Hey gals

We r surviving our first deployment DH left almost 3 weeks ago and im miss him like crazy.
Im 7 weeks pregnant now and we r SO happy we found out that we r expecting 2 days before DH left :)
im doing "okay" but there is this chick living right next to me her DH is in the same unit as my DH and she told me were our guys r going and she said stuff like" thats the worst place the army could have send our DH´s" and i was like HELLOOOOOO im pregnant this is my first deployment i KNOW my husband is in a dangerous place i dont need u to tell me that everytime we talk ....gosh and then she was like "i guess my husband wont make it back this time...." and that they would have 3 life insurance and that she would get almost a million dollars... i was SHOCKED i cant believe shes talking like that about her DH

i dont know what to do like i said shes living right next to me and shes coming over almost every day and im just zu nice to say "hey **** shut the fuck up and leave me alone"

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I am so sorry your neighbour is being stupid. Congrats on your baby and I hope the time goes fast for you and your hubby coming back. :yes

Some people can really be insensitive. I hope her husband knows what kind of person he is married to.

Yeah, some people need to just keep their mouths shut!! And you honey, stay away from her. Good luck with everything!!!!!!

What a bag! I can't stand people like that. Have faith in your man's training and whatever else you believe in. He'll be okay. How long is he gone for? Or did I miss that? Congrats on being pregnant :)

congrats on the baby, you will totally get through this. This is my DH first time overseas, and I went through a period like your neighbor. It sucks, but I guess it is just a bad way of preparing yourself for the worst. I quickly learned this will drive you insane, but this is obviously her current method of coping with the situation and she might think by getting you to think this way she is helping you too. Or she could be a thoughtless bitch, but let's hope for the best. You just need to let her know hearing her talk like that does not help you AT ALL and ask if she could please keep those feelings to herself. I tell myself everyday, this too shall pass . . . and think of the beautiful baby you will have in less than 8 months!!!!

Congrats on your baby, but BOO to your neighbor! I can't believe someone could be so insensitive :( I'm sure the baby will help keep you busy during the deployment. Holler if you need anything. :hugs

What a bag! I can't stand people like that. Have faith in your man's training and whatever else you believe in. He'll be okay. How long is he gone for? Or did I miss that? Congrats on being pregnant :)

first of all thanks girls
my husband will be gone for 15 months.
i try to keep myself busy and thanks to my lil daughter (she turns 3 tomorro) its working.
I know my husband is well trainied and i know he is coming back to us :)

Wow you have a lot going on. :Hugs Congrats on the new baby! How exciting?! As for your neighbor, it may be her (odd) way of preparing herself for the worst, but she certainly does not need to share such thoughts with you. It's hard to tell someone to shush, but that may be your best bet. Maybe she needs to be reminded of how well-trained and level-headed your guys are. Who knows? Some people... ugh.

i dont know what wrong with her. i told her that we had problem with our bank (our money was just GONE for some reason ) my husband told me he didnt touch it at all and i believed him. She was like Ahhh i bet he is spending all ur money and i bet he will be cheating on you. And i was like WTF dont talk like that about my husband he is not like YOURS (her husband took almost all the money out of theyre account and he spend it all) she is just so .... AHHHHH i cant even find words... We found out were all the money went and i was like see my husband would NEVER do stuff like that to me she was pissed as hell thou ..

Hey,

Im guessing your hubby is Baumholder too like mine! Trust me some people are ignorant and stupid ... some wives here try saying same things to me. Makes me so mad ... I ummmmm love my Hubby and actually care about him!

You will be fine, i thought i wouldnt at all ... but past few days ive realised I can make it. I have other issues though, my Hubby isnt right at all so its different to your scenario.

Anyways if you are from here and im not total wrong about where you are lol let me know if you ever want to meet up!

Congrats on your pregnancy, did you know Baumholder has 1000 pregnant women due in Dec/Jan lol its insane!

Dawn
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DANG r u serious lmao ya my husband is in baumholder but we r living in neubruecke i moved there 1 week before DH left im original from Germany (Trier) but i wanted to live on post u know its much safer and u have alot of girls in the same situation