So, it was on last night so I'm assuming everyone who wanted to watch it did...but just in case someone Tivo'd it, this is a spoiler...

So Graham went home. Even though he was emotionally constipated, he was my favorite. As I sat there after the show thinking about the circumstances surrounding his ousting, it occurred to me...I have always gone for guys like that!! Anybody else know what I'm talking about?? Guys who can't tell you how they feel. DB is the only guy I've dated who has shown me lots of affection and hasn't been afraid to make a commitment. Why do we go for the strong, silent type?

Who knew a reality TV series could make me analyze my life choices? :lmao

I was sad to see him go. I think that even though he couldn't open up he probably cared about her probably more than any of the others. I think she was right in second guessing her choice.

Jason is my favorite :yes (L) I think she'll choose Jeremy though.

I was sad to see him go. I think that even though he couldn't open up he probably cared about her probably more than any of the others. I think she was right in second guessing her choice.

I know! It made me sad that he didn't open up more when she visited his family. Oh dear...if only I could live his life for him. :D

I personally like Jesse...I think their personalities click and they would have a great time together!! ;)

I was a little sad that Graham went home..but I understand her not wanting to get hurt...I truly think he cares but didn't know how to show it!!!

Also I think that whoever she did pick or does pick....will HATE seeing how in love she was with Graham...JMO

i was SUPER SAD to see Graham go home. but i knew she was going to do it. he was definitely my favorite. and my second is jason, buuuuut i kinda don't think she'll choose him in the end. but if she wants to settle down and a family, jason is the way to go!

Jason is my favorite :yes (L) I think she'll choose Jeremy though.

Me too! Do you think that may be the Washingtonian part of us talking?

I like Jesse too. I think she is a really good judge of character overall though.

I was very proud of her for sending Graham home despite her feelings for him. She said herself that she's sick of dating men who don't know what they want. Even if he expressed complete and total head-over-heels love for her in his letter, she knows every time he's upset or they argue he will just clam up like he did at his hometown, and that's something she's just not willing to deal with for her whole life. Sometimes the most incompatible people can fall in love, and sometimes love alone is just not enough to sustain a relationship.

I didn't think I would be sad to see Graham go, but it was actually kinda rough! The letter killed me. And she seemed so sad!

I love any of the other three, but I think Jason is my favorite. How cute is his little boy?!?!

Jason is my favorite :yes (L) I think she'll choose Jeremy though.

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Me too! Do you think that may be the Washingtonian part of us talking?

I like Jesse too. I think she is a really good judge of character overall though.

I thought he was cool before I even knew he was FROM Seattle!! :giggle

I do also like Jesse, I think he could really keep the relationship fun for her - I don't know why I just still think she's going to pick Jeremy.

I thought he was cool before I even knew he was FROM Seattle!! :giggle

I do also like Jesse, I think he could really keep the relationship fun for her - I don't know why I just still think she's going to pick Jeremy.

Yeah, I liked him before that too. I think we could sense it.:D

I don't think she will pick Jeremy. I think she wants to have feelings for him, but she doesn't. I could be wrong though.

I love Jason. SO sweet! Every scene with his lil guy was making me tear up.
I figured she would send Graham home. He looks like a hell of a lot of work... she seems to be looking for a guy who has it all together and is ready to settle soon.
Jesse is sweet, doesn't seem like there's something major going on with him though.
I think she and Jeremy share a bond over the loss of parents... I don't think she loves him though, but who knows.

Jason gets my vote!

I broke up with a guy I dated for 2 years before meeting Christopher, and Graham reminds me of him. Same crap over and over.... you can love a guy fiercely but sometimes you just have to sever the ties for your own sanity and well-being, because they just aren't in the right place for that relationship.

I haven't been able to watch all the episodes this time but I did catch mondays. My favorite is Jason. I actually figured just from watching the one show that Grahm was the one who would go home. She's a very emotional person, and seems to need someone who can match those feelings, and he wasn't it.

You know... she said Graham is her type of man, the type that she usually dates, maybe trying something new is what she needs to truly find love. I think Graham was SUPER HOT and I do think he cared about her but he just wasn't ready to put him self out there, probably bad timing for them?
I have been rooting for Jason since day 1 and I still am, but after watching this last episode I think she would make a wonderful couple with either Jeremy or Jason.
I can't wait till next week!