the marine officers just left.
hes gone.
he got shot in the head.
what do i do now?
i just want this all to be a dream

Oh my God. I'm so sorry sweetie. I just don't know what to say. :hugs Please PM me if you need anything at all.

oh my god!
:bigsadhug
are you ok?? do you need anything??
aw hun.. I am here if you need to talk

Oh My God! I am soooo sorry to hear this. I REALLY Am. I know you don't know me, but please feel free to PM me if you need ANYTHING! I am so sorry. I don't know what else to say. I wish I could give you a hug. :(

:bigsadhug

I have no words. They all seem so trite right now, coming from a stranger...

I just wish I could be there with you to hold your hand, offer a shoulder, give you tissues.

We're here for you...:hugs

Oh god, I am so sorry for your loss. I wish there was something I could do to ease your pain and suffering. We are all here for you. Please don't even forget that. :pray :pray :pray :hugs :hugs :hugs

i am so sorry to hear that... i wish i could be there for you

I am so sorry... :bigsadhug I wish there was something more I could do for you....

OMG!! iam in complete shock to see this post.
Omg...im so absolutely sorry. omgg i just dont know what to say. If you need anything at all let me know.


:hugs

:hugehug :hugehug Hon I'm here if you need anything..

I can't get over this. I'm so sorry. I wish I could do more to help. I'm seriously sitting here crying for and with you. I'm so sorry sweetie. Please remember we are all here for you.

omg! sweetie! :hugs
You know i'm hear for you. Myspace me if you need anything!

I am so sorry.
:hugs
We are all here for you. I can give you my number if you need to chat. I am so sorry.

I can't get over this. I'm so sorry. I wish I could do more to help. I'm seriously sitting here crying for and with you. I'm so sorry sweetie. Please remember we are all here for you.
:yes I can't even IMAGINE. it just HURTS thinking about it... how you must feel... I don't have words for this situation....

I can't get over this. I'm so sorry. I wish I could do more to help. I'm seriously sitting here crying for and with you. I'm so sorry sweetie. Please remember we are all here for you.

same here... i am just sitting here bawling my eyes out for you. im so completely sorry i cant even..wow. i cnat believe that.

:yes I can't even IMAGINE. it just HURTS thinking about it... how you must feel... I don't have words for this situation....

Seriously. I feel like someone knocked the wind out of me. I can't imagine how you must feel, sweetie. If you need anything, I'm here. If you want my number to cry or vent or talk or just sit there...it's your's.

no words. none :bigsadhug :tears

I am so sorry for you, i cannot begin to imagine the pain you're in :(

I just can't believe it. I'm at a lose for words.

I wish I could do something to make it better. Anything.

I'm so sorry although I know right now that doesn't mean much. Please please let us know if there's anything we can do.

:hugs :bigsadhug

i just can grasp reality right now.
i jsut dont want to believe it.
he told me he was coming home.
i just talked to him on monday.
we were getting married when he got home.
we were going to havea great life.

thanks to everyone. if i need anything ill let you know.

Ohhhhh my God.

i just can grasp reality right now.
i jsut dont want to believe it.
he told me he was coming home.
i just talked to him on monday.
we were getting married when he got home.
we were going to havea great life.

thanks to everyone. if i need anything ill let you know.

:hugs please do. I can't imagine how you are feeling right now. I just don't even have words to even begin to express how I feel for you. I am so sorry.

:bigsadhug omg I am so sorry, I don't even know what to say

:hugs:hugs i'm so sorry!!!!!!!! PM me if want to talk or anything! please don't hesitate! :pray

I just wish there was more I could do.

:tears I am so so sorry :sadeyes

i just can grasp reality right now.
i jsut dont want to believe it.
he told me he was coming home.
i just talked to him on monday.
we were getting married when he got home.
we were going to havea great life.

thanks to everyone. if i need anything ill let you know.

I'm here :)
:bigsadhug

i just can grasp reality right now.
i jsut dont want to believe it.
he told me he was coming home.
i just talked to him on monday.
we were getting married when he got home.
we were going to havea great life.

thanks to everyone. if i need anything ill let you know.

I'm so so sorry. I hurt so badly for you. I can't stop crying imagining what you're going through.

omg! i'm sooooooooooooo sorry!! :hugs i know words mean little now, but if you ever need anything, just pm me! i'll give a great listening ear.
:hugs :hugs :hugs :hugs :hugs

oh my gosh. I AM SO SORRY. This is terrible. Every portion of my being, every portion of my soul aches for you. I am so sorry.

:bigsadhug

<3 Kathy

:bigsadhug I wish we could all be there in person with you and give you hugs and just cry with you....we are here for you....I just am in shock. I'm so so sorry :(

Hun, I am so sorry. I'm crying my eyes reading this worried that I too am going to get that knock on the door. I am so sorry for your loss. If you need anything at all PM me.
I am so sorry again.
:gloomy:bigsadhug

you all could do one thing for me.
when you see your husbands, give them a big hug and kiss and tell them thank you for me.
tell them how grateful you are of them.
that will be enough for me.

Im so sorry. If you need anyone to talk to you have us. Im so so sorry hun.

you all could do one thing for me.
when you see your husbands, give them a big hug and kiss and tell them thank you for me.
tell them how grateful you are of them.
that will be enough for me.

I'm sure everyone will sweetie. :hugs

you all could do one thing for me.
when you see your husbands, give them a big hug and kiss and tell them thank you for me.
tell them how grateful you are of them.
that will be enough for me.

oooh you know I already am
My heart aches for you

hearing your story, makes me want to never let him go.
:hugs i'm over here sobbing for you. i'm so sorry!!!!!!!!!!

Oh hunny. My heart hurts for you. I don't know what else to say, other than I'm so incredibly sorry and I'm praying for you. If you need ANYTHING, please PM me. :hugs :hugs :hugs

you all could do one thing for me.
when you see your husbands, give them a big hug and kiss and tell them thank you for me.
tell them how grateful you are of them.
that will be enough for me.

If I could make things different for you I would in an instant. Without hesitation. We all would.

I wish I could give you a giant hug and take your pain away. :tears

am sorrry for your loss.

I am so very sorry for your loss. There are not any words that can make your pain go away. But please know that we are here for you for whatever you need. I am so very sorry:(

Words cannot express how deeply sorry I am for you :(

I am very sorry for your loss. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

:tears I am so sorry :sadeyes

:OMG OMG :hugs

I am so sorry, hon! We are all here for you. I wish there was something I could do for you. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

:bigsadhug i am so sorry for your loss. My heart dropped into my stomach, I am really sorry.

Oh My God! I am soooo sorry to hear this. I REALLY Am. I know you don't know me, but please feel free to PM me if you need ANYTHING! I am so sorry. I don't know what else to say. I wish I could give you a hug. :(

:agree

:tears I'm so sorry, I wish I could do something to take this away :sadeyes

i am [/B]SO SO[/B] very sorry.
:tears:tears:hugehug:hugehug:grouphug:grouphug

I'm so very sorry hunny. My thoughts and prayers are with you

OMGosh hun PM me for anything okay anything at all I am hear for you :tears :tears :tears I wish I could do more hun... :sadhug I am crying for you girl Please PM me if you need anything..

I'm so sorry. If I can do ANYTHING for you, just let me know. I can't imagine what you're going through right now, but I can at least be a virtual shoulder, or a virtual ear.

OMG?!?!?! WHAT?!?!?!?!?!? OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

OMG im sooo soo sorry hun. i wish there was something i could do or say to ease the pain. if there is anything i can do please PM ME

i know there is not much that i can really do, but i give you ALL of my condolences to you, and his family.

I am so sorry for your loss!! You are in my thoughts and prayers......if you need anything please email me!!

I can't even imagine... My heart breaks for you as I'm sitting here with tears in my eyes for your pain.

:hugs :unlove :hugs :unlove :hugs :unlove :hugs

Omg I am SO SO sorry for your loss!! :hugs

My prayers are with you and the families involved.

I am so very sorry for your loss. I'm feel so numb after reading all this. I'll be keeping you, Andrew and Andrew's family in my thoughts and prayers. Hugs hun....hugs!!! We're all here for you!!! :pray :pray :pray :hugs

You put on your favorite shirt of his, open a bottle of wine and cry yourself to sleep. And when you wake up, you take a shower and cry a little more. Then you go for a walk, buy a black dress and attend his funeral with grace and diginity. He served well, and he loved you. Find everypicture you can and hold them all night. I hope you have a close support system, its ok to have a friend sleep over. Its ok to be angry and mad, its ok to be hurt and sad, and its ok to turn your cell phone off. Im so sorry this happened to you. Call his mom and extend your support, maybe she will do the same. You will get through this.

omg...i am so sorry honey...i wish it was just a dream too...if you need anything just let me know

I am so sorry for your loss....sweety I am so sorry...

I'm so sorry for your loss. I don't know what to even say. :hugs

Oh...my god :tears

I dunno what to say.. I'm so sorry..................:tears .............:hugehug

*speechless*

I am SO SORRY for your loss. I wish I could say more to ease your pain but words seem so inadequate. Know that it's okay to take as much time as you need to drop everything else in your life and grieve. Know that we are here for you even if it's just for letting it all out. PLEASE pm me if you need anything and let me know if there is ANYTHING I can do. YOU WILL GET THROUGH THIS. It will take time and it will sometimes seem impossible but you're going to be okay. Tonight though, grieve. We're here...words seem so inadequate. :hugehug

OMG I am so very sorry. This just brought me to tears. I don't even know what to say. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

I'm so sorry. I don't even know what I can possibly say to make you feel better. I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers. :bigsadhug:tears

im soo sorry sweetie :hugs

i wish there was some way we could help, if you need anything let us know.
:hugs

I am sitting here crying for you.. I wish I had words but I just don't. I am so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you and my prayers will be with you :bigsadhug.

I wish there were words to take away your pain right now. I am so sorry for your loss, my heart goes out to you and his family :bigsadhug

I'm soo sorry about your loss. :hugs:hugs:hugs:hugs

I wish I had words to make you feel a little better, but they don't exist. Just take some time to yourself to cry, scream, yell, bawl, etc. Remember that he loved you, that what you had was a pure wonderful love, that he will never be forgotten and that he will always be with you. :hugs

I am so sorry to hear that!! What to do next? Talk to a counselor... talk to his parents...Did the officers go there as well or were you his next of kin on his page 2 or what not? I am so sorry for your loss, I can't imagine what you're feeling!!!!!!!!!!!

OMG I am so sorry...I cannot believe this.....please tell me you are not alone...I hope someone is there with you. Who came to the house? Someone to tell you? Are you with his family?
I hope you have someone to care for you right now:hugs

I'm so sorry :bigsadhug I hope you can get through this and have a good support system

i will keep you in my prayers hun.
i am so sorry.

I am so sorry to hear that!! What to do next? Talk to a counselor... talk to his parents...Did the officers go there as well or were you his next of kin on his page 2 or what not? I am so sorry for your loss, I can't imagine what you're feeling!!!!!!!!!!!

i wasnt on any of the paper work. the officers already came, they'll be back in the morning to tlak about arrangements.

I'm so sorry you're going through this!! :( Do you live with his parents?

is someone there with you?
I am just worried you are there alone. Did it happen today? I hope they were able to offer you some type of help, comfort something:(

:hugs

:hugs
I'm so sorry hun

:hugs Just know there is no right or wrong way to grieve. It's something we all do differently! I won't wish for the pain to go away because I know how difficult losing someone very close to you can be. I will wish that you will have the best memories of him living on through you. That you will be able to remind everyone of the wonderful things he did for all of us. I will pray that his family and you will know the love he had for all of you. I will pray that everyone will remember the heroism and valor that he displayed with his service to our country. You were and always will be a part of that. You supported him and in return supported all of us! Heroes die on the battlefield and heroes live on through them on the home front!

My heart is aching for you and my tears are falling with yours! I can't begin to imagine the pain, but if what I'm feeling now is just an ounce I wish I could take some of yours away for you! :hugs

:pray :pray :pray :pray :pray

Please feel free to PM me if you just need a shoulder. PLEASE!!!

No words will make this easier for you - but I am so incredibly sorry! I may be a stranger to you but you are in my thoughts and prayers- and I will be praying that you have the strength to endure this as we all know you do.

:bigsadhug

I'm so sorry. :no

:bigsadhug

i am so, so sorry!!!! My prayers are with you.

I don't know what to say..i'm so sorry hun many many :hugs and :prayers to you

Holy crap. I am sooo sorry. I really am. I wish I knew you better, but when you are ready and not before. PM if you need anything. You are living the nightmare we all fear, but you are not alone. :hugs

i'm living with his parents right now. i'm just so numb. i have no idea what to think.

:unlove I am so sorry for your loss. There is really nothing that I can say other than that. I really don't know what to say. You sound like you're in shock too. I really hope someone is there with you and you're not alone. I just wish there was someway I could help with the pain..the loss of a loved one is never easy. I'm going to be praying hard for you and hope that you'll be okay. :hugs

All I can say is I truly am sorry for your loss.
:hugs x10000000000000000

i'm living with his parents right now. i'm just so numb. i have no idea what to think.

I'm so so so sorry sweetie.

I am so sorry. I wish I had some words to take away your pain. Just know that we're all here for you.

Oh hun. I'm sitting here bawling me eyes out. I'm so so very sorry for your loss. I'm not sure if you're a Christian or not, but I just wanted to share these verses that have helped me through some very difficult loses and times.

"For God loved the world so much that he gave his only Son, so that everyone who believes in him may not die but have eternal life." -John 3:16

"For God has said, 'I will never leave you; I will never abandon you.'" -Hebrews 13:5

If you need someone to talk to or pray with, please PM me. I'd be willing to pray with you over the phone. You, your family and his family are in my prayers.

omgoodness... i hardly know what to say either but i am sooo sorry for your loss. you and his family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

OMG! I am so sorry. My heart really goes out to you!

wow you and his family are all in my prayers.

oh my gosh hunny im so sorry :hugs were all here for you

omg I am sooooooo sorry!!! :( :( :( You will be in my thoughts!!!!

Don't hold any of the grief, anger or pain inside.. just cry and let it out!!

:hugs :hugs :hugs

i'm so sorry. you are in my thoughts and prayers, if you ever need anything, we are all here for you.

Sweetie I am soo sorry for your and his families loss. I wish I could give you the biggest hug right now. If you need anything, you let us know. We are here for you. You can pm me anytime.

:hugs :bigsadhug

Oh sweetie, I am so sorry for your loss. You and everyone around you will be in my thoughts and prayers tonight.

Oh my god. I am so, so very sorry ... I don't even know what to say ...

I'm very sorry for your loss! :hugs I've been crying with you for 20 minutes now. You're not alone. :hugehug

:hugs I am so sorry for your loss.

I am so so very sorry for your loss. :bigsadhug

:bigsadhug I'm so so sorry. That's... that's horrible. I'm sorry for your loss. I wish I had something to say... I wish for you that this was all a horrible nightmare.

you all could do one thing for me.
when you see your husbands, give them a big hug and kiss and tell them thank you for me.
tell them how grateful you are of them.
that will be enough for me.
:bigsadhug I'm in tears over this. I'm so sorry for your loss. Because we told you we will be there for you and do anything you need us to, I will absolutely hug and kiss my SO today and everyday and tell him how grateful I am of him. I already do, but now I will do it with you in mind and your brave Marine. You have so much to be proud of and I know you will always remember all of the wonderful things from his life. :tears We're here for you.

:hugs Just know there is no right or wrong way to grieve. It's something we all do differently! I won't wish for the pain to go away because I know how difficult losing someone very close to you can be. I will wish that you will have the best memories of him living on through you. That you will be able to remind everyone of the wonderful things he did for all of us. I will pray that his family and you will know the love he had for all of you. I will pray that everyone will remember the heroism and valor that he displayed with his service to our country. You were and always will be a part of that. You supported him and in return supported all of us! Heroes die on the battlefield and heroes live on through them on the home front!
Beautifully put....

i still soo can not believe this and jus seeing this threads title puts me in tears...i cried for 2 hours for you hun no lie...i just cant believe it..i know it has to be more than hard for you...and you will be in my prayers. :hugs im absolutely so sorry hun soo sorry

I am so, so so so sorry.
There are no words.

hon i am so sorry. i am here if you ever need me, we are all here if you ever need us. hugs hon.

I'm so sorry, sweetheart. There's nothing I can think to say to express my condolances. :bigsadhug I'm so sorry..

I know that there is nothing I can say to make you feel better. Just know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and his family. :hugs

:bigsadhug I'm so sorry for you loss. :bigsadhug

I have no words for what I'm feeling, love, but I am here if you want to talk. :sadeyes

:bigsadhug

Huni i am so sorry for you loss. Grieve and let it out! If you need to just get away for awhile i can be to parker in a matter of hours! I know we dont know each other but i am more than willing to come sit at lake havasu with you and just cry!

I know i didnt know your BF but if i had to guess what he would say this would be it...

Remember me as i walk away
for you i lived and died this day
And in this moment i can recall
that as i fell i still stood tall
Into the falling night i cry
tell them i love them they know why
I am the one with arms held wide
even in death not stepping aside
For god and country i am here
your pain i hold i feel your fear
Freedom is my gift to you
as i left, this price i knew
and as the fear begins to fade
I think of those to follow me
to give their lives to liberty
i pray for strength and a bit of grace
but let me die as i have lived
leaving nothing to forgive
For I know now i have done my best

I wish so badly I knew what to say...I'm just so very sorry for your loss....You and his family will be in my prayers...

OMG, I am so sorry for your loss. At least he knew how much you loved him. He took that with him.:sadeyes

there are no words that can be said.
i'm sorry for your loss. America is sorry for his loss. My heart reaches out to you and his family. I wish there was more that could be done. Please remember that as you go through the next couple of days/weeks/months, that you have people here who will extend their shoulders to cry on and ears to vent to.

with much love,
Karol*

:tears I am so, so terribly sorry :( :( :(

I am soo sorry for your loss. Im glad youre with his family and not alone. Please draw strength from each other.

:bigsadhug so sorry for your loss. prayers for your and your family. nothing i can say can help... just lots of love your way.

im so sorry:bigsadhug

I am so sorry, my heart is hurting for you!!

I am so sorry. I'll be praying for you honey. :bigsadhug

You are in my thoughts.
I am so sorry.

I'm so sorry... :hugs :sadeyes

i am so sorry for your loss :hugs

:hugs I am terribly sorry for your loss

I am deeply saddened by your loss and I send but this meek condolence to you and his family.

As with the others, I offer my heart and shoulders to lean on should you need someone or something. Just PM me and I'll send you my phone number.

I am just so sorry this happened.

:bigsadhug I am so sorry hun

Like everyone has said...whatever you need, we are here for you..and know that even though we may not be there when you say your final goodbyes....know that we are there in spirit hun, holding your hand and helping you through that time :hugs

Many thoughts and prayers to you and his family during this time

I am so, so sorry sweetie. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

:hugs I am in shock. I know there is nothing I can do or say to make the pain go away but I will be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers :hugs

:sadeyes I am so sorry sweetie! :bigsadhug

:bigsadhug

I am so sorry! I too, am here if there is anything I can do for you! Your strenghth will guide you though this time of grief, and pull you through it.

:hugs

I am so so so sorrry. Nothing I can say will make this better, but again please dont forget you have everyone here. Everyone is in my :prays

i have no words that i can say that would help to ease your pain. everything i can think of seems trite and stupid.

please please know that you are in my prayers DAILY and if there is ANYTHING i can do for you, please PM me.

:bigsadhug my heart is breaking for you,.

OMG I am so so sorry sweetie. Please if you need anything PM me. :hugs :hugs :hugs

What?!?!?! Omg! :tears I am so terribly sorry. :bigsadhug

I am soo sorry for your loss. Im glad youre with his family and not alone. Please draw strength from each other.


:yes you said it best!!

i don't know what to say :bigsadhug :pray

:bigsadhug I'm so sorry. there are no words.

I am so sorry to hear about your loss. :hugs

I am so sorry sweetie. I wish there was something I could say or do to help you feel better.

I'm always here if you need an ear.

((HUGS)) and many prayers.

I'm sorry for your loss! :hugs

:hugs my thoughts and prayers will be with you and your family

There really are no words....my thoughts are with you.

Oh my God! I am so very sorry! I know that doesn't help at all, but I don't know what to say. I will be praying for you. Oh sweetie, my heart is breaking for you........

:hugs

:bigsadhug

I have no words. They all seem so trite right now, coming from a stranger...

I just wish I could be there with you to hold your hand, offer a shoulder, give you tissues.

We're here for you...:hugs

:agree

OMGosh, I am SO sorry. That is heartbreaking. I wish there was something, anything that could add any comfort now but it would sound so shallow.

:bigsadhug

You put on your favorite shirt of his, open a bottle of wine and cry yourself to sleep. And when you wake up, you take a shower and cry a little more. Then you go for a walk, buy a black dress and attend his funeral with grace and diginity. He served well, and he loved you. Find everypicture you can and hold them all night. I hope you have a close support system, its ok to have a friend sleep over. Its ok to be angry and mad, its ok to be hurt and sad, and its ok to turn your cell phone off. Im so sorry this happened to you. Call his mom and extend your support, maybe she will do the same. You will get through this.

I was going to suggest wine, a favorite shirt, and lots of crying too. If I were closer I'd hand deliver the wine and kleenex myself. I just can't believe it. :no It's just not fair! I am angry for you.

:bigsadhug I am so sorry, you are in our thoughts and prayers.

I have no words for you. I will pray for your SO, you, and his family.
I thank you for his service to our country and your support to him.

Jesus said, "Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted." Matthew 5:4
You are blessed with many friends and will have many rally around you here in support. Lean on those who love you, let them comfort you. It's okay to be afraid to cry, scream, yell, or just sit in silence. Don't worry about what others may think, you are the one who is grieving. If they can't handle your emotions, if they *go there* with you, then leave them and go there with people who can.

:bigsadhug i am soo soo sorry i can't imagine what you are going through. you and his family are in my thoughts and prayers

:bigsadhug I am so very sorry for your loss. Please pass my thanks and condolences on to his parents. You all will be in my thoughts. I'm just so, so sorry. I'm here if you ever need to talk. :hugs

Oh my God, honey. I wish I could do something, anything for you. Please let us know if we can. there are no words.

Oh wow,....No words. We are here for you. :pray

OMG, I am so very, very sorry. :hugehug :hugehug :pray for you... if you need anything at all, let me know!!!! I wish I had words to say to comfort you. :hug :hug :hug :hug

I am so sorry :bigsadhug

I am so very sorry.

I am so sorry for your loss.

You put on your favorite shirt of his, open a bottle of wine and cry yourself to sleep. And when you wake up, you take a shower and cry a little more. Then you go for a walk, buy a black dress and attend his funeral with grace and diginity. He served well, and he loved you. Find everypicture you can and hold them all night. I hope you have a close support system, its ok to have a friend sleep over. Its ok to be angry and mad, its ok to be hurt and sad, and its ok to turn your cell phone off. Im so sorry this happened to you. Call his mom and extend your support, maybe she will do the same. You will get through this.

This is good advice. I have no idea what to say. I am just so sorry. :(

I'm so sorry.

OMG.. I am soooo sorry for your loss. I cant imagine what your going through. My prayers are with you and your family.

I am so incredibly sorry....You are in my thoughts and prayers. I wish there was more I could say. :hugs

I am so sorry!!

I am so sorry for your loss. My heart breaks for you over and over again. Gather strength from those around you. May the pain you feel ease somehow someday. If you need anything we are all here for you.

Oh my God. I'm so sorry sweetie. I just don't know what to say. :hugs Please PM me if you need anything at all.

soory acccidental double post.

Oh my God. I'm so sorry sweetie. I just don't know what to say. :hugs Please PM me if you need anything at all.

im going to pray for you...you are in my thoughts and WE love you here.

:bigsadhug i am so incredibly sorry for your loss. i can't even begin to imagine what you are going through. i wish there was somthing i could say or to do to make this better for you. but know he died with honor. and you WILL see him again. this isn't good bye, this is I'll see you later. and i truely believe that.

I'm so sorry sweetie. Please PM me if you need anything. I'm not sure how far Parker is from Phx and I know you have his family but if there is anything I can do for you, please let me know. :hugs

How are you feeling this morning hun? Is there anything we can do to help you?

I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and his family. :pray:hugs

I'm soo very sorry for your loss :( My heart is breaking for you...please know that you are in my prayers! :hugs

wow
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OMG! :hugs I am so very sorry. If there is anything at all i can do, or you need to talk pm me.

:hugs :hugs :hugs :hugs Im so sorry! I know you are tired of hearing that by now, but this brought me to tears. Im so sorry hun :hugs :hugs :hugs :hugs

I"m so sorry...I don't even know what to say...I, and everyone else, I'm sure, are here for you if you need anything...even just to cry...PM me :bigsadhug

my god.

I'm sorry.

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I'm so sorry.

I have no words...

Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal.

You put on your favorite shirt of his, open a bottle of wine and cry yourself to sleep. And when you wake up, you take a shower and cry a little more. Then you go for a walk, buy a black dress and attend his funeral with grace and diginity. He served well, and he loved you. Find everypicture you can and hold them all night. I hope you have a close support system, its ok to have a friend sleep over. Its ok to be angry and mad, its ok to be hurt and sad, and its ok to turn your cell phone off. Im so sorry this happened to you. Call his mom and extend your support, maybe she will do the same. You will get through this.

I don't think I could even come up with words to say to you, but this is exactly the way I feel. Please please know your loved by all of us. We are here for you no matter what. I can't even imagine, but I'm totally bawling my eyes out for you. :tears

:sadeyes Oh my goodness, I just read this, and I am speechless. I wish there were words that could comfort you right now. :hugs I am so sorry you are going through this, and his family too. :hugs

I am so sorry..you and his loved ones are in my prayers.:pray

I am so sorry for your loss. Hopefully you and his family can draw strength from each other. Hold on tight to your memories of him. He is a true hero, and I'm sure he's looking down on you as your guardian angel. Stay strong....we're all here for you whenever you need us.

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I am very sorry for your loss. :sadeyes :bigsadhug

i'm so sorry for your loss....but i will do as you asked and hug my husband and tell him how much i love him. keep your faith alive.....and i will keep you and your loved one in my thoughts and prayers......again i'm sorry.....:pray

My heart dropped when I read this. I'm crying for you. I'm so sorry.

My heart is broken for you. I wish I had words for you right now but I don't. I'm so sorry sweetie!

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Oh my God. I know that there's nothing I can say to make it any better, but i'll keep you in my :pray s

My heart is breaking for you so very much. We are here for you whenever and whatever you need. :bigsadhug

Oh no...I'm so sorry :hugs :sadeyes

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i just can grasp reality right now.
i jsut dont want to believe it.
he told me he was coming home.
i just talked to him on monday.
we were getting married when he got home.
we were going to havea great life.

thanks to everyone. if i need anything ill let you know.

I am so sorry about your loss... please remember that we are all here for you if you need us...

same here... i am just sitting here bawling my eyes out for you. im so completely sorry i cant even..wow. i cnat believe that.

I am too, i pretty much broke down when I saw that she had a wedding ticker in her signature.

im so sorry for your loss.
:no and im even more sorry i cant do anything for you :[

OMG. Hun, I just saw this. I am so very sorry. I'm not even going to act like I know what you are going through right now. I know there is nothing I can say that will make things better. The only thing would be for him to be here. My heart, prayers, and thoughts are with you and will continue to be with you. Again, I am so very sorry for your loss. Many many hugs to you sweetie.

i am sorry for you....i wish i could say more....sending prayers to keep you strong to get thru it...

oh honey...i know there's nothing anyone can say right now but i am so sorry for your loss. please PM me or let me know if you need anything.

you are in my thoughts and prayers, i am so sorry for your loss.

You put on your favorite shirt of his, open a bottle of wine and cry yourself to sleep. And when you wake up, you take a shower and cry a little more. Then you go for a walk, buy a black dress and attend his funeral with grace and diginity. He served well, and he loved you. Find everypicture you can and hold them all night. I hope you have a close support system, its ok to have a friend sleep over. Its ok to be angry and mad, its ok to be hurt and sad, and its ok to turn your cell phone off. Im so sorry this happened to you. Call his mom and extend your support, maybe she will do the same. You will get through this.

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I know words don't help but I just wanted you to know how sorry I am for your loss :bigsadhug

I'm so sorry sweetie. I know that doesn't help much but I am. :tears I'm crying for your loss. :sadeyes

oh my god, sweetie i don't even know what to say. i'm so so so sorry. please PM me if you need or want anything. Even just to cry or vent.

You're in my prayers. :pray

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I'm so sorry...
I don't even know how to comfort you.
You, your loved one, his friends, and family are all in my prayers.

i'm so sorry :( :hugs

im so sorry!

:bigsadhug...I am soo sorry.

i know you have heard this 1000 times by now but i want to say i am so sorry. pennylayne said it best. let everything out. dont keep anything in. yell, scream, cry, hit something, and get mad, then get sad. military spouses are the strongest people out there. we stand behind them and get left behind. you will be ok. it will take time. we are here whenever you need us. i do not live close and i dont believe we have talked before but if you want someone to just listen i can to that. PM me and my number is avalible to you at anytime!!! im sorry sweetie!

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You are in my thoughts and prayers... (my heart is broken for you, sweetie)

I am just now seeing this. I am sooo deeply sorry for your lost. I can not imagine what you are going though but know that each and every one of us is here for you. If you need anything please tell someone.

Oh God. I just found this. I am so sorry. My heart spills out for you.

Oh sweetheart I am so sorry. Just know that we are all here for you and love you!!! :hugs

my heart breaks for you and his family...I hope that last night you did exactly what pennylane said and crawled into bed in one of his shirts with a bottle of wine...if you need ANYTHING you know we're all here for you and if we were all closer to where you are we'd all BE there for you and with you to let you cry scream yell whatever you need to do to grieve and then be there with you at the funeral as your sisters because the military makes us sisters no matter how different we all are.

OMG honey i am soo sorry for your loss and i cannot even begin to comprehend what you are going through...if there is anything at all i can do please feel free to pm me, i know we havent talked before but my number and anything i can possibly do is there for you...again i am soo sorry :bigsadhug

I am so sorry.
I'm praying for you.

A candle is burning for you and for him and for the rest of the family...just wanted to let you know.

:hugehug - I'm so very sorry for your loss! Please be assured of my thoughts and prayers for you, your family and his! Ali

I am so sorry, sweety!
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:hugs I am so sorry!

I am so sorry for your loss. You and his family are in my thoughts x

I'm sorry for your loss.

Oh gosh, I just got on this morning and see this. I am so, so sorry for your loss. This is such a hard thing hon, I know. We are all here for you and I know I will pray for you and his family. :bigsadhug

I'm sorry for your loss.my thoughts and prayers are with you and his family.

I am so sorry for your loss :hugs

My heart is breaking for you and your friends and family. I am so sorry. I wish there was something we could do that would hold you up at this time. Please know you are on the minds of so many who care and we will be here for you in the days to come. Please rely on us for anything. God bless.

:sadeyes I am so sorry for you loss. I am thinking of you and your family.:hugs

I am so very sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts.

oh Sweetie, I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. Just know a lot people are holding you in their prayers including me. Take care.

Omg! Im so sorry hun!! :hugs :hugs :hugs Pm me if you ever need anything!!

I so sorry- you, his family and friends are all in my prayers.

i just saw this omg :bigsadhugs

I am so sorry. I can't even imagine what you must be going through. We are all here for you!

I can't even imagine what you and his family are going through right now. Please reach out to us, or any others you have in the area to help you through this. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

oh my gosh :tears
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I am so sorry :(

When will the service be? Is there somewhere that if someone wanted to, they could send flowers or make a contribution in his name?

I too am praying for you. I wish I could do something more, but know that all of usl accross the U.S. are sheding tears with you. Stay strong and know he is with you always.

I am so so sorry.:grphug

This is quite belated, but I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you are holding up alright. :bigsadhug

I'm so sorry :bigsadhug I'll have you all in my thoughts and prayers. I'm here if you need anything.

:tears Oh sweetie, I am so, so sorry. I wish I could take your pain away. If there is anything you need at all just let me know.

I'm so so sorry. I'm at a loss for words to console you, but know that you are in everyone's thoughts and prayers.

I just wanted to let you know you're still in my thoughts and prayers sweetie :hugs.

Oh sweetie... I know that I'm a total stranger, but I'm in tears for you and just wanted to let you know that I'm here...we all are...if and when you need anything.

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omg....I just saw this. I'm SO sorry hun. :sadeyes This is unbelievable....:hugs

I am so incredibly sorry for your loss :sadeyes :bigsadhug

I'm so so so sorry for your loss! don't know what else to say :tears :tears :tears my heart is broken for you over this! You will be in my prayers! We are all here for you! :pray:pray :hugs

As I've said before, we need a section on here where those of us who have lost someone can go. We lost my husband's friend & very few can understand what it is like. Please know that this is going to be one of the hardest things you'll go through, but he is walking right beside you to help you through.

I am so sorry for you loss :hugs

i don't know why i haven't read this until now. i feel for you...i wish there was something i could say or do to ease your pain but i know that hard times like these are hard to overcome. we're here for you and we will offer you support in any way you need it! :hugs you're on my mind.