Have any of you ever had to send a red cross message to dh in NTC??

I am due to have our second child right smack dab in the middle of their rotation there.....it was supposed to be only a week or so from the end, but their training time got extended by nearly another month for some bizare reason...and I am the frg leader with no clue here! THing is I am not the only wife due and we are getting the run around from command about if they can come home for this.

I think *in my dh case* that he should be able to come home...hes a one year OIF 2 vet plus hes been to NTC 4 times already!! There is nothing to learn ther enow that he doesn't already know....what would be the big deal for him to go home and see his wife have his second baby? Grr!

Anyway, just wondering if anyone has sent a message....and how you would handle making your case to the command if it were you.