View Full Version : R & R soon, excited but filled with anxiety....


Dani17
05-14-2008, 03:55 PM
So I haven't posted in ages. I've just been kinda lurking. I never had anything important to say because I don't hear from him much, so posting just kinda depressed me. I don't know if that makes sense...
Anyway, he will be home very, very soon. I know I can't say just when, but it's right around the corner. I am soooooo nervous for him to be home again. I mean I am sooooooooooo excited to have him home for 2 weeks also. I'm just kinda freaking out about the whole thing.
Do you other ladies get the same feelings ever? I mean I haven't seen him in months.... What if he's different, what if he isn't attracted to me anymore? The list of my worries goes on and on. I just don't know how to cope for the time before he comes home anymore.

I feel like I'm going nutso....

Help!! :wow

Dani1409
05-14-2008, 04:03 PM
Hey Dani!! I was wondering where you ran off to!

I think it's normal to be nervous, but like my DB says to me all the time, some things just don't go away. I don't think you have anything to worry about! He obviously loves you and is so attracted to you, or he wouldn't be willing to be in such a long distance relationship. It does feel weird for not seeing him for so long, but I'm almost positive that the second you two see each other it will be like love at first sight all over again. :)

Can't wait to hear how it goes!!

Dani1409
05-14-2008, 04:04 PM
Hey Dani!! I was wondering where you ran off to!

I think it's normal to be nervous, but like my DB says to me all the time, some things just don't go away. I don't think you have anything to worry about! He obviously loves you and is so attracted to you, or he wouldn't be willing to be in such a long distance relationship. It does feel weird for not seeing him for so long, but I'm almost positive that the second you two see each other it will be like love at first sight all over again. :)

Can't wait to hear how it goes!!

cerau2
05-14-2008, 09:03 PM
I was nervous wreck but the moment I saw him all those worries vanished.

Zoe
05-14-2008, 09:13 PM
right now im all about the woot woot!!

but i know possibly on my 23 hrs of flying time to get to my SO side the nerves will kick in!!

dont get me wrong when we talk i am definitely aware of how different he sounds.......i put this down to he's been with noone but men for 5 months and him just being Ryan the soldier . I just have to believe he will turn back into being the Ryan i fell in love with as soon as he kisses me!

either way, im just so happy to be in his arms, i will make sure we have the best r&r possible!!!!!!!! :D

CJSmith
05-14-2008, 09:16 PM
I remember the last time I picked my DH up form the airport (was the DB at the time) I was a nervous wreck! But that moment when you first seem him in the flesh, not just a disembodied voice on the phone, it is the BEST feeling ever. It's so worth all the crazy anxiety! Any doubts or reservations you have will be looonnnng gone immediately when you see how happy he is to see you! GOOD LUCK! This is a happy time! Mine's coming home soon too! :bliss

MikesWifey
05-14-2008, 11:02 PM
I have 3 more weeks to wait for DF to come back from a 7 month deployment and I am scared too. I dont even understand why. But Im with you on that.

amazinggrace
05-14-2008, 11:09 PM
completly normal...but once you see him and feel his arms around you...you will be fine :bliss

TallBlondie82
05-15-2008, 07:26 AM
first off let me just say I MISSED YOU!!!!

secondly...I am having the SAME feelings as you are...db is coming home so soon too, and Im more anxious/nervous than excited...I feel awful that Im not more excited about this...

I don't know of much more to say than that...Im in the same boat