armygf08
07-06-2008, 07:15 PM
Do you have really bad dreams about your SO's? All the dreams that I have had about DB have been good ones. Him surprising me coming home, or just seeing him. I was not expecting the one I had last night. I think I may have had it because I havent talked to DB in 4 days. I had a dream that he was shot. He was shot in the leg, alive, but really close to the artery. I woke up and couldnt go back to sleep. When I woke up I checked to see if he had finally signed in online. Thank God he did, so I knew he was ok. I sent him a few messages over the past few days of him not being online, he read them, but never responded. Now its kind of bugging me and Im thinking everything is wrong, like I said something wrong, he told me to give him time to respond cause sometimes he can't right away. but this time its hard waiting for a response. I know its just me letting my thoughts run away, but that dream is really bugging me.
ilovekale
07-06-2008, 07:23 PM
i have more bad dreams than good dreams. : / i think it's my subconscious' way of realizing my fears...because when i'm awake, i don't think negatively or worry... so i dunno. :hugs
TLP06
07-06-2008, 07:47 PM
ive had both good and bad dreams....when they r good...they are amazing and actually motivate me to be optimistic and positive but the bad ones really bug me also. untimately there isnt much we can do to control our subconsious thoughts while we sleep...just dont consiously think bad things befroe you sleep...think of happy things maybe it will help calm your nerves before you sleep...dont let this deployment get the best of you. the bad dreams will cause to not to sleep...trust me...ive been there but dont let them....at the end of the day they are just dreams....so just like my good dreams i try and think positive rather than negatively when i have those.if you need to talk about nething ill be around.
ftgordongirl
07-06-2008, 07:49 PM
most of my dreams are not good ones but during the day im ok so im not sure what thats all about
USAF_SF_Wife
07-06-2008, 09:37 PM
i have more bad dreams than good dreams. : / i think it's my subconscious' way of realizing my fears...because when i'm awake, i don't think negatively or worry... so i dunno. :hugs
For the most part, that's me too. I will have my neg thoughts now and then though.
thenguyenclan
07-06-2008, 09:43 PM
yea..sometimes i have bad dreams and i had like bad dreams for a week or so..the same one too..when he didnt email me or anything for 2 weeks..come to find out he was on a mission or something and he didnt think it was necessary to tell me that..but its okay now..
sometimes i have good dreams..but..i tend to fall asleep when im too exhausted to carry on and then i dont dream...^_^
LuvinFloyd
07-06-2008, 09:45 PM
I mostly have good ones...him coming home and seeing him for the first time in forever, etc. Maybe he hasn't had time to respond to any of your emails yet...just time to read them. At least he's okay. Hopefully you hear from him soon. :hugs :prayers
armygf08
07-06-2008, 11:48 PM
This has been the first bad dream that I have had about him. I just hope that its not the first of many to come. I know right now he really shouldnt be in grave danger, but then again, you never know where its going to take him. I ask him how work is going and he says fine. But I know he is saying that because he cant talk about it. I just pray that he really is safe. I dont know if I can handle another dream. I almost dont want to go to sleep. And its funny cause I dont really think of bad things happening to him over there. Dont get me wrong, I do worry for his safety.