sdshorty
06-22-2008, 01:53 AM
How would you feel If you were at a job where since almost the beginning you have been made to feel as no matter what you do, you are not good enough, and even though you busted your ass to do a good job, and showed results, you were still being nitpicked by your boss about every little thing, anything negative that they could possibly find?
If your boss always found something negative about you to say at your reviews, and completely failed not notice the great achievements you've accomplished in your position, which happen to way outdo any small mistakes?
If your latest review she tells you she feels that you are possibly incapable, or even have the desire, to do better?? And that the only reason that you are basically there is because she "likes you"?
Would you still feel comfortable continuing to work in an environment where you KNOW you do a good job, everyone around you praises you except your own boss who seems to only want to find any little possible negative thing about your work that she can? Where you feel like she wishes someone else was working there instead of you, where you feel like your boss has absolutely no faith or confidence in you? Where you feel like you will always just be under the microscope and micromanaged and no matter what you do you know you will never meet 'her standards'?
What would you do? Here are some choices, but feel free to add any others that you feel could be considered:
A. You give your 1-month resignation notice, and during that month find another job, which you know couldn't be too hard considering your skills and experience and education. also knowing that Summer is the slowest time of year and it would be the best time for you and for them to find someone new before the new school year started. But also with this choice, there is risk involved with the possiblity of failure to find a job within that month and struggling/being very tight for a while financially until you do find a new steady job.
B. Wait it out and see if anything you do will make things better, and just bite your tongue and keep feeling unappreciated and underrated and underpaid.
C. Just stay until you do find another job, then give your resignation notice, with the possibility that your new offer might not want to wait for you for 2 weeks to a month for you to start with them so you can give proper notice to your old job, in turn possibly losing that job prospective?
D. Other
If your boss always found something negative about you to say at your reviews, and completely failed not notice the great achievements you've accomplished in your position, which happen to way outdo any small mistakes?
If your latest review she tells you she feels that you are possibly incapable, or even have the desire, to do better?? And that the only reason that you are basically there is because she "likes you"?
Would you still feel comfortable continuing to work in an environment where you KNOW you do a good job, everyone around you praises you except your own boss who seems to only want to find any little possible negative thing about your work that she can? Where you feel like she wishes someone else was working there instead of you, where you feel like your boss has absolutely no faith or confidence in you? Where you feel like you will always just be under the microscope and micromanaged and no matter what you do you know you will never meet 'her standards'?
What would you do? Here are some choices, but feel free to add any others that you feel could be considered:
A. You give your 1-month resignation notice, and during that month find another job, which you know couldn't be too hard considering your skills and experience and education. also knowing that Summer is the slowest time of year and it would be the best time for you and for them to find someone new before the new school year started. But also with this choice, there is risk involved with the possiblity of failure to find a job within that month and struggling/being very tight for a while financially until you do find a new steady job.
B. Wait it out and see if anything you do will make things better, and just bite your tongue and keep feeling unappreciated and underrated and underpaid.
C. Just stay until you do find another job, then give your resignation notice, with the possibility that your new offer might not want to wait for you for 2 weeks to a month for you to start with them so you can give proper notice to your old job, in turn possibly losing that job prospective?
D. Other