View Full Version : Do you think Women know what they want?


butterflykiss
07-02-2008, 04:19 AM
Do you think women know what they want?

For me going say no lol :D

WGs_Grrl
07-02-2008, 09:24 AM
:confuzzle

Right now, I want a calorie-free Boston Cream donut...

BradleysMommy
07-02-2008, 09:25 AM
Depends on the question. I know I want Bryon to come home...

aheart11
07-02-2008, 10:19 AM
I said yes...but really it's only yes in some cases. :hehe

Wicked
07-02-2008, 10:30 AM
I said no, but only because there is no other. I don't think it's so much that they don't know what they want, I think it's that they don't know what they SHOULD want if they actually want to be happy in the long term.

That goes for men too, though. I think human nature lends us to being more impulsive, especially in matters of love, which leads to not always making the smartest decisions.

LoveKiss
07-02-2008, 11:25 AM
I used to know what I want. Then my world got all turned around. Now, all I know is that I want to crawl under the covers and hide until everything is magically right again.

JoyS
07-02-2008, 11:26 AM
Sometimes yes and sometimes no.... but I think that goes for men as well.

Larissa
07-02-2008, 11:30 AM
I think the majority of the time, yes, women know what they want. Do they always go after what they want? No. Do they have doubts? Yes, but I think that's normal.

Aundi
07-02-2008, 11:34 AM
For me that would be a definite no! I am getting better as I get older but there are MANY things I would change.....too many to count. Things I thought would make me happy but they truly don't. One of the largest is getting 3 dogs because I thought I was this huge dog lover.......don't get me wrong I like dogs but they truly don't fit into my lifestyle and it makes for a difficult life at times.

ssgmarksbaby
07-02-2008, 11:34 AM
It depends...sometimes I think that we THINK we know what we want..but don't..does that makes sense?? LOL

Berkley
07-02-2008, 11:36 AM
I put other. Some women do Some women don't. It always depends highly on the situation.
:ETA I would have put other if I had that choice...LOL

kt*hed
07-02-2008, 12:35 PM
I said no because what I want changes daily :lol

Bryanna
07-02-2008, 12:39 PM
well.. I usually know what I want....

sdshorty
07-02-2008, 12:49 PM
I'm not sure about women in general, but I know that I personally know just what I want in life.

Honestly, I hope no one takes offense to this, but I believe that the older a woman gets, the closer she gets to really knowing what she really wants. Now at the age of 30 I feel a lot more confident in myself and what I want out of life than I ever did in my 20's.

fridaynightgirl
07-02-2008, 12:53 PM
I think we know what we want but we're not very good at asking for it. We really want men to be intuitive and just know but I don't think that's very realistic (men can't read our minds) and that causes us to be frustrated and waffle.

lemc81
07-02-2008, 01:06 PM
I think the older we get the more we understand how to articulate and ask or go after what we want. I think when we're younger we kinda know what we want but its sorta a jumbled mess too. There is some trial and error involved before we figure out what we really want. Does that make sense?

shadowdremy
07-02-2008, 01:09 PM
Hmm interesting question...I think I know what I want most of the time and I know how to get it...However, there are some things I want but can't get....Like having my boyfriend home for the birth of our first children...:( I always swore he would be there right next to me, holding my arm, taking the baby classes, doing the breathing, just right with me in labor and with twins as our first! But unfortunately he will be in Iraq when I go into labor...

Shaky
07-02-2008, 01:50 PM
Today I say yes, ask me again tomorrow :lol
It really depends what we are talking about.

CarLooSHoo
07-02-2008, 01:53 PM
I sure as hell know what I want :lol

wb3690
07-02-2008, 01:57 PM
Yes. I generally always know what I want........but I don't always have to make it easy for YOU to know. haha

~*~Katie~*~
07-02-2008, 02:07 PM
I HAVE KNOWN WHAT I'VE WANTED SINCE I WAS 15 LOL. SO I'M GOING TO GO WITH YES.

Allie
07-03-2008, 12:29 AM
no. lol i confuse myself all the time.

guynavywife
07-03-2008, 12:31 AM
It depends...sometimes I think that we THINK we know what we want..but don't..does that makes sense?? LOL
Yup

Berkley
07-03-2008, 01:13 AM
I'm not sure about women in general, but I know that I personally know just what I want in life.

Honestly, I hope no one takes offense to this, but I believe that the older a woman gets, the closer she gets to really knowing what she really wants. Now at the age of 30 I feel a lot more confident in myself and what I want out of life than I ever did in my 20's.

oh honey a BIG ol ditto to that!!

anmiller86
07-03-2008, 05:37 PM
i know one thing i want :sex

and i want my hubby to come home and i want to make lots of :baby with him and i want to finish my gas station champagne and be a rock star some day see i guess i do know what i want...why did i say no?

Strabary
07-03-2008, 06:21 PM
I think humans, by nature are fickle creatures.