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retrvinfool
05-10-2008, 10:19 PM
sneaks up on you when you least expect it

you look up at the door and see his broad shoulders filling it and imagine him saying "Hi baby how was your day" and then you blink and he isn't there at all

or you are washing the dishes when that song comes on, you know "the one" by Tim McGraw, and you close you eyes and wrap the dishtowel around your hands and clutch the sink and let the silent tears just wash your cheeks until its over then you whipe your face and get on with those damn dishes

maybe your like me and just the moment that you are teetering on the brink of sleep you can actually convince your mind that he is there. that the weight of the blanket is his arms draped around you. That the fresh smell of soap and shampoo is from him not from you on your pillow and you smile and drift off only to find in the bright sun of morning that he's not really there and you indulge yourself that 30 seconds of self pity before dragging to the shower

UGH these deployments when clocks tick too slow, postal workers know his APO and your name by heart, dinner is alone in front of the TV and out of a box, Sat night means another movie on the couch, you just miss him no matter if he has 14 months or 14 days sometimes it doesn't seem to matter because the worry hangs there every minute he's away and it doesn't discriminate from day 300 or day 3

May they all be tucked in safe tonight where ever they are and know how much they are loved

Fidzy
05-10-2008, 10:23 PM
:hugs oh my gosh, you totally made me cry. that is so, so true.

Missin_Him
05-10-2008, 10:26 PM
:hugehug :)

amazinggrace
05-10-2008, 11:03 PM
:tears :tears :tears :tears :tears

:hugehug :hugehug :hugehug :hugehug

lemc81
05-10-2008, 11:19 PM
Ahh, Jess. Everything you wrote is so true and you made me tear up. He'll be home safe and sound soon. You're going to get your Notebook ending. :hugehug

SAMSET
05-10-2008, 11:23 PM
everything you said is so true :sigh

bethanybabe
05-10-2008, 11:23 PM
That made me cry. Everything you said is so true. :bigsadhug

ChristyC
05-10-2008, 11:24 PM
:hugehug

~*~Katie~*~
05-10-2008, 11:29 PM
:tears:tears:tears:tears:tears i am bawling like a baby. i feel your pain :tears:tears:tears:tears:tears

HanlonsGirl828
05-10-2008, 11:31 PM
That made me cry. Everything you said is so true. :bigsadhug

same here.... :bigsadhug

KevnSue
05-10-2008, 11:47 PM
That made me bawl!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ugh!!!! I have a lump in my throat now.

Everything you said hit the nail on the head.................hugzzzzzzzzzz you.

missk
05-10-2008, 11:48 PM
very sweet!

Missing Pokey 17
05-11-2008, 12:10 AM
Way to make me cry :(

hollyrhodes
05-11-2008, 12:27 AM
:sigh so true :tears

cllgefrk13
05-11-2008, 12:48 AM
Oh girl, that was wonderfully written! I just had a dream last night about us being together and i could have sworn when i woke up he was here...i could still feel him on my lips...then I look around and I remember he's not here. Ugh. I can't wait for this depolyment to be over!

:hugs :hugs

martiemullet
05-11-2008, 12:52 AM
beautifully written and exactly right.

Devaness
05-11-2008, 03:59 AM
Oh man, that was beautiful and made me tear up. It has been a bad 'missing him' weekend.

amanda.miller
05-11-2008, 04:25 AM
:bigsadhug
i'm about to cry. this is sad but very true.

RunAwayLove
05-11-2008, 04:37 AM
:tears

USAF_SF_Wife
05-11-2008, 09:29 AM
Aww Jess. You always seem to hit the nail on the head. That definitely made me teary. And so very true. :hugs

Rainbow Brite
05-11-2008, 09:30 AM
:tears & :hugs :sigh

proudofmysailor
05-11-2008, 09:32 AM
Wow! That hit it completely, and I am just weepy as I write this. That was beautifully written and so completely it. Ok, I have to go get a tissue.
:hugs

TallBlondie82
05-11-2008, 10:26 AM
you are great...i love you sweetie

Godders_Girl80
05-11-2008, 01:20 PM
:( :yes :hugs

LoveKiss
05-11-2008, 07:23 PM
Soo true, but I doth protest..... when I'm in bed, the weight of the blanket is his arm around me. :yes

Gillian_Angela
05-11-2008, 07:25 PM
:tears

Made me miss DB so much and he isn't even deployed. We're just 10 hours away.