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Victoria
04-10-2008, 06:12 PM
incoming.....:D

Just trying to see how "common" it really is...

The answer is no for me...

MomWifeMe
04-10-2008, 06:13 PM
Ughhhhh the wait.......:)

harrisonsdream
04-10-2008, 06:14 PM
nope

Victoria
04-10-2008, 06:14 PM
Ughhhhh the wait.......:)

HUSH!!! :P :lol

CAmom4721
04-10-2008, 06:15 PM
:no Nope.

*MedicsHeart*
04-10-2008, 06:15 PM
No

Kris
04-10-2008, 06:16 PM
I got involved with dh about two weeks before I turned 18 but he was not in the military so I choose other

Peekaboo2487
04-10-2008, 06:16 PM
Nope. I was actually older than he was. And I was already 18 when he left for basic.

Gillian_Angela
04-10-2008, 06:16 PM
HAHAHAHA yes with DB. I'm 19 now, but we've together 3 years.......we didn't do any :sex b/c I wasn't comfortable with it (I still had my vcard). We waited almost a year and a half after being together. So I was legal by that time :D

jlbecker
04-10-2008, 06:17 PM
with a service member?? nope.

Kaymara
04-10-2008, 06:17 PM
I dated a sailor when I was 16.

MomWifeMe
04-10-2008, 06:17 PM
I will probably be beat down to hell for this one....Yes, I have. When I was 17 I dated a marine that was 19.

rosebud*
04-10-2008, 06:17 PM
Technically yes, we were dating before he joined the military. well before, he joined the military but I was still underage.

MarineLover
04-10-2008, 06:18 PM
Yea, I was underage when I got involved with my man.

=Mrs.AiNokeA=
04-10-2008, 06:18 PM
Nope I'm older than my DH. :)

Victoria
04-10-2008, 06:18 PM
with a service member?? nope.

HAHA!!! *I* fall into THAT category. :giggle

Brandi
04-10-2008, 06:19 PM
Yep yep, I was already living with Jason full time by the time I was 17 :) So, yeah, there was some "romance" involved in there :lmao

PrincessBlue505
04-10-2008, 06:19 PM
I was involved with him while we were both underage, but he didn't become a service member until we were both of age (19 actually).

MomWifeMe
04-10-2008, 06:19 PM
Actually, I went to High school on a military base...It was going on A LOT!!!!

Cheesecake's
04-10-2008, 06:21 PM
We were both 18 when we started dating

cricketswife
04-10-2008, 06:21 PM
i voted no. dh and i have been together since we were 13...so i guess...technically yes. but we were engaged and married before he left for boot camp at 20.

Victoria
04-10-2008, 06:22 PM
Actually, I went to High school on a military base...It was going on A LOT!!!!

LOLOLOL!!!! EEEEEKKK!!! Makes me scared to have a daughter...LOL!!!!!!!!

MomWifeMe
04-10-2008, 06:25 PM
LOLOLOL!!!! EEEEEKKK!!! Makes me scared to have a daughter...LOL!!!!!!!!

I remember being considered cool to date someone in a uniform....Underage Tag chasing.

UGHHHH I have 2 girls!!! I am going to have a heart attack when its time from them to date. Nope never dating.

luvmysoldier2007
04-10-2008, 06:26 PM
yes i was

Caimbrie
04-10-2008, 06:26 PM
Nope :D I met my husband when i was 19.

SnarphBlat
04-10-2008, 06:27 PM
Umm...nope!

Nikki_D
04-10-2008, 06:31 PM
Nope. I met DH when I was 23. The only other military that I dated was a marine, but I was 19 and he had already had a couple years in

HollySunshine
04-10-2008, 06:34 PM
yes my first guy that I dated that was in the service I was under age

ali1005
04-10-2008, 06:35 PM
nope :)

breechum
04-10-2008, 06:35 PM
Nope. I just turned 19 when I met Damon.

Laura48
04-10-2008, 06:36 PM
Nope, not here.

missjenn00
04-10-2008, 06:36 PM
nope.

Shaky
04-10-2008, 06:37 PM
Nope

Dragonfly76
04-10-2008, 06:38 PM
Nope.

Miss B Hav'n
04-10-2008, 06:42 PM
No.

lacy+chk
04-10-2008, 06:52 PM
nope...i was 22 :D

mpwife2007
04-10-2008, 06:57 PM
No :no My first husband and I were married before he joined the military.

Wicked
04-10-2008, 06:58 PM
My first boyfriend was a Marine while I was in high school. We had known each other for years and starting dating after he came back home to visit from Pendleton. I was 17 and he was 18. We weren't that serious though, and it seemed like a normal long distance relationship to me. The Marines weren't really a big part of it outside of being the reason why he was living in California.

I was 22 when I met and married Adam. Definitely not underage. :lol

erickson007
04-10-2008, 07:00 PM
:yes i was 16 when i got involved with DH

Crystal520
04-10-2008, 07:03 PM
That would be a yes for me. DH and I started dating right before he signed that dotted line. I turned 18 shortly after that though.

*Samantha*
04-10-2008, 07:03 PM
Nope

JoyS
04-10-2008, 07:05 PM
I put other because we were involved about a year before he enlisted but yes is also correct
We started dating when I was 15 he was 17 almost 18. We didn't sleep together until I was 17, a few days from 18 so I would still have been underage and he'd been in the service for about a year and a half at that point. So if romantically means simply sex then yes but if it means anything else then no, he wasn't in the service at the time :giggle

HEIDI
04-10-2008, 07:06 PM
I dated a sailor when I was 16.

me too.....

dustins-baby
04-10-2008, 07:08 PM
Yep same guy im with now

Rain.
04-10-2008, 07:09 PM
DH is my 1st military man and he joined after we got married.

BLBnJVB3
04-10-2008, 07:10 PM
No. I was 18 when I met John who had done 4 yrs. prior to us meeting. I was 19, almost 20, when he rejoined.

Emmy
04-10-2008, 07:13 PM
Nope.

Donna
04-10-2008, 07:13 PM
We dated off and on through high school. But the last time we were together that led to us getting married yes I was. I was 17 and in college.

Firefly'sGirl
04-10-2008, 07:13 PM
nope...I was 24

flangl18
04-10-2008, 07:50 PM
No, I was in the military myself.

Antonia
04-10-2008, 07:51 PM
I said other, because we were together 3 years ago when I was 16 and he was 20, lol. He didn't get into the air force until this past year so it's been 100% legal since becoming a service member! hehe

airmanssweetie
04-10-2008, 07:53 PM
Nope, we were married before he left for basic.

LoveKiss
04-10-2008, 07:54 PM
There were 2 guys that I was casually involved with when I was underage. I always swore that I would never get seriously involved with a guy in the military, up to a few weeks before DB and I got serious. I am now eating my words. PS... one of my co-workers predicted this when DB and I first started seeing each other. She reminds me of her foresight on a weekly basis. :hehe

silent_earth
04-10-2008, 07:56 PM
We didn't meet until we were 20, so were both legal!

armyfiancee
04-10-2008, 07:56 PM
No, I was 22 when I met DF and he is the only military man I ever dated.

SarahElizabeth
04-10-2008, 08:11 PM
nope

CarLooSHoo
04-10-2008, 08:15 PM
Nope I was 19 when he joined.

ash
04-10-2008, 08:15 PM
I was 16 when he and I started dating, and 2 months later when he left for boot camp I was newly 17.

MSJackson
04-10-2008, 08:15 PM
before dh i had only dated one other military man. i was 17 and he was a 21 yr old sailor.

i would like to add that dh was not military until after we got engaged.

Germanchick
04-10-2008, 08:27 PM
Nope

jen1982
04-10-2008, 08:30 PM
I was 23, so not even close to underage.

Genna
04-10-2008, 08:32 PM
Yes, our high school was down the street from the Sub base (Sub School in Groton). Senior year we hung out with a bunch of guys from base and luckily they invited DH along one night- we obviously hit it off. I was 17, he was 18.

Call us "tag chasers" or whatever~ they were just a year or two older than us.:dunno I'm sure we didn't have the best reputations running around town with a bunch of sailors. :rolleyes


What is REALLY sick is I remember being in MIDDLE school and girls bragging about dating sailors :pukey:

stephanie08
04-10-2008, 08:34 PM
nope, i met him when he was already in the army, and im older than him

goldilockz
04-10-2008, 08:39 PM
Nope. Dad would have skinned me a live and then tanned my hide.

BuBBleHeadWifE03
04-10-2008, 09:10 PM
I was 15 when I started dating my now DH and 16 when I was "romantically" involved but he wasn't in the navy till 2 years later I guess I should have said other rather than yes

Philsgurl
04-10-2008, 09:12 PM
Nope, we were dating and living together far before he joined the service but I wasnt illigal when we started to be beome "romanticly involved"

wb3690
04-10-2008, 09:16 PM
I didn't know anyone in the service until "I" joined the service.

Ashnbri
04-10-2008, 09:20 PM
:yes I was 16 and was with a guy who was 23 I think...He was in the navy and it was right before Dh and I..I was with DH soon after but he was not in the military at the time..but we were together when he was in boot camp and A school so I guess you can count him too :shrug.

Berkley
04-10-2008, 09:20 PM
Nope I met Matt when I was 18

TinkGirl
04-10-2008, 09:20 PM
Gosh no, he'd been in the Navy for 9 years already when we met, I'm a lil older than he is. ;)

Brightstar
04-10-2008, 09:33 PM
:yes I was 15..LOL

MelissaMc424
04-10-2008, 09:51 PM
No. I was 18 and fresh out of HS when I met DH!

MaggieG0721
04-10-2008, 09:59 PM
i voted no, i was 18 when we met and he was 20.

MontanaSweetie
04-10-2008, 10:07 PM
I guess that is subjective. I met him when I was 17, but I was 18 when we officially started dating.

Katie
04-10-2008, 10:21 PM
DH is my first and only! I was 18. He was 21. lol Old man.

settles
04-10-2008, 10:25 PM
when you say under-age do you mean 18, 21?

well either way the answer is :yes
me and df got together when i was 17.. he was in ROTC then...

Sweetest*Agony
04-10-2008, 10:30 PM
N to the O... No :lol

crewchiefwife
04-10-2008, 10:31 PM
yup he was 19 i was 17 but in alaska the age of consent is 16 and i was living on my own by 17

LovinMySkidKid
04-10-2008, 10:31 PM
No, my Dad had a strict rule that I wasn't allowed to date anyone in the service until I was 18, period. I was allowed to date, I just wasn't allowed to date a servicemen until I was 18. I met my husband when I was 19.

Queen Carly Jean
04-10-2008, 10:33 PM
No

tinsygrl
04-10-2008, 10:42 PM
I said no ... but when I was 17 my bf wasn't in the service anymore! so... :dunno

Jordan
04-10-2008, 11:05 PM
Yup... I met DH when I was 16 (almost 17). He was just barely 22. My parents werent thrilled about the age difference, but they really liked him. We didn't get physically "involved" for awhile, cause DH was paranoid about the age thing. Now, I am almost 25, and he is almost 30, and it doesn't seem like such a big deal.

kiwijus
04-10-2008, 11:09 PM
Yes, because we were dating at 16, and he joined when we were 17. :)

SAMSET
04-10-2008, 11:18 PM
Nope :no
I didn't know him yet

Green~Mammy
04-10-2008, 11:23 PM
No I was already in the service when I met both my ex DH and my now DH.

When I was 16 I dated a man that was 22 though for a brief while and when I was 18 (and already at A school) I dated my personal trainer at my gym he was a civilian and was 39. Both of them were very nice guys not jerks and certainly not into me because I was so young. I was very mature and behaved a lot older then I was just from having to take care of my dad and little sister. (I did not sleep with either of them either so they were not in it for the sex)

mommytobe3421
04-11-2008, 12:01 AM
i was 17 when me and hubby got romanticly involved, he was in the national gaurd

TheHeartOfOrion
04-11-2008, 12:42 AM
Yes an Army Officer but he was a butt, now I am with my Marine Recruit. Oooorah!

Pebbles
04-11-2008, 01:01 AM
no

sweetdreamer_08
04-11-2008, 01:12 AM
i had known michael since kindergarten...and in actuality, he wasn't 18 when we had gotten back together even though yes he was in the army...i had been involved with him for quite sometime before he joined...and we didn't do anything until like almost a month and a half ago

RunAwayLove
04-11-2008, 01:18 AM
not my current so but yes although at the time i wasnt aware he could get in so much trouble :dunno plus we had been together for years before he joined he just happened to be a year older then me...

Laura418
04-11-2008, 01:48 AM
haha describe "involved" :lol jk

We've been together since I was 16, waay before he was military, but not "romantically" at that point.

iowa_lady
04-11-2008, 01:56 AM
No, I was 21

Jesseeyka
04-11-2008, 01:56 AM
I picked other. Dh and I have been together before I was of age but he didn't join the military 'til after. But, I dated an army boy before him, so I guess my answer is yes. But oh wait, he was only doing ROTC at the time, so does that count? :dunno OTHER.

define
04-11-2008, 01:57 AM
Negative.

MissingB
04-11-2008, 05:21 AM
We were (are) both 19 so no...

Dani
04-11-2008, 06:42 AM
Nope

ProudArmyWifeD
04-11-2008, 07:04 AM
NO.

OneSailorsGirl25
04-11-2008, 07:43 AM
My first boyfriend ever graduated from high school and joined the Navy. We dated off and on for about 3 years (my last three in high school) and for a tiny bit into year four. But, the dork butt couldn't keep it in his pants, and we broke up because he was a cheating bastard. (but I'm over it...really). (Oh, and I didn't mention that I wasn't giving it up to him either...had to get it somewhere I guess)

LovingMyAirman22
04-11-2008, 07:50 AM
yes, i am guilty...i was underage it was about... 6 months b4 i turned 18 but he came home for a little bit right around my birthday :)
now im very legal hahha

<3333333!

TallBlondie82
04-11-2008, 08:02 AM
nope!!

HeatherNichole
04-11-2008, 08:02 AM
under what age?

I was 20 when DB and I got together....but he was not in the military yet....

Mego0427
04-11-2008, 08:03 AM
I was 20 when I met DB so no

mrs_ski
04-11-2008, 08:25 AM
Nope

sweetheartjess
04-11-2008, 08:33 AM
I was 17 when I met my ex and we got together.. he joined the Navy shortly thereafter so idk. I guess. But I picked other

wife-n-mommy
04-11-2008, 08:43 AM
ummm... I put other, my husband and I were 16 when we "became romantically involved", but he didn't joing the Army until recently and we are 21, so...

AG2Wife
04-11-2008, 08:46 AM
no, I had just turn 18 when I met hubby.
edit- wait! I did date 2 navy guys before I turned 18!! nothing serious though- just a couple dates

Alysia
04-11-2008, 02:22 PM
I seriously dated a guy in the Army for quite awhile when I was 15-16. He was 21!!! And yes, the relationship was intimate. UGH. Now I'm married to an Airman! WOOHOO!

Mrs. Villanueva
04-11-2008, 02:30 PM
Nope...

KatReborn
04-11-2008, 02:33 PM
Well it's actually yes and no. I was 16 when DH and I got together but he didn't join until this year and I was 20 so I went with no...

Treysgirl
04-11-2008, 11:16 PM
Nope, I was 21 when I got with DH.