View Full Version : I'm still in complete shock right now.


SAMSET
07-02-2008, 02:29 AM
http://www.newzjunky.com/police/coplog080701sp.htm


I've never lost anyone (family member or close friend) before, until today at 5:30pm.

I'm still in complete shock. I was just having tons of fun with him and other friends just 2 days ago. I loved him. He was an amazing friend.

To have lost him this way is completely devistating, I can't even describe it. It still doesn't feel real to me, I feel like this is all one big MEAN STUPID EVIL joke. He made everyone around him laugh he was so sweet. I can't believe this....

He had finished basic training for the coast guard....an they were off having fun while he was home.

I can't understand it.

If anyone would be willing to make me a siggy to put on here or on my myspace...or both I would be so happy please just let me know :sigh

http://i30.photobucket.com/albums/c340/sarahtee16/104_0067-1.jpg

http://i30.photobucket.com/albums/c340/sarahtee16/104_0083-1.jpg

http://i30.photobucket.com/albums/c340/sarahtee16/merob.jpg

http://i30.photobucket.com/albums/c340/sarahtee16/102_3322.jpg

http://i30.photobucket.com/albums/c340/sarahtee16/104_0092.jpg

http://i30.photobucket.com/albums/c340/sarahtee16/RobsGoingawayparty2-1.jpg

http://i30.photobucket.com/albums/c340/sarahtee16/13.jpg

http://i30.photobucket.com/albums/c340/sarahtee16/39-3.jpg

http://i30.photobucket.com/albums/c340/sarahtee16/th_104_0107.jpg (http://s30.photobucket.com/albums/c340/sarahtee16/?action=view&current=104_0107.flv)

that video was just 2 days ago in Ottawa, Canada...we were all drinking celebrating...having a great time...and ROB ALWAYS was the entertainer....always. :(


I want him to come home :(

SIMMYBABEZ
07-02-2008, 02:32 AM
Wow hun :depressed I'm so so sorry :hugs

LovingMyMarine22
07-02-2008, 02:33 AM
:hugs oo sweetie im soo soo sorry :hugs im here if you need to talk :hugs im so sorry :unlove

(L)(L)(L)(L)

thistooshallpass
07-02-2008, 02:34 AM
oh my gosh i'm SO sorry. that's horrible. :bigsadhug

Hilla
07-02-2008, 02:35 AM
there really are no words...i know that kind of pain... i am sorry

NewBeginnings
07-02-2008, 02:35 AM
:hugs

kittieb
07-02-2008, 02:49 AM
oh hun... I'm so sorry for your loss :(

PeppermintRei
07-02-2008, 03:10 AM
:hugs I'm so sorry.

Amy
07-02-2008, 03:15 AM
Gosh, there's been so much tragedy for members on the board lately. :( I'm so sorry for your loss.

butterflykiss
07-02-2008, 03:25 AM
Sorry to hear that girl.

LoveKiss
07-02-2008, 06:43 AM
Hun, I'm so sorry. A friend passed in a similar way about 10 years ago. It's rough. :hugs

LuvsHarleys
07-02-2008, 06:55 AM
I am so very sorry for your loss.

Fidzy
07-02-2008, 06:55 AM
I'm sorry :( :hugs

ilovekale
07-02-2008, 07:13 AM
i'm sorry for your loss. :hugs

amazinggrace
07-02-2008, 07:18 AM
:hugs I'm sorry for your loss. :hugs

Godders_Girl80
07-02-2008, 07:23 AM
I'm so sorry Sarah....wth is going on?? I had a friend die last thursday from an apparent drowning as well....waiting for the coroners report too. :( :hugs

Teresa
07-02-2008, 07:24 AM
:hugehug I am so sorry :sadeyes

BradleysMommy
07-02-2008, 07:26 AM
:glomp

navyiatorgirl
07-02-2008, 10:39 AM
Oh no, I am so very sorry for your loss. :sigh :sigh You're in my thoughts and :pray....

Berkley
07-02-2008, 10:42 AM
I am so so so so so sorry!! :hugehug

sierramist87
07-02-2008, 10:45 AM
:hugs I'm so sorry hun!

Larissa
07-02-2008, 10:47 AM
I'm so sorry for your loss :bigsadhug.

CoffeeGirl
07-02-2008, 10:47 AM
Oh honey I am deeply, truly sorry & if you need to talk or anything pm me please, I am here:hugehug

proudnvywife01
07-02-2008, 10:48 AM
I'm so sorry for your loss hun. :hugs

cheerkelly
07-02-2008, 10:49 AM
I'm sorry!

truzbabygirl
07-02-2008, 10:51 AM
I'm so sorry hun :hugs

Juliet2008
07-02-2008, 10:52 AM
I am so sorry for your loss :hugs

Zoe
07-02-2008, 10:56 AM
im so sorry honey.

lemc81
07-02-2008, 11:00 AM
Omgosh, I'm so sorry! How awful! He is such a cute guy (great eyes) and looks like he was a ton of fun. I'm so sorry for your loss. :bigsadhug

SAMSET
07-02-2008, 12:18 PM
Thank you for everyone's thoughts and kindness...honestly it still doesn't feel real.

KatReborn
07-02-2008, 12:22 PM
:hugs I'm so sorry for your loss.

Kris
07-02-2008, 12:30 PM
I am so sorry!!!! If you need to talk you are welcome to pm me!

square bear
07-02-2008, 12:32 PM
Oh sweetie I'm so so sorry for your loss :bigsadhug

leftover
07-02-2008, 12:32 PM
Oh my, he's handsome!!!!! :wub

He looks like the life of the party? Was he?

BrittanyJo
07-02-2008, 12:47 PM
Sweetheart, I wish I could give you a huge hug right now. You are strong! :hugs :pray

itwillbok
07-02-2008, 03:44 PM
Sorry for your loss. :pray

tarbear
07-02-2008, 03:50 PM
:depressedi'm so sorry girl. that's awful

SAMSET
07-02-2008, 11:03 PM
Oh my, he's handsome!!!!! :wub

He looks like the life of the party? Was he?

He's always the life of the party and just so so so much more, he's the sweetest guy I know. He was always there for me...for anything. anything....an he's always there.

mackenziesmommy
07-02-2008, 11:16 PM
so sorry you're having to go through this.

LittleMsSunshine
07-02-2008, 11:19 PM
I'm so sorry Sarah....wth is going on?? I had a friend die last thursday from an apparent drowning as well....waiting for the coroners report too. :( :hugs

:hugs

My aunt drowned a few weeks ago in a river-rafting accident.

:sigh this has not been a good summer for anyone.

OP, let me know if you need anything or want to talk. I might kinda understand what you're going through. :hugs

Armywife2026
07-02-2008, 11:19 PM
I am so sorry hun. I've lost good friends and its a terrible feeling.:hugehug

Rileysmom
07-02-2008, 11:19 PM
I'm so sorry! :depressed What a tragic loss! :(

bethanybabe
07-02-2008, 11:21 PM
I am so sorry for your loss. Now you have your very own angel. Cherish all your memories. He is looking down on you. I wish there was something I could say to make it easier.

JKirstiH
07-02-2008, 11:23 PM
I am so sorry:( I am here if you need to talk:hugs

JKirstiH
07-02-2008, 11:28 PM
I am so sorry:( I am here if you need to talk:hugs

DeLinda
07-02-2008, 11:32 PM
Sorry for your loss. Keeping you in my prayers. We are all here for you.

Missing Pokey 17
07-02-2008, 11:41 PM
Oh hon. I am so very sorry. I have lost some of my best friends through "freak" accidents. I know anything will not help. Time really does heal all wounds. IN the meantime, I offer you prayers for your strength to get through this. You can PM me anytime.

One of my good friends died a year ago. We were out shopping, and then went out for drinks and talked our men. 5 hours away she was hit by a car :( So, I KNOW how you feel.

On a more happy note, it really does get better. I promise you.

Allie
07-03-2008, 12:00 AM
oh my goodness, i am so so sorry for your loss hun. you are in my prayers.

kaaau
07-03-2008, 12:06 AM
So sorry for your loss. Prayers for you and his family.

Jennie
07-03-2008, 12:10 AM
I'm so sorry for your loss, hun. :hugs

swashknickers
07-03-2008, 12:19 AM
I am so sorry for your loss :hug

alyssa87
07-03-2008, 03:05 PM
i'm soo sorry sweetie!

:hugs

NavyKat
07-03-2008, 04:08 PM
:bigsadhug
im sorry

Aurora
07-03-2008, 04:16 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss :hugs

luvmysailor81904
07-03-2008, 06:08 PM
I'm deeply sorry for your loss :depressed :hugs

TallBlondie82
07-03-2008, 09:23 PM
omg I am so incredibly sorry for your loss...

I am so so sorry...if you ever need to talk please tell me

SAiL0R`S_SWEETiE<3
07-03-2008, 09:29 PM
awww =[[

misskathee
07-03-2008, 10:10 PM
gosh, i'm so sorry.. :hugs

dandelion
07-04-2008, 07:48 AM
I am very sorry for your loss! This is so awful!

sharine25
07-04-2008, 08:07 AM
Am sorry for your loss

Brandi
07-04-2008, 08:10 AM
Oh wow, I am so sorry :( :( :( Being from Tennessee where there are a LOT of rock cliffs around the big lakes, that was one of the most common types of "fun" for all of the teens and young 20 something kids to go do during the summer. Unfortunately, a LOT of people had exactly this type of thing happen. It is so, so, so sad. I am very sorry for your loss.

airforce46
07-04-2008, 08:12 AM
I'm so sorry to hear that.

girl20racer
07-04-2008, 08:23 AM
I'm so sorry sweetheart :hugs

SAMSET
07-04-2008, 09:45 AM
Thank you to everyone...it has been so kind of you and nice to read your posts. The calling hours are today...and then the funeral is saturday...Idk how I'm going to get through it. Idk how anyone is going to.