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Chelly
06-27-2006, 08:07 PM
The average military man:

The average age of the military man is 19 years. He is a short haired, tight-muscled kid who, under normal circumstances is considered by society as half man, half boy. Not yet dry behind the ears, not old enough to buy a beer, but old enough to die for his country. He never really cared much for work and he would rather wax his own car than wash his father's; but he has never collected unemployment either.

He's a recent High School graduate; he was probably an average student, pursued some form of sport activities, drives a ten year old jalopy, and has a steady girlfriend that either broke up with him when he left, or swears to be waiting when he returns from half a world away. He listens to rock and roll or hip-hop or rap or jazz or swing and 155mm howizzitor. He is 10 or 15 pounds lighter now than when he was at home because he is working or fighting from before dawn to well after dusk.
He has trouble spelling, thus letter writing is a pain for him, but he can field strip a rifle in 30 seconds and reassemble it in less time in the dark. He can recite to you the nomenclature of a machine gun or grenade launcher and use either one effectively if he must. He digs foxholes and latrines and can apply first aid like a professional. He can march until he is told to stop or stop until he is told to march.

He obeys orders instantly and without hesitation, but he is not without spirit or individual dignity. He is self-sufficient. He has two sets of fatigues: he washes one and wears the other. He keeps his canteens full and his feet dry. He sometimes forgets to brush his teeth, but never to clean his rifle. He can cook his own meals, mend his own clothes, and fix his own hurts. If you're thirsty, he'll share his water with you; if you are hungry, his food. He'll even split his ammunition with you in the midst of battle when you run low.

He has learned to use his hands like weapons and weapons like they were his hands. He can save your life - or take it, because that is his job. He will often do twice the work of a civilian, draw half the pay and still find ironic humor in it all. He has seen more suffering and death then he should have in his short lifetime.

He has stood atop mountains of dead bodies, and helped to create them. He has wept in public and in private, for friends who have fallen in combat and is unashamed. He feels every note of the National Anthem vibrate through his body while at rigid attention, while tempering the burning desire to 'square-away' those around him who haven't bothered to stand, remove their hat, or even stop talking. In an odd twist, day in and day out, far from home, he defends their right to be disrespectful.

Just as did his Father, Grandfather, and Great-grandfather, he is paying the price for our freedom. Beardless or not, he is not a boy. He is the American Fighting Man that has kept this country free for over 200 years.

He has asked nothing in return, except our friendship and understanding. Remember him, always, for he has earned our respect and admiration with his blood. And now we even have woman over there in danger, doing their part in this tradition of going to War when our nation calls us to do so. As you go to bed tonight, remember this shot.. A short lull, a little shade and a picture of loved ones in their helmets.






The Average Military Wife:

The average age of the military wife is 20 years old. She isn't old enough to buy a beer, but is old enough to manage a whole household on her own and maybe she has a kid or two. She probably never saw herself loving a man who was in the military, but she loves him regardless. Her penmanship has improved over the last few months, due to the excessive letter writing she has been doing. She cries alot, because she misses the man she swore to love. Her life isn't complete without him. She looks very tired, because of her many nights without sleep, due to a late night phone call that never came or a call that came and kept her up all night, just because she heard his voice, she is too overjoyed to sleep. As a wife, she is classified as a dependent, but she is totally independent. She tends to her household, her kids, her school work, and her job, all without her husband. She manages to wear a smile, even though inside she's crying. She understands that the man she loves has to go far away. She understand that he can be taken away from her in a moments notice. She feels a great sense of pride and probably cries whenever she hears the National Anthem, sees a flag blowing in the breeze, or watches the news and hears about another death in Iraq,she worries that it might be him. She goes weeks without a call or a letter, but she writes him whenever she gets a free moment. She knows how to convert civilian time into military time. She knows how to iron his clothes and how to get the creases just right. Before he left she used to complain if she didn't see him for a day or two, but now she gets annoyed when she hears someone complaining about not seeing their man. She may not have see him for months, but she remembers everything about him, every scar he has, the way he smells, and whether or not he snores. She has every picture of him and them out and in frames, she stares at them for hours on end, she has read every letter at least 40 times. Even though her man is a half a world away, she still manages to go on with her life, as he would want her to. You may not know what she looks like, but as soon as you see her in the store you'll know that her husband is a world away without even having to speak to her. Shes the one who's half frowning half smiling, she has at least one Support out Troops pin that she wears and one thats on her car. Half her wardrobe is based on his military branch. She owns lots of stuff that has his branch on it. She never knew that she could love the color of camouflage green, tan, navy blue, red or black so much. Next time you see her, you'll know her, thank her for what the man she loves is doing. She will greatly appreciate it and she will smile and thank you, and just because you thanked her she'll smile the rest of the day!

iLuvKev
06-27-2006, 08:09 PM
omg i love that! did you get it from somewhere?

=Mrs.AiNokeA=
06-27-2006, 08:19 PM
OMG I love that it's so sweet. When DH left a guy in uniform did come up to me and say thank you... it's true I was smiling all day... well half smiling cuz I was sad that he just left that day and I wont see him for months. It did make me feel better though. :)

BubblesAngel13
06-27-2006, 08:22 PM
That made me teary eyed!! :sadeyes

I loved it!!! :)

NavyChiefs_Wife
06-27-2006, 08:47 PM
I love that, it brought tears to my eyes.

CoffeeGirl
06-27-2006, 08:51 PM
:wow :wow :wow :thumbsup :thumbsup

Heather
06-27-2006, 09:07 PM
that was really great. Did you write that?

Breezy
06-27-2006, 09:48 PM
nice
have read them somewhere before

Chelly
06-27-2006, 09:51 PM
My friend emailed it to me.. I thought it was so touching so I had to share!

instant_oatmeal
06-27-2006, 11:40 PM
OMG I started crying and I'm at work!! hehe

Joy
06-29-2006, 10:40 PM
You made me cry....thanks, that was one of the nicer ones. :wub

happygirl0486
06-29-2006, 11:50 PM
so true

lizz04
06-30-2006, 12:16 AM
I love this! My mom emailed me the one about the average military man awhile ago, but I had never read the one about the average military wife - it brought tears to my eyes and a smile to my face! It describes db and myself perfectly (even though I'm not a military wife...yet...:) ) - thanks for sharing this!

harrisonsdream
06-30-2006, 01:54 PM
true

footstepswife
06-30-2006, 02:08 PM
very true!!! Very sweet

Crystal520
06-30-2006, 10:22 PM
Awwww.....either I am very emotional or that was the sweetest thing I ever read. Awwww.....that was so sweet.

navy.wife_2004
06-30-2006, 10:31 PM
That was really good! And honest!

~Jess~
07-02-2006, 12:12 PM
OK I cried!! That was so touching!!

Princessa
07-11-2006, 01:08 PM
That is so sweet :) Thanks for sharing!!

Covergrl422
07-11-2006, 03:17 PM
I'm a sap. :tears haha... Soooo true... I loved it.

Brooke
07-11-2006, 03:22 PM
Awww! i love it.

MarineWife96
07-12-2006, 04:04 PM
*deep sigh* Wow thats so true... I started to cry as I was reading the wives part. And the Military part I just laughed because that was him on the nose lol... Thanks that made me smile too...