View Full Version : I need some good vibes ladies


FTCWifey
05-20-2008, 06:05 PM
I had my ultrasound and everything was going great. She is still a girl, and as beautiful as ever and the tech got all of the measurements that she couldn't get last month. But while doing the scan she discovered the baby has pyelectasis, which is an enlargement of the kidney. It isn't really a BIG deal. It is common, and frequently resolves itself. It is also a marker for Down's but since I don't have any other risk factors I am not even considering that.

What DOES make me nervous is that DHs daughter had kidney problems (reflux) which they didn't catch until she was around 3 and she ended up needing to have surgery on her ureters. And this could be that same thing. I am a little nervous that it won't clear on it's own and they will have to operate on my little girl sometime soon after birth.

So if you could just send some good vibes or prayers if you pray, I would appreciate it. And, so would my husband I am sure, poor guy is a mess with worry.

amazinggrace
05-20-2008, 06:06 PM
:pray I hope it all resolves it self before she comes out to meet you :pray

MelissaMc424
05-20-2008, 06:07 PM
:pray I hope things resolve themselves, and she's born beautiful and healthy Kate. :hugs

Debra
05-20-2008, 06:08 PM
Lots of prayers for sure! :hugs

Lizim1981
05-20-2008, 06:09 PM
I'm sure that it will be ok. And now that they have seen this it won't take until she's three to figure out if something is wrong. So that's a good thing. And I'm glad she hasn't sprouted a penis in the last month.

FTCWifey
05-20-2008, 06:17 PM
Thanks ladies :hugs

I'm sure that it will be ok. And now that they have seen this it won't take until she's three to figure out if something is wrong. So that's a good thing. And I'm glad she hasn't sprouted a penis in the last month.

I agree that it is a good thing that they are seeing it now. Another good thing is now they have to do ultrasounds on every visit! :woot

:lmao at the bolded I'm glad she didn't sprout a penis too!

Carlye<3Sailor
05-20-2008, 06:21 PM
:hugs

Hope things turn out okay !! :D

RonniesWifeJen
05-20-2008, 07:09 PM
Oh sweetie, I hope everything turns out just fine. Are you beyond the window for an amnio? That would help you find out if it's downs I believe.

FTCWifey
05-20-2008, 07:16 PM
Oh sweetie, I hope everything turns out just fine. Are you beyond the window for an amnio? That would help you find out if it's downs I believe.

Not sure if the window is closed or not, but it doesn't matter. I am really unconcerned about that factor. I really don't think she has Down's but if she did, I am okay with that.

ilovekale
05-20-2008, 07:50 PM
i just said a prayer for you. :hugs

JudyB
05-20-2008, 07:53 PM
Lots of thoughts and prayers hun :hugs

Mommy2Bailey
05-20-2008, 07:55 PM
:pray

fitmommyof4
05-20-2008, 07:56 PM
I will pray it all resloves on it's own. Will they do another u/s to check it before she is born?

FTCWifey
05-20-2008, 07:58 PM
Thanks for the prayers and good vibes ladies.

I will pray it all resloves on it's own. Will they do another u/s to check it before she is born?

And yes, I will pretty much get an ultrasound at very appointment from now until the end.

taraw226
05-20-2008, 11:17 PM
:hugehug i hope it resolves itself! a good friend of mine has a daughter with kidney reflux. they discovered it in utero. she was on antiobiotics for a looong time and sees a urologist occasionally, but she's a-okay.

Strabary
05-20-2008, 11:49 PM
I had some similar news with my first pregancy and was a nervous wreck until I had my next ultrasound. I wasted all that time worrying and everything ended up fine. Try not to destroy yourself over something you have no control over. Just focus on the fact that you are going to have a beautiful little girl!

FTCWifey
05-21-2008, 08:04 AM
:hugehug i hope it resolves itself! a good friend of mine has a daughter with kidney reflux. they discovered it in utero. she was on antiobiotics for a looong time and sees a urologist occasionally, but she's a-okay.

:hugs Thanks Tara. If it doesn't resolve on it's own, that's what I am hoping for too.

I had some similar news with my first pregancy and was a nervous wreck until I had my next ultrasound. I wasted all that time worrying and everything ended up fine. Try not to destroy yourself over something you have no control over. Just focus on the fact that you are going to have a beautiful little girl!

Thank you! I am really not a nervous wreck about it at all. And I won't really get nervous unless the size gets up to around 9mm which is where they are talking surgery after birth. I am currently at 5. Just hoping for some goodvibes that it doesn't get that far! :D

Brandi
05-21-2008, 08:05 AM
I hope everything is okay (L)

vanvolkinburg
05-21-2008, 08:39 AM
:Hugs

mirph
05-21-2008, 10:15 AM
My thoughts and prayers are with your little one.

charm586
05-21-2008, 10:17 AM
i hope it works itself out! :pray

Margaret
05-21-2008, 02:19 PM
prays coming your way

FTCWifey
05-21-2008, 03:21 PM
prays coming your way

:hugs Thanks Margaret. It's good to have you back!