so my fiance deployed late last night :( i dont think it really hit me yet. i cried a couple days before but now that he is actually gone im thinking maybe im in shock or something. i feel horrible but i havent been crying. i know when i get that phone call or letter i will cry like a baby!

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You'll be okay, and that is normal, sometimes it doesn't hit till later. That happened when DB left for training, I didn't cry really hard till after he left.

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Prayers are being sent your way. You can do it hun!

Hang in there! This is a wonderful place for advice and support. We're all here to help! :hug

It always takes me a couple of days to cry. Hang in there sweetie. It does get easier. :hugs

It will set in a little bit later and when it does, we're here for you. Dont feel bad about not crying though.

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:hugs Take a few days to sort through your emotions, it's totally normal.

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It's normal to be numb. It will set in over time, and you will be okay. We're here for you. :hugs

:hugehug We're here for you. It does get easier

My DB left at the same time, he's an MP...they might be in the same unit! PM me, we can support each other through this. I know exactly what you're going through. I'm only on day 2 of this deployment, and I'm walking around with this horrible empty feeling and I just want it to go away. It will get a little better though (from what I've heard).
We're all here for each other. :)

:hugs I didn't cry right away either. I was in total shock when DF left. Hang in there! :bigsadhug

we're all here for you! hang in there! :hugs