Well its over. I finally just came out and said either put yourself into this or don't do it at all, I can't take this half and half bullshit. And he said that he wanted to end it. He was like "you can still come to Germany and sleep in my bed and i'll take the floor. And you can still come to alaska with me, we can share the rent and be roommates. (yeah right i'm thinking . .. but i thought it was a nice gesture) You are one of the most amazing people I know, I'm just not feeling the relationship." So yeah it sucks. But at least I have some closure.

:hugs :hugs :hugs

good for you for standing up for yourself sweetie.

sorry...but i have no clue as to what i should tell you...i am kinda speechless i guess

Well its over. I finally just came out and said either put yourself into this or don't do it at all, I can't take this half and half bullshit. And he said that he wanted to end it. He was like "you can still come to Germany and sleep in my bed and i'll take the floor. And you can still come to alaska with me, we can share the rent and be roommates. (yeah right i'm thinking . .. but i thought it was a nice gesture) You are one of the most amazing people I know, I'm just not feeling the relationship." So yeah it sucks. But at least I have some closure.

OH NO HONEY!!! Not you too... fuck deployments. Men... argh! :hugs and :sigh I cannot believe this happened. I am glad u got closure, but this still sucks massive ass

I'm sorry :hugs

:hugs I am sorry!!

You are so strong! I am sorry!

I am so sorry!! What is with these men lately?!

I have to agree, it seems more and more of this is happening! Im sorry its happened but im really glad you feel you've got some closure!

we are here if you need us!!!!!!!!!



I am so sorry!! What is with these men lately?!

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ugh, I'm so sorry sweetie. I'm glad that you didn't settle for half ass and you demanded more for yourself.

im sorry.

I'm sorry hun. You are being very mature and relaxed about it. Kudos to you. :hugs

Thanks girls I really appriciate all your kind words. It hurts I'm not going to lie. Just hard to see past now and see happy again.

:hugs youll get through it trust me deployments are just not a piece of cake no matter how you cut it :hugs just remember theres a silver lining in everything :hugs

im sorry :hugs

One of my favorite quotes of all time:
"May you trust in God that you are exactly where you are supposed to be."

This has given me comfort during rough times. Maybe it will for you too. Hugs for you!

sorry...but i have no clue as to what i should tell you...i am kinda speechless i guess

me also hugs.

so sorry sweetie :hugehug

Babe it hurts for awhile and as Big and Rich say ... "U never stop loving somebody, u just start loving somebody else." Idk if that helps at all. Awww I feel so sad for u. :hugs can we take a cruise?

:hugs.I'm so sorry