So I rang my MIL, probably not the best preson to call, but I have no one else to talk to here and we are really colse, she knows our sex life anyway. She said I need to talk to him.
SO I tried to, and I think it made things worse. He said I wasn't making much of an effort. :vent How much more of an efford do you want buddy, I mean I vertually have to suck on you to get you hard when we do have :sex. And then he said that he just wants to cum atleast once a day and jerking off to porn is a lot easier then having sex with me. FU bastard. I am seriously close to walking out on his ass.

Wow... I can't believe he said that to you.

Getting a little personal, but maybe two should play at that game. Not the porn part, but Mr. Rabbit should visit you! Then you could tell him that you don't need him either... he's too much work.

Sorry he's being a big turd!

:shock what a JERK!

what a jackass

Wow... I can't believe he said that to you.

Getting a little personal, but maybe two should play at that game. Not the porn part, but Mr. Rabbit should visit you! Then you could tell him that you don't need him either... he's too much work.

Sorry he's being a big turd!

:agree

Wow... I can't believe he said that to you.

Getting a little personal, but maybe two should play at that game. Not the porn part, but Mr. Rabbit should visit you! Then you could tell him that you don't need him either... he's too much work.

Sorry he's being a big turd!

and I would make sure he is home to see....lol!!!!!!

Wow... I can't believe he said that to you.

Getting a little personal, but maybe two should play at that game. Not the porn part, but Mr. Rabbit should visit you! Then you could tell him that you don't need him either... he's too much work.

Sorry he's being a big turd!

I concur.

and I would make sure he is home to see....lol!!!!!!
Oh no... he'd probably enjoy. He doesn't deserve to see! ;)

Oh no... he'd probably enjoy. He doesn't deserve to see! ;)


LOL...oh yea. NO LOOKING NEITHER

omg i'm so sorry honey, you need to tell him what's up! and what's will not be up if you have anything to do with it. :)

ok just trying to make you smile but for real, that's bs!

haha. i totally think you should play the game of spite and get yourself taken care of while making sure he knows what you're up to. very good idea. :D

what an ass though. i can't belive he actually SAID that. :vent

Wow what an ass!!

wow. i'm scared to get married...:(
but i'm sorry!

:wowsers what an ass...i cant believe he said that to you

wow what a jerk!

I'm so sorry he's being like this! How awful.

it sounds like there's an issue more deeply rooted than sexual issues. perhaps try talking to a counselor?

I say you go on your computer, download a bunch of porn for yourself, like sexy guys jerking off and stuff, and leave it so your DH can see it. And buy some new toys for yourself and use them every night. Maybe it'll make him realize how you feel when he does it.

Screw him!!!! If he wants to be like that, I would walk out on his sorry ass!!!! You deserve better than that!

My friend is in the same boat. She and her husband (ex military) have been married almost two years and she claims they've been intimate less than 10 times in that span. She eventually got pregnant, got really horny, and he just didn't have a sex drive, except for porn. At first it was "Well whenever I'm in the mood, you're at work" to which she said, call me! I'll come home really quick! Then it was "I'm scared to hurt the baby!" She resorted to hiding his car keys in an effort to subdue him to woeing her, but this whole thing is putting a strain on their marriage...and I just don't understand it! They're young, they're both good looking, they're newlyweds! There has to be some deep rooted psychological issues behind it. I'm sorry you're in that situation and I wish there was something I could say that would be helpful!

Ugh! :handup

Make him work for your love. Go buy a bob and play him at his own game. Don't let him watch, but.....you can let him listen :giggle

He's being a prick, I'm sorry Kay :hugs

:( i'm so sorry!!!! i hope things have since gotten better!

i know when my guy is low sex drive i just let him be for a bit until he comes to me... ?

but him saying it like this... gosh its not that he doesnt want sex... can you try to be on top more (maybe TMI) to make him less tired? did you try suggesting therapy? is there something else stressing your relationship to make him like this?

that was so mean of him to say. i'm sorry :hugs

not cool at all! i'm so sorry! i would def. just cut him off from it altogether then. if he thinks that he can talk to you like that...he's sadly mistaken. you aren't there for his every beckon call. -.-

I know it sounds mean but some guys just aren't into having sex with their pregnant wife.
Hubby and I talked about this and he is very reluctant with the whole thing even though its okay. Its just not their thing. Making him feel bad isn't going to make him feel better about it, it'll just make him feel guilty. That'll make things worse...
The porn thing is just disrespectful if he knows it bothers you. I agree with the girls that say counseling would probably be better for him

I'm so sorry honey!!!

it sounds like there's an issue more deeply rooted than sexual issues. perhaps try talking to a counselor?

:agree Sounds like he has a deeper issue then what is going on. I think you need to talk to a counselor, because it sounds like things are not getting any better. I would not play games but be honest and open and ask that he is too. I feel for you... :hugs

I can't imagine how belittled you feel, how horrible and ugly you feel as a person & i'm so sorry.. if you don't have a vibrator already, quickly go down to city hall and change it to your middle name.

(regarding the fact i don't know 'all the facts' of your situation) maybe that's just it... maybe you NEED to stop seeing this in black in white.. have you tried doing anything-- in front of him? My husband doesn't get me off, I admit it, I have to use a clitoral stimulator. But when I do use it during sex my husband enjoys it THAT MUCH more. I know we'd like to make him more angry and try to settle the score, but sometimes that's not the answer when that's what the other person is looking for-- for you to fuel the fire.

Thinking your pregnant, you probably aren't into this as much as a non-childbearing person would be.

:wow :oogle :tears :hugs

I am so sorry honey. I would check into counseling, like a sex and relationship counselor for you guys. There is just something so messed up about that.

what a jerk :hugs if i were you id put up a childblock on the internet without telling him the password so he cant get onto porn sites.....that is :bs.

i am sorry for what he said to you. If i was you when he ready to have sex with you i wouldnt even have sex with him and say remember when you said that you dont want to have sex with me you rather jack off to porn. I was always told that men love to have sex while the woman pregnant cause it feel different i am sorry for getting TMI.

men are suck idiots