okay here goes....
i went to the bowling alley with some friends tuesday night, and somehow ended up getting a date rape drug slipped into one of my drinks...(AT THE EFFING BOWLING ALLEY!!...who does that, seriously???) Fortunately I was with friends who took me home and took care of me when they realized something was wrong...I can remember about twenty minutes very lucidly after finishing my third drink and then nothing for the next 12 hours until I woke up at 8 the next morning with the wickedest hangover i have ever experienced in my life...drug test the next day was positive for GHB and also meth and cocaine...doctor thought since ghb is homemade, whoever made it probably laced it with the meth and cocaine....thank god i was with friends who took care of me and that i'm alright, but i was apparently convulsing, vomiting for a very long time that night and then passed out on the tile floor, with my eyes rolling back in my head....

so my dilemma is, do i ever tell my boyfriend? i see him at graduation next week...or is this just something i keep to myself so that he doesn't have to worry about me when he's not here??? it's so hard when they're away and all you need to do is talk to them or have them comfort you...

he got to call me thursday night and he was like "how are you baby, are you doing good?" to which i took a very deep, silent breath and replied "yeah, i'm GREAT, how are you?"

i really need some advice on whether to just keep my mouth shut forever about this one, or if it's something i can discuss with him...if he ever finds out he'll be angry i didn't tell him...

been there done that scariest thing of my life...and yes tell him it was not your fault in any way and he will be there to support you...i can guarantee you you will dwell on this for a long time its been four years for me and i still have issues...i was taken care of like you and nothing happened to me but still it haunts me...
:hugs

im soo sorry that happened to you sweetie :hugs

i would tell him, you did nothing wrong, if he loves you he will be concerned, but happy everything is ok.

im soo sorry that happened to you sweetie :hugs

i would tell him, you did nothing wrong, if he loves you he will be concerned, but happy everything is ok.
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he loves you, if the situation was reversed you'd wanna know

ive had the same thing happen to me but the scary thing was that i didnt realize it until i was driving myself home...i got home bymyself safely but it was the scariest thing ever and i was sick for like 2 days afterwards...i would tell him, he cares about you and you are safe now so i think he will be just glad to know your ok

the lesson i learned is that no matter who you are with or where you are ppl are sick these days and will do fucked up shit so i dont leave my drink ANYWHERE....if i have to i put my drink in a girlfriends hand where i know its safe

Yeah I'd tell him. He obviously cares enough to ask how you are the least you could do is be honest. (thats not rude sounding tone at all...:-P ). I say tell him, he's your boyfriend and will hopefully someday be your husband, he deserves to know.

I Would tell him. You did nothing wrong. Good thing your friends were around to take you the hospital.......That could have ended badly :(

tell him because like you said if he found out later he would be upset...
plus you did nothing wrong..thank god your friend was there with you

thanks you guys. i will...i just hate to bring it up when he has all of a minute and a half to talk like he did on thursday...i dont want him to feel like he has to worry about me when he's going through so much himself right now!! lol, silly of me maybe

I had a similar situation 2 years or so ago. The DJ bought me a drink near the end of the night. What he didn't know was that I had already decided to stop drinking for the evening. So I split the drink with 2 of my besties. None of us got the full dose... just enough to make us wacked out and very ill. DB doesn't know about this or any of the other pickles that I've gotten myself into. He is gone... a lot... and I do not want him to worry that I can't take care of myself when he is away. If something drasic happened, I'd tell him. But the small and mid-sized clusterf*cks... well I keep them to myself. (Note: I have issues about telling anyone when things go wrong, so take this with the proverbial grain of salt.)

:yes find a good time to talk to him about it. :hugs i'm sorry you experienced that

:hugs Oh my gosh I am so sorry that happened to you!! Thank goodness for wonderful friends...I would tell him...because you did nothing wrong...but also reassure him that you are now aware of how easy it can happen and you will always stick close with friends...I am so sorry this happened!!! I would definitly watch my drink like a HAWK from now on...people can be so terrible!

im so sorry someone did this to you :bigsadhug
i would say definitly tell him about it, but wait until you see him because if you tell him over the phone he might flip out and want to come home to make sure youre ok. since youre going to see him in a week, tell him about it then and be calm about it make sure he knows youre ok now...
and please please please never leave your drink or let someone else buy you a drink...if you leave the drink when you come back buy a new one...there are some really sick, disgusting people out there. im glad your friends were there to help you out :hugs
feel better

i'd def. tell him sooner than later. it's not your fault at all and he would want to know if something serious happened to you! i'm glad you were fine throughout the night since they didn't take you to the doc till morning! :hugs