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FTCWifey
06-27-2008, 11:53 AM
:tears

One of my dearest friends, DDs godmother, lost her 2 year old son yesterday.

He was born with a very rare heart defect along with a couple of other heart issues. He had been in and out of hospital since birth and has had open heart surgery twice. We almost lost him over the Christmas holidays when he got the flu and pneumonia, he had to be revived multiple times.

But since then things have been good! It was a big hooray when he started gaining weight again, and had made it all the way up to 23 1/2lbs last week. He had even begun walking again.

Yesterday, while at home with his mother, he had an asthma attack and while momma went to get his inhaler he went into cardiac arrest. He was gone before medics arrived.

He will be dearly missed by many. His daddy was a fireman and he loved the firetrucks so they plan to do a full dress all hands salute at the funeral. All the ladders in the area have been invited.

This is a horrible picture of me, but it is the only one that I have on my laptop of him.

Connor~ December 24, 2005-June 26, 2008

http://i244.photobucket.com/albums/gg12/FTCWifey/e834923f.jpg

Teresa
06-27-2008, 11:59 AM
:hugs I am so sorry :sadeyes

Donna
06-27-2008, 12:01 PM
:hugs I am so sorry. :pray for you and his family :sadeyes

FTCWifey
06-27-2008, 12:03 PM
Thank you Theresa. I am a freakin mess here. I can't even imagine what my poor friend is going through. I could hardly understand her on the phone.

She has been through so much. Her first husband died in 2001, and I was the one to give her the news. I feel like we are connected by death. She said I was the only person she could think of to call.

brentscrystal
06-27-2008, 12:03 PM
:hugs

What a sweet boy... prayers to his family and to you as well.

FTCWifey
06-27-2008, 12:03 PM
Thank you too Donna. I know you know what she is going through. I simply can't fathom it.

glass1/2full
06-27-2008, 12:04 PM
That is heart breaking... he looks like an angel! Many prayers to you all!

browneyedbeauty
06-27-2008, 12:05 PM
:hugs :sadeyes

Valkyrie
06-27-2008, 12:06 PM
I am so sorry

kaaau
06-27-2008, 12:09 PM
I'm so sorry for you loss. Prayers of comfort for you and his family.

FTCWifey
06-27-2008, 12:10 PM
:hugs

What a sweet boy... prayers to his family and to you as well.

That is heart breaking... he looks like an angel! Many prayers to you all!

:hugs :sadeyes

I am so sorry

I'm so sorry for you loss. Prayers of comfort for you and his family.

Thank you.

ilovekale
06-27-2008, 12:10 PM
awww he is adorable...i know he will be missed by all of you. i'm sorry for your loss. my condolences go to you and his family. :hugs

Jayo
06-27-2008, 12:11 PM
There's nothing more tragic than losing a innocent child......I'm so very sorry.

Josh's_Babyx3
06-27-2008, 12:17 PM
i am very sorry for the loss. its heartbreaking.

but he looks BEAUTIFUL in this pic. just like an angel :)

MrsDarland
06-27-2008, 12:21 PM
:hugs Im so sorry you will all be in my prayer this week

Holly M.
06-27-2008, 12:23 PM
I am sorry. :hugs
I'll be thinking about your friend and her family.

CarLooSHoo
06-27-2008, 12:29 PM
Goodness, my heart goes out to you and Connor's mom. :hugs

Mommy2Bailey
06-27-2008, 01:55 PM
That is so tragic. I am so sorry for your loss. And I am sorry for his mommy too. :hugs for all of you!

*~*Cori*~*
06-27-2008, 02:06 PM
Oh Kate how heartbreaking :tears
Many prayers for you all. :pray

FTCWifey
06-27-2008, 02:14 PM
Thank you everyone. Your thoughts really do mean a lot.

NewBeginnings
06-27-2008, 02:17 PM
:pray for you and the family.. What a sweet little boy..

SAMSET
06-27-2008, 02:18 PM
That is so heartbreaking :shock I'll keep you and his family in my :pray

*lauren*
06-27-2008, 02:22 PM
:sadeyes :bigsadhug
that is so sad.

wife-n-mommy
06-27-2008, 02:32 PM
Poor baby :( Prayers for his family and friends...

Lilbear911
06-27-2008, 02:35 PM
Oh my goodness... My prayers will go out to his family, and to you as well....What a sweet little boy

Jennie
06-27-2008, 02:51 PM
I'm so sorry, what a cute little boy. :hugs to you and his family

Steph*
06-27-2008, 02:56 PM
:(

mara_jade81
06-27-2008, 03:00 PM
:( I'm so sorry to hear that, what a sweet looking boy.

JoyS
06-27-2008, 04:26 PM
I am sorry for your loss.

FTCWifey
06-27-2008, 04:30 PM
Thank you again everyone.

ali1005
06-27-2008, 04:32 PM
oh my goodness :sadeyes many prayers and hugs!!

amazinggrace
06-27-2008, 04:33 PM
Wow, Lord have mercy on that family and I pray they can find His peace in this time of desolation. :pray Eternal rest grant unto him O Lord and through the mercy of God may he rest in peace :pray I'm so sorry for the loss of this precious child. He will have no more pain, no more surgeries now. He is free to play in all of heaven.

bubbaswife
06-27-2008, 04:56 PM
:hugehug I'm so sorry.

AirForceWife84
06-27-2008, 05:03 PM
I am so sorry. Your friend and her family will be in my prayers.

ChrisTina!
06-27-2008, 05:07 PM
:sadeyes im so sorry :hugs

Shannon Marie
06-27-2008, 05:12 PM
I'm so sorry. I know how that goes. My brother had a heart condition and ended up having not one but two heart transplants. He still ended up passing away right before his 4th birthday. It is so hard.

You're in my thoughts and prayers. :pray

ChewiesBaby
06-27-2008, 07:05 PM
I'm so sorry. That breaks my heart and you and your friend (and her family) are in my thoughts. :hugs

alyssa87
07-09-2008, 02:56 PM
that's so sad.

he's such a beautiful little boy.

:hugs

Godders_Girl80
07-10-2008, 07:37 AM
Oh no....:sad eyes I'm so sorry. :hugs

Dopal
07-10-2008, 07:56 AM
:bigsadhug :sadeyes I am so sorry. You and his family are in my :pray

little.lili
07-10-2008, 08:02 AM
Poor little baby :tears

I'm so sorry :depressed

Prayers for the family and friends :pray :pray :pray