I can't kick this feeling...

I am so sad...and angry...

I don't know what to do

:hugs I feel the same

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i know what you mean... i have been doing destructive stuff like drinking and not going to the gym and it has to stop somehow. :depressed

I am with you!!! It sucks...........................

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:hugehug I'm sorry sweetie.

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Just get back into your daily routine, things will fall back into place in a few days.. You'll be okay.

I think it will pass Jill. Just like before R&R when he first deployed. You had similar feelings, right? You'll fall back into the routine in a couple of weeks and keep peddling through. He loves you, he put that gorgeous ring on your finger and now you can start planning a nice wedding for the two of you.

:hugehug You can definitely do this!

:hugs I was in a funk for weeks. I decided to throw myself into planning and hosting an awesome July 4th party. It worked for me. Funk... done!

:hugs im sure it will pass i feel the same and r and r hasnt even happened yet:S

:hugs...im sorry its a tough day for you! hang in there and stay busy. And know that you have lots of people pulling for you :)

i understand. i resent dh somedays. i'm home and preggo with our first and i have to deal with it all by myself. but really, he's deployed and missing everything. it sucks. but we'll get through it! we're military SO's! and thats what we do

Oh Im so with you on this one!! :arg

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I think it will pass Jill. Just like before R&R when he first deployed. You had similar feelings, right? You'll fall back into the routine in a couple of weeks and keep peddling through. He loves you, he put that gorgeous ring on your finger and now you can start planning a nice wedding for the two of you.

:hugehug You can definitely do this!

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I know exactly how you are feeling. How can you not feel angry and sad when you feel robbed of the one person who means the most?

You have been doing so well though so don't fault yourself for feeling this way.

hey honey,

dont be so hard on yourself - we just had the most amzing 2 weeks with the love of our lives and now they've left us again........... its no wonder we are feeling this overwhelming sense of sadness and anger.

for 18 days i got to feel like the old me, no panic attacks no tears just alot of loving and laughing.................and then the min we parted that heaviness and hurt in my heart returned and i know it will stay with me til he's home again.

What we have to do is just know we can do this because we've already done it......we are over half way jill and it may not get easier but it will become the norm again.......i promise.

I love ya girl and am always always here!!!!!!!!

??? He left again?

:hugehug I'm sorry that you are feeling down! I hope things start looking up for you!

Hang in there!! You're on the 2nd half and when he comes home he'll stay home awhile!!

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:hugs I hope this goes by fast:(

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It sucks when you have a great routine going.. and they come home from RR which is awesome but that gets you outta your routine and then you have to learn how to get back into it again.. it will come.. You should come out in NYC with me next weekend when I am down for my bachlorette party haha that will make it all better!! :D

:hugs :hugs everything will be okay :hugs

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You can do this. You can do this. You Can Do This.
Just gotta keep telling yourself. I'm sorry it's been so bumpy. Dealing with R&R being over add a friendship issue and anyone would be a mess. The silver lining is you have the love of your life, he has asked you to marry him. He loves you above anyone else on this earth and when he gets home, you will be husband and wife. That is something awesome to look forward to. You are beautiful, amazing, and human. It's ok to cry now, it's ok to feel sad, but soon you have to pick yourself up. You need to get out those bridal magazines, go shopping with friends, start making care packages again. You can do this, we are all here to support you. :hugs

aw im so sorry girl, it has to be really hard to get used to being with him again just to say goodbye AGAIN! BUT like other people said, you felt this way in the beginning too and look how far you came. You got into a groove and were doing great, it will happen that way again except now you can look forward too him coming home and NOT leaving again after 2 weeks!

Hang in there Jill!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

That is a normal thing. Dont forget to pamper yourself :P

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This time after RnR is like going through withdrawl and the DTs. :angry Im so sorry you are going through this. IT WILL GET BETTER! This to shall pass.... not quick enough im sure, but IT WILL GET BETTER!

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I know how you feel.

I'm sorry sweetie! I'm sure it is just adjusting off of that high from R&R. Hopefully your emotions will settle down here again soon.

I'm feeling just as blue as you :sigh

I hope we can all catch a break soon...

I know how you feel. Mine just left after a 4 day pass and the transition has been so tough. It has to get better thought. Hang in there!

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It will get better I promise...the first two weeks after I say goodbye are the absolute worst!!!! I mean I still have my days and my moments...but once you get back into a routine things will seem much better!

School starts for you soon right?!? That always makes time fly for me...

You can do this, Jill! Hang in there! :hug PM me if you just need to chat. :hugehug :hugehug

I can't remember who had it in their signature a while back, but just remember... this too shall pass. You're coming off a total high and it's normal to feel so down :hugs Bottom line is it sucks like none other, but we're all here for you!

ive been feeling the same way :(

I went through the same thing when my dh left after r&r during our last deployment. It was awful. You will get through this. I found hitting the gym really helped me get out of my funk. Hang in there girl, we are all here for you! :hugehug

Jill you can do this! It's okay to be sad and wanna cry. Eventually you'll get back into the routine. I haven't experienced this yet, but I know you're a strong woman and will keep "driving on". Just get a few drinks, look through a wedding magazine, paint your toe nails, and eat some brownies. Then tomorrow wake up to a new day and put a care package together. Start planning your wedding and go shopping with your friends. Girl, you got this deployment thing figured out, so you just have to get yourself together. Just think, you're about to marry the man of your dreams, so you gotta plan the best wedding ever. :hugs I hope you feel better.

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I'm sorry hun. I'm sure he's fine.

You can do this!! Just take it one day at a time. You'll get back into your routine and time will start to move again. It took me about a month after R&R to get back in the swing of things and I felt very much the way you did--sad and angry. You WILL make it through!

I am with y'all. It will pass. Just be strong! Stay busy.

After R&R I went back into my early deployment day funk. :( Give it a couple of weeks, it passes and you set back into the groove. Although NOW you can countdown to homecoming!