So hubby will be home hopefully in a month or two. Starting to feel a lil anxiety of his return. I keep asking him when I talk to him if hes going to be any different when he gets home. Would love to get some info of what others have experience from the return? I guess I keep hoping things will be the same. Who knows maybe they will be and I'm just freaking myself out. I get so excited when I think of him coming home.......Then my mind starts to wonder. I hate that. To much time to think. Love any input you can offer. I know two people aren't the same. But would love a lil insight. Take care...

bump. I'd like to hear this for myself.

Hmmm Now I want some answers! Very good question!

I want to reply in the general sense that people ALWAYS change. What matters is how you both will choose to cope with it...You're different too, I'm sure? I'm a big proponent of third party counseling. Go see a therapist, clergyman, etc if you feel you need some assistance...both before he gets there and after...Good luck :hi

That's something that DB and I talk about a lot. What we came to is that we're both individuals, and individuals have their own stories. We all weave these individual stories, and then we share them and grow closer and stronger together, like an integrated tapestry. Sure, he will have changed. You've probably changed too. The incredible thing is that oftentimes we can love each other for our quality of change, or for our growth together.
Also, I'm a big fan of counseling. A third party perspective always really helps give you a view from the outside, and can help put you on a really healthy path.