so i snooped into his email and there wasnt anything else but from napster and me. and also no one has logged into the profile in 7days and it is still up. he said he cant find the password! but since then, everything has been good. He comes home at the end of the week.. i still want to get him drunk and ask him about it though!

Honey are u sure u just don't want to believe him. Just don't hound him it might make him mad u will not listen... KWIM? Good luck :hugs

I missed the first post so sorry for being confused. Question though...why do you have to get him drunk to ask him? (I'm guessing maybe that was in the first post).

:agreeHoney are u sure u just don't want to believe him. Just don't hound him it might make him mad u will not listen... KWIM? Good luck :hugs

I missed the first post so sorry for being confused. Question though...why do you have to get him drunk to ask him? (I'm guessing maybe that was in the first post).

:agree When I read this thread I was like, "wait, you have to get him drunk to get the truth out of him?" That doesn't sound healthy or like you have a relationship based on trust.

:agree When I read this thread I was like, "wait, you have to get him drunk to get the truth out of him?" That doesn't sound healthy or like you have a relationship based on trust.

ok glad i wasnt the only one lol

I think I got this rite. He says his friends put him on a dating website and he was recieving emails over it the OP was upset, and he says he never did it. She said that all that there was in his email- when she checked?- was just her and Napster, and thinks if he id drunk he will spit out the truth. If he was on this site to hook up w/ more girls or not. Is that right? I am sorry if I got it wrong

i agree with the other ladies, if you trust him and his honesty why would you want to get him drunk to get other info out of him? i think if you really trust him, you should just let it go and move on or get out of this relationship if you feel the trust is gone. imo once the trust is gone, so is everything else.

Honey are u sure u just don't want to believe him. Just don't hound him it might make him mad u will not listen... KWIM? Good luck :hugs

:agree

:agree When I read this thread I was like, "wait, you have to get him drunk to get the truth out of him?" That doesn't sound healthy or like you have a relationship based on trust.

yup

If you don't trust your SO, then how are things ever going to work, ESPECIALLY with deployments and such?!? :confuzzle