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Jayo
04-23-2008, 06:46 PM
DH left :sadwave this AM......R&R is over........:depressed

I started :tears when I started the last load of :laundry. His clothes were in there, it's kind of like my only "proof" he was here.....KWIM?

BUT!!....I am on the back side of this freakin deployment!! :wink

Zoe
04-23-2008, 07:01 PM
oh honey im sorry you feel so sad but like you say........your on the back side of the deployment now!!!!!!!!!!! YAY!!

it wont be long til he's home !!! til then .....sending you lots of big hugs!!! xx

KevnSue
04-23-2008, 07:06 PM
DH left :sadwave this AM......R&R is over........:depressed

I started :tears when I started the last load of :laundry. His clothes were in there, it's kind of like my only "proof" he was here.....KWIM?

BUT!!....I am on the back side of this freakin deployment!! :wink

Awwww I am sorry that must be so hard to say good bye..........but you have all the wonderful memories of while he was home :)...........does he have to be gone much longer? I noticed he is Navy I didn't think they went for this long:dunno

Godders_Girl80
04-23-2008, 07:09 PM
:hugs....I can't believe it's already over. He'll be home very soon :yes

SAMSET
04-23-2008, 07:21 PM
that's exactly how I felt :( but at the same time I was happy it was over because the next time I see him it will be homecoming!!!!!!!!!!! :yay

:hugs and :yay for being on the countdown to his homecoming too!

I hope you guys had a great time during his R&R

PeppermintRei
04-23-2008, 07:25 PM
DH left :sadwave this AM......R&R is over........:depressed

I started :tears when I started the last load of :laundry. His clothes were in there, it's kind of like my only "proof" he was here.....KWIM?

BUT!!....I am on the back side of this freakin deployment!! :wink

:hugs I know what you mean -- I still have a sweater that I refuse to wash because it smells like him and it proves he was there.....

But hey--it's all downhill from here---okay...maybe it's flat...or just a slight uphill? Either way--you're counting down 'till he returns for a longer time than 2 weeks!

Jayo
04-23-2008, 07:25 PM
Awwww I am sorry that must be so hard to say good bye..........but you have all the wonderful memories of while he was home :)...........does he have to be gone much longer? I noticed he is Navy I didn't think they went for this long:dunno

He volunteered for this IA. He left home last April '07. Counting this 15 day R&R he has only been home a total of about 30 days. His IA ends "hopefully" by fall. This is our 11th deployment but to Hell! with it getting any easier! :depressed

Thanks for all the support!!

Missin_Him
04-23-2008, 07:33 PM
:hugehug He'll be home for good soon..

KevnSue
04-23-2008, 09:06 PM
He volunteered for this IA. He left home last April '07. Counting this 15 day R&R he has only been home a total of about 30 days. His IA ends "hopefully" by fall. This is our 11th deployment but to Hell! with it getting any easier! :depressed

Thanks for all the support!!

Oh wow..........that must be so hard..........and 11 deployments to boot. You deserve massive hugzzzzzzzzzzz and pats on the back you are one strong cookie!!!!!!!!!!! I am so sorry you are feeling depressed, I know I would be also :(. But start your countdown :) you both are an amazing couple to have endured all these sepperations. I am in awe of women like you!!!

:hugehug:hugehug

BrittanyJo
04-23-2008, 10:45 PM
holy jesus, 11th deployment? :hail I know how hard that first day is but you are incredibly strong. You are in the home stretch!

lorie1482
04-24-2008, 02:05 PM
My goodness 11 deployments!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Hats off to you!!!!!!!!

Holly M.
04-24-2008, 02:07 PM
your doing well it seems. Just think next time you see him it's for good. No two week crap!

phantomfg
04-24-2008, 02:16 PM
I would have cried too on seeing those clothes in the dryer. It was a trigger to your emotions and you had a normal response.

So, what can you think of doing now to make yourself feel better? Any chance you can get out and shop a little? Or, go to a salon/spa this weekend? Is there something you could do to take extra special care of yourself? You sooooooooo deserve it right about now.

:hugehug

Fidzy
04-24-2008, 02:18 PM
DH left :sadwave this AM......R&R is over........:depressed

I started :tears when I started the last load of :laundry. His clothes were in there, it's kind of like my only "proof" he was here.....KWIM?

BUT!!....I am on the back side of this freakin deployment!! :wink

That's a great way of looking at it :tu
I hope you had a great tiem with your husband during R&R :)

torie.
04-24-2008, 02:21 PM
:hugs Yay for being on the backside of the deployment!! :) I hope you had a wonderful R&R. I know what you mean about doing that last load of laundry. He left his towel at my house (I live in cali and he lives in Germany/Texas) and I never washed it... I have it folded in my cupboard as my reminder of R&R.

Jayo
04-24-2008, 05:23 PM
Thanks again all for the support.......this one is a rough one but I"m making it! :wink

Tango'sGirl
04-25-2008, 02:04 PM
:hugs You are an inspiration to us!

JKirstiH
04-25-2008, 05:29 PM
:hugs..I hope this end goes quickly!!