Well, life isnt much easier.

But I get to get him off the Plane in Muncie Indiana on Wednesday.
I get to see him one last time.

Thursday, the viewing is from noon to 8pm.
at the Baird-Freeman Funeral home, in Portland, IN

The Service will be on Friday at 10:00 a.m.
at Jay County High School, Portland IN



Thank you for your thoughts and prayers

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I dont know if you had a chance to read my PM I sent you. Let me know. :hugs

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we are all here for you.

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I'm glad you're there when they take him off the plane. I hope you are able to get some closure through all this. Lots of :hugs for you through this hard time.

That has to provide you with some solace.

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:hugs ooo hun uve been in my thoughts and prayers :hugs im soo sorry you have to go through this. I really wish you didnt have to go through all this. I wish there was something to say to take the pain away. I hope you'll be ok...i know itll be hard and you're nt gonna feel ok for a while. and i know you dont know me but Im always here if you need anyything at all pleaase dont hesitate. you can call, text, email anything. Im here to listen :hugs
take care hun

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im sorry sweetie we are here for you if you need anything. i also just found out one of my friends were KIA in afghanistan he will be going to muncie to. hugs sweetheart

Hopefully picking him up will help with your grieving process.

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:hugs If you need anything, know that we are all here for you. I pray for you and your family. I am so sorry you are going through this, I really wish there was more I could say/do to comfort you. If you need anything, PM me....I wish there was something I could do for you. Just know we all care about you.

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you will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers.

So sorry sweetie...I am amazed by your strength....I know he is proud of you.:hugs

I'm thinking of you and sending you lots of prayers and hugs hun. My heart goes out to you and I hope seeing him will help your healing process.

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:hugs im here for you if you need anything

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I wish I could just hop on a plane and come to be there with you in person. You don't always have to be strong, we are here as a shoulder to lean on. You are an honor to military SO's the world over in your dignified handling of your loss. I'm sure Andrew is very proud of you.

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I hope that getting to take him off the plane will help you, sweetie. :hugs I wish I could help more.

I wish I was closer so that i could be there to lend more support to you. :hugs

I will be thinking of you alot on those days, please know that we are all here for you if there is anything we can do for you.

Lots of :hugs and (L) (L) (L) (L)

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I hope that being able to see him will help you heal. We all love you and are here for you whenever you need us.

I still can't think about this without crying for you. I hate that you are having to go through this, I can't explain how much I hurt for you...I know that I could so easily be in the place where you are now. Know that I will be praying for you every day and I have asked others to pray for you as well. If you need anything....please don't hesitate to ask. :sadeyes:bigsadhug

Hopefully seeing him will help you get some peace of this awful situation. Take care of yourself and let his family know that we are thinking of all of you during this week.

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Wow. I didn't see the original post so I found to it catch up on what was going on. I can't even begin to express how sorry I am for what happened. I hope you know that we are all here for you for whatever you need. How are you doing? I know it seems impossible right now, but you have to take care of yourself. :hugs

continued prayers and hugs. :pray:hugs I'm hoping you get some closure this week.

I'm so sorry hun. I hope this will bring you some closure.

You are in my thoughts and prayers. ((HUGS))

Your in my thoughts and prayers hon. I saw my husband the last time at the viewing and I had to tell him goodbye. I couldn't bare to do it so instead I said, "In the Navy we never say goodbye. We say see you later.." I kissed him on the forehead, did the same to Maddie and walked out of the room. You will get through this.You are a very strong woman. If you need ANYTHING to cry, scream, vent, to just talk you can PM me and I'll give you my number. I've been where you are at. No, he didn't die in action but he still died. I know the feelings you are going through and I'd love to offer any help you may need.

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I wish I could just hop on a plane and come to be there with you in person. You don't always have to be strong, we are here as a shoulder to lean on. You are an honor to military SO's the world over in your dignified handling of your loss. I'm sure Andrew is very proud of you.

:bigsadhug

I couldn't put it any better.

getting him off the plane is the most memorable and honorable thing you will ever see.. its very hard to watch but be proud of yourself for going..

try to stay strong even though i know its so hard!

If you ever need anything we are all here for you! you and his family are in my thoughts and prayers, hopefully this will bring some solace to you ...if you need anything please do not hesitate to pm me

you've been in my thoughts and prayers sweetie. be strong. :hugs

in my prayers girl, i hope this helps you find some peace and closure :hugs

I haven't been able to stop thinking about you since your first post. I really hope you are holding up ok. I am glad you will be able to go get him off the plane :hugs

If you ever need a friend, PM me anytime

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I wish I didn't have to work or I would totally drive down there just so you would have your SOS support system right there. You continue to be in my prayers.

:hugs Again, I am so sorry :(

I wish I could be there for you!
You and I were dealing with the same issues and then life through you this horrible curve ball.
I wish there was more I could do for you and more that I could say. You'll get through this, I don't know when you will but you will some time.
:hugs times a million for you sweetie.

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Continued prayers hon. I know it will be a tough time for a while, but we are all here for you!

I just saw this and i am so sorry for everything you're going through....I have no words right now to express how much sadness i feel for you and your family...please if you ever need anything PM anytime...hopefully seeing him one last time will be able to bring you a measure of peace.. :hugs

I hope the difficult task of meeting the plane, as well as the funeral helps to bring some sort of closure to you. I know nothing will make your heart hurt any less. I am still lifting you and the rest of Andrew's family in prayer. :hugs

I'm glad you're getting the chance to kiss him goodbye. :hugs

I wish I could come be there with you for support even though you dont know me. I am so sorry for your loss:hugs

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I wish I was even remotely close to Indiana to go hug you. I'm sorry for your loss but I'm glad you get to see him once again. Stay strong. We are here for you. :hugs

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I'm keeping you and your family
in my thoughts and prayers

:pray I wish I could do more, but I have never been in that situation.
If you need anymore to talk to, vent at, or just a shoulder to lean on.
I'm here.

You are on my heart, and in my prayers. I have been thinking about you since I read your first post. I am so saddened for you, but we are all here to listen any time you need us.

My thoughts are with you.
If I lived in Indiana, I would be there.
I wish you nothing but the best

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I've been thinking of you and offering a small prayer each evening that you find the strength you'll need to carry you thru.

I spoke with my husband about you and Andrew. He asked me specifically to offer his condolences to you and his family.

We're all here for you.