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FutureWife06
05-16-2006, 04:52 PM
My fiance is trying very hard to get into officer school. But my concern is this- He told me that we can't get married until he is finished because he says that you can't be married for the school he is applying for. Is this true? If so is there a website for me to look over. I'm sad because I really want to be with him and be his wife:( but at the same time this is a really "Mature" decison considering some things he has done in the past:rolleyes . I almost broke up with him cause all he said was "we'll get married in 4 years" and no real details. So now I have my facts and just wanted some truth about the school cause maybe he misinterpeted what he was told about being married if not uumm, I guess I'm waiting!:dunno . I need a hug!

Nicole1788
05-16-2006, 05:18 PM
I heard about not being able to be married in officer school, im pretty sure it is true. :( sorry wish i could help you out more, i dont know any sites or anything but i have heard of that and im pretty sure it is true.

ash
05-16-2006, 05:23 PM
i am pretty sure at the academy they cannot have dependents i dont know about reg. office schooling though.

:hug here is a hug!

Purplekittie
05-16-2006, 05:36 PM
hmm i havent heard anything about that but i can offer a hug!!

:hugs

CMPCAP
05-16-2006, 07:02 PM
If you are talking about the Naval academy, I think he can't be married. I know one of the ladies I used to work for got married right after her other half graduated from it.

=Mrs.AiNokeA=
05-16-2006, 07:09 PM
:hugs :hugs :hugs :hugs :hugs :hugs :hugs :hugs :hugs :hugs :hugs Sorry it's the best I could do from where I am... hope everything works out.

*Dawn*
05-16-2006, 07:51 PM
If hes trying to get into the academy I heard he can't be married, but its hard to get into the academy from the fleet, they only take a few every year. If hes trying to get into OCS..he CAN be married. But to get into OCS he already has to have atleast his 4 year degree. If hes trying to get into STA-21 he CAN be married aswell. So you might want to find out what officer program hes trying to get into. Good Luck!

CoffeeGirl
05-16-2006, 07:56 PM
:hugs :hugs :hugs

JKirstiH
05-16-2006, 08:00 PM
If hes trying to get into the academy I heard he can't be married, but its hard to get into the academy from the fleet, they only take a few every year. If hes trying to get into OCS..he CAN be married. But to get into OCS he already has to have atleast his 4 year degree. If hes trying to get into STA-21 he CAN be married aswell. So you might want to find out what officer program hes trying to get into. Good Luck!
Yep lot's of guys in OCS were married:) Good luck:)

KDMatthews
05-19-2006, 07:16 PM
My dh went to the academy and it's right you can't be married in there...but the regular officer school...I'm not sure about.

Caimbrie
05-19-2006, 07:24 PM
Sunnygirl will know this!

Jennygirl
05-20-2006, 11:03 AM
I know any of the academies i dont think you can be...My husband went to the citadel and he couldnt be married...But when he was in STA-21 there were tons of married guys, as well as when his friend was in ocs

KDMatthews
05-25-2006, 01:15 AM
I asked my dh this question and he said guys in OCS can be married

JKirstiH
05-25-2006, 09:01 AM
my dh was married during ocs