... and have an occasional post... I will prob be back more in awhile

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I will prob be back more in awhile

yes come back to play with us :giggle

and you never know, things might fall into place.. i've been there done that

:bigsadhug OMGOSH i am so sorry hun :hugs :hugs

Ok... xDB is making me mad... n worried. We talk all the time- email- and since I told him about a crush... nothing... I am worried their internet is down or something? argh stupid boy broke up w/ me... wtf?!?!

Ok... xDB is making me mad... n worried. We talk all the time- email- and since I told him about a crush... nothing... I am worried their internet is down or something? argh stupid boy broke up w/ me... wtf?!?!

honestly why do you care.....he broke your heart..he pretty much dumped you...instead of thinking what he is feeling, etc..you need to move on and forget about him. I know you want to be friends with the guy but seriously I think any crushes or future relationship talk should be push aside when dealing with your ex...Am not trying to sound like a bitch but are you trying to make him feel jealous that you are moving on. Please don't take it in a bad way..But that's what he's probably thinking of what you are doing.

From all the post you have written, I know you are a strong person and have a lot to give. Maybe it's time to show him that it is his lost and you are moving on without telling him about your crush, etc.

And I apologize ahead if I upset you....

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Stay strong

I'm sorry, you'll be fine dear... :hug

:hugs I'm sorry

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i am so sorry honey........................if you need anything PM me!

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im so sorry hun!

I'm so sorry!!! That must be so incredibly hard for you... we're all here if you need anything!

That is awful, I am so sorry. :(

I'm so sorry. :hugs :hugs

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