Yes work .. if you "need" to.... stay home if you "need" to.

BUT do you really need to work? Okay maybe you werent cut out to be at home with your kids? Did anyone say it would be easy?

Think about it...

Why have kids and "pawn" them off to others?

Yes some people have to work! Never said that everyone had to stay home..Troublemaker I commend you for doing what needed to be done!!!. BUT why keep having kids and then leaving them with someone else...

It honestly doesnt make sense!

I don't think anyone is PAWNING their kids off on anyone....HOW RUDE!!!! Sometimes people need to work for adult time and $ it's not like our husbands are making mucho dollars being in the military....GESE

:rolleyes

in your famous words...

:puke:

Yes work .. if you "need" to.... stay home if you "need" to.

BUT do you really need to work? Okay maybe you werent cut out to be at home with your kids? Did anyone say it would be easy?

Think about it...

Why have kids and "pawn" them off to others?

Yes some people have to work! Never said that everyone had to stay home..Troublemaker I commend you for doing what needed to be done!!!. BUT why keep having kids and then leaving them with someone else...

It honestly doesnt make sense!

You know, your comments are pissing me off, as well as MANY other women on here.

AGAIN, YOU DON'T KNOW HER FINANCIAL STATUS!!!! Even if she didn't have to work, YOU have no right to make anyone on here feel like shit if they want to work. That is their choice! Not yours!!!

So, Erma Bombeck, why don't you go back and take care of your kids, and let Rachael take care of hers.

I don't think anyone is PAWNING their kids off on anyone....HOW RUDE!!!! Sometimes people need to work for adult time and $ it's not like our husbands are making mucho dollars being in the military....GESE
No not mucho money... adult time... think about what you just typed....

They need to work 40+ a week for adult time???:tu

You know, your comments are pissing me off, as well as MANY other women on here.

AGAIN, YOU DON'T KNOW HER FINANCIAL STATUS!!!! Even if she didn't have to work, YOU have no right to make anyone on here feel like shit if they want to work. That is their choice! Not yours!!!

So, Erma Bombeck, why don't you go back and take care of your kids, and let Rachael take care of hers.

Oh I could say so much to that last comment....

BUT that would be a rude statement.. re-read what you typed!

Christie- since you are being tactless, I will just point blank say it- SHUT THE FUCK UP!

in your famous words...

:puke:
:yeehaw I love him!

I guess I better not work, because my son might become a drug dealer and my daughter might end up getting knocked up at 14 :rolleyes

I think staying at home is IDEAL, if you can. I was raised with a parent at home (it was actually my grandmother because they shared custody with my mom), so I think that's carried over into how I raise my own family. But, despite how I feel about what's right for our family, I can also respect that not every woman will make the same choice I do/did. Its just one of those things like the circumcision, breast vs bottle, spanking debate... there really are different circumstances and feelings about making those personal choices. I've been told that I don't put my kids' health first because I chose to stop breastfeeding at 6 weeks. I'm sure people who are really pro-bf probably do think that. To me, I did what was right for us. So, I try to apply my experiences with people like that to all other personal situations, such as work vs stay at home. What's right for one family may not necessarily be right for the next.

Christie- since you are being tactless, I will just point blank say it- SHUT THE FUCK UP!

:thumbsup

Christie- since you are being tactless, I will just point blank say it- SHUT THE FUCK UP!
Nahhh not tactless... do you want to see tactless???

Funny how people say pm and not on the open boards.. but then they do this!!!!!:teehee

SHE WANTS TO FUCKING WORK.....PERIOD! PLEASE SHUT UP ABOUT IT! WE GET YOUR OPINION ALREADY! NO ONE REALLY CARES, AND WE HAVE ASKED YOU TO DROP IT! I THINK HER DECISION IS MADE!!!:mad

I think staying at home is IDEAL, if you can. I was raised with a parent at home (it was actually my grandmother because they shared custody with my mom), so I think that's carried over into how I raise my own family. But, despite how I feel about what's right for our family, I can also respect that not every woman will make the same choice I do/did. Its just one of those things like the circumcision, breast vs bottle, spanking debate... there really are different circumstances and feelings about making those personal choices. I've been told that I don't put my kids' health first because I chose to stop breastfeeding at 6 weeks. I'm sure people who are really pro-bf probably do think that. To me, I did what was right for us. So, I try to apply my experiences with people like that to all other personal situations, such as work vs stay at home. What's right for one family may not necessarily be right for the next.
I agree with you...

Someone has to be on the other side of the coin to make people think...

Your babies are only so little for so long!

SHE WANTS TO FUCKING WORK.....PERIOD! PLEASE SHUT UP ABOUT IT! WE GET YOUR OPINION ALREADY! NO ONE REALLY CARES, AND WE HAVE ASKED YOU TO DROP IT! I THINK HER DECISION IS MADE!!!:mad
I am happy that she made her decision and it is HER decision.

I agree with you...

Someone has to be on the other side of the coin to make people think...

Your babies are only so little for so long!


Yes, but Brandi wasn't being tactless and she didn't berate Rachael like you did. You were downright rude!

I moved this to Debates, because it's obviously not GENERAL SUPPORT. :rolleyes

I can see your point to an extent. I do NOT see why people want children who want to work excessive hours. Why have children to put them in daycare 50+ hours a week???????????


But if they didnt I'd be out of a job :lol


Some people need both worlds to be complete but there is a limit to both sides.

it is really sad when people think "their way" is the only correct way.

I moved this to Debates, because it's obviously not GENERAL SUPPORT. :rolleyes

Its no support at all. In fact its a reminder of how many people can't stand her and her rudeness. Unfortunatly she wont get the message and go away.

I guess I better not work, because my son might become a drug dealer and my daughter might end up getting knocked up at 14 :rolleyes


It happens :no

I can see your point to an extent. I do NOT see why people want children who want to work excessive hours. Why have children to put them in daycare 50+ hours a week???????????


But if they didnt I'd be out of a job :lol


Some people need both worlds to be complete but there is a limit to both sides.
It is always keeping up with the Jones these days... the two new cars... the new house... right now.. cant wait!

Willeycherries.. you have never liked me ... so sure jump on this bandwagon :thumbsup

Yes work .. if you "need" to.... stay home if you "need" to.

BUT do you really need to work? Okay maybe you werent cut out to be at home with your kids? Did anyone say it would be easy?

Think about it...

Why have kids and "pawn" them off to others?

Yes some people have to work! Never said that everyone had to stay home..Troublemaker I commend you for doing what needed to be done!!!. BUT why keep having kids and then leaving them with someone else...

It honestly doesnt make sense!

Maybe you spend a little more time away from your kids so they don't turn out like you:teehee :yes

It happens :no
Yes that happens with any family... the child is older...the decisions are made by them.. we can only hope they make the right ones!

Maybe you spend a little more time away from your kids so they don't turn out like you:teehee :yes
Okay see this is being heartless...... cracks me up!!!!!!!!!


Ahh yes hate to see someone rude.. but then goes to these levels LOL

Yes work .. if you "need" to.... stay home if you "need" to.

BUT do you really need to work? Okay maybe you werent cut out to be at home with your kids? Did anyone say it would be easy?

Think about it...

Why have kids and "pawn" them off to others?

Yes some people have to work! Never said that everyone had to stay home..Troublemaker I commend you for doing what needed to be done!!!. BUT why keep having kids and then leaving them with someone else...

It honestly doesnt make sense!
This is the most condescending thing I've heard in a long time, and I'm a stay at home mom. Essentially, what you are saying is that you shouldn't have kids if you can't stay at home with them. Okay, so would you suggest abortions? What about the single moms? Are they just shitty moms because they work? Who are you to decide who does or doesn't have to work? My mom worked when I was little, and my brother and I have grown up to be mature, responsible, loving adults. It is not your job to police the rest of the mothers here and tell them what they can and cannot do. How is sending your kids to daycare any different than sending them to school? Daycare is a great experience for most kids, learning how to interact socially with their peers, and if you're lucky, a little practical knowledge as well. You, my friend (and I use that term loosely) are the epitome of the women I loathed as a child. My dad was in the military, and I even swore off dating military guys because I didn't want to have to interact with your kind. Luckily for me I broke that rule, married a wonderful man, and met wonderful women, much like the girls you're bashing here today. I doubt your life is perfect, are you just projecting your unhappiness onto others?

Why is everyone getting so worked up? It's just her opinion, you can take it or leave it. So it's not okay for her to be "rude", but it's okay for the other's on here that posted rude responses to her?

Maybe you spend a little more time away from your kids so they don't turn out like you:teehee :yes


If I wouldnt get scolded, I would pull out my favorite smiley just for you...



NEWS FLASH... the person you are being a complete and utter ASS to, ISNT the one with kids in DAYCARE... she is on the OTHER side of the coin... REREAD EINSTEIN!!!

This is the most condescending thing I've heard in a long time, and I'm a stay at home mom. Essentially, what you are saying is that you shouldn't have kids if you can't stay at home with them. Okay, so would you suggest abortions? What about the single moms? Are they just shitty moms because they work? Who are you to decide who does or doesn't have to work? My mom worked when I was little, and my brother and I have grown up to be mature, responsible, loving adults. It is not your job to police the rest of the mothers here and tell them what they can and cannot do. How is sending your kids to daycare any different than sending them to school? Daycare is a great experience for most kids, learning how to interact socially with their peers, and if you're lucky, a little practical knowledge as well. You, my friend (and I use that term loosely) are the epitome of the women I loathed as a child. My dad was in the military, and I even swore off dating military guys because I didn't want to have to interact with your kind. Luckily for me I broke that rule, married a wonderful man, and met wonderful women, much like the girls you're bashing here today. I doubt your life is perfect, are you just projecting your unhappiness onto others?

Ahhh gratefully you are very wrong with my world being unhappy!! I am VERY happy..

That aside...

Yes I have already stated if you go back and read... if you have to work. go for it..

WHY on earth though keep having kids to have someone else raise them.. Yes there is always the unexpected pregnancy..no abortion..,.

hot dog! to think i missed all of this up until now. is everyone wearing their boxing gloves?!

pretty much i agree with brandi.

:drama

Why is everyone getting so worked up? It's just her opinion, you can take it or leave it. So it's not okay for her to be "rude", but it's okay for the other's on here that posted rude responses to her?


its always ok for the ones who are doing the ganging up on the one that "mis-behaved"

This is the most condescending thing I've heard in a long time, and I'm a stay at home mom. Essentially, what you are saying is that you shouldn't have kids if you can't stay at home with them. Okay, so would you suggest abortions? What about the single moms? Are they just shitty moms because they work? Who are you to decide who does or doesn't have to work? My mom worked when I was little, and my brother and I have grown up to be mature, responsible, loving adults. It is not your job to police the rest of the mothers here and tell them what they can and cannot do. How is sending your kids to daycare any different than sending them to school? Daycare is a great experience for most kids, learning how to interact socially with their peers, and if you're lucky, a little practical knowledge as well. You, my friend (and I use that term loosely) are the epitome of the women I loathed as a child. My dad was in the military, and I even swore off dating military guys because I didn't want to have to interact with your kind. Luckily for me I broke that rule, married a wonderful man, and met wonderful women, much like the girls you're bashing here today. I doubt your life is perfect, are you just projecting your unhappiness onto others?


ITS AN OPINION.... we dont need a book about what you think, and you bashing someone elses!

For the record, I said before and will say again DO WHAT IS BEST FOR YOUR FAMILY.... its a personal decision, and really NO ONE else need be involved.


I think those of you who feel the need to belittle someone else, and half of you who are BANDWAGON JUNKIES.... need to rethink your RUDE posts.... its the same shit, flying from 2 directions from 2 different mouths, and it all smells like the same shit.

Its fine to BELIEVE in something, but at the point of making yourself JUST AS LOW DOWN AND DIRTY as another shit slinger? The passion that you are right, is LOST in the same rudeness. :no

Originally Posted by Michelle
Why is everyone getting so worked up? It's just her opinion, you can take it or leave it. So it's not okay for her to be "rude", but it's okay for the other's on here that posted rude responses to her?

:agree

I understand everyone is really fired up but please refrain from name calling and other things that violate the terms of service. I think everyone has a right to say their piece, even if it goes against the majority, but please remain respectful. The debates section is not a place of support, but everyone does need to remain respectful of each other's opinions, please.

"Why is everyone getting so worked up? It's just her opinion, you can take it or leave it. So it's not okay for her to be "rude", but it's okay for the other's on here that posted rude responses to her?"

It's not okay to be rude and make personal stabs when you're stating an "opinion", opinions are generalized. The people, including myself, who have responded with personal stabs and rude comments are simply defending themselves.

Hey I susposedly have the "best" of both worlds. I work at a daycare with my kids. But I must be a bad mom because sometimes I need a break and to not be surrounded by kids 24/7. I work because I want too and because God forbid something happen to Jeff I can take care of me and mine. I will NEVER be my mom and be stuck in a horrible situation. Not saying those that stay home but you know what I mean....

I have been a single working mom and, i have always worked to provide for my family. There were times I worked 2 & 3 jobs and went to school, because i did not want to rely on the state or anyone for that matter. IMO you don't know everyones situation and staying home is not for me.... I would end up a wreck, tryed it before!!

"Why is everyone getting so worked up? It's just her opinion, you can take it or leave it. So it's not okay for her to be "rude", but it's okay for the other's on here that posted rude responses to her?"

It's not okay to be rude and make personal stabs when you're stating an "opinion", opinions are generalized. The people, including myself, who have responded with personal stabs and rude comments are simply defending themselves.


Okay, i'm jumping in a little late here and may end up having to post and run since my internet is spotty but she isn't the one who started with the rudeness and name calling. The original post was simply stating her opinion and it wasn't until everyone else started that things got ugly.

I disagree with the way things have gone done but I agree totally with militarymoms opinion :scared. I worked in day care for years and saw many kids who spent more time with us at the center then they did with their parents. IMVHO, those parents should have better evaluated their situation. If you need to work, then by all means do it. We are very tight lately and I may soon have to suck it up and go back to work. But, when I had my children I decided that unless I had to work I wouldn't. As for the whole "adult interaction" piece of this... That's why they have moms groups and playdates.

I appologize for my comment to anyone it may have offended. I was just trying to make her understand that she can't go around making harsh, RUDE judgements on other peoples parenting & not expect anyone to say anything back to her. I was angry, and what I said was entirely out of character for me.
Everyone on here are probably great mothers & cares so deeply about their children, which is why people are getting so "fired" up. We're all strong women with strong opinions, which is a great thing. We're very lucky we live in a country where we can voice our opinions :yes :hugs

But alot of times if you sacrifice to stay home you dont have the wiggle room for such things. I know I didnt when I stayed home and my brain was turning to mush.

Okay, i'm jumping in a little late here and may end up having to post and run since my internet is spotty but she isn't the one who started with the rudeness and name calling. The original post was simply stating her opinion and it wasn't until everyone else started that things got ugly.

I disagree with the way things have gone done but I agree totally with militarymoms opinion :scared. I worked in day care for years and saw many kids who spent more time with us at the center then they did with their parents. IMVHO, those parents should have better evaluated their situation. If you need to work, then by all means do it. We are very tight lately and I may soon have to suck it up and go back to work. But, when I had my children I decided that unless I had to work I wouldn't. As for the whole "adult interaction" piece of this... That's why they have moms groups and playdates.



yeah I just got my head bit off for pointing out that militarymom did not start the rudeness. there was nothing wrong with her origional opinion. Some just didnt like it and jumped her.

I agree with the keeping up with the Jones philosphy....many people thing they HAVE to work when really they just want more and better stuff.....

Okay, i'm jumping in a little late here and may end up having to post and run since my internet is spotty but she isn't the one who started with the rudeness and name calling. The original post was simply stating her opinion and it wasn't until everyone else started that things got ugly.

I disagree with the way things have gone done but I agree totally with militarymoms opinion :scared. I worked in day care for years and saw many kids who spent more time with us at the center then they did with their parents. IMVHO, those parents should have better evaluated their situation. If you need to work, then by all means do it. We are very tight lately and I may soon have to suck it up and go back to work. But, when I had my children I decided that unless I had to work I wouldn't. As for the whole "adult interaction" piece of this... That's why they have moms groups and playdates.

Yes.. I have seen it.....

Also... I quit on the reply to comments and took it up in PM's like we all have been told it might be a good idea...

Of course the same people saying take it to a PM.. loves to post!

I don't really know what this is all about, so maybe I shouldn't post, but this is my opinion.

Everyone is entitled to their own opinion. I do think, however, that sometimes things either don't need to be said or they need to be said a different way. The way that you stated your opinion, to me, is in a way to attack people who have kids and also work. I really hope that when our baby is born, I won't have to work until it ideally starts school, but at least for 3 or 4 years. Even still, I would probably put it in a reliable daycare for a few hours a week because of the social skills toddlers will develop in them. I don't feel like that would be "pawning off" my child, but rather giving them the exposure to skills they will need when they are in school. Kids can and have failed Kindergarten because of their lack of social skills. If finances become too tight for us where we can't give our kids what we want to be able to give them, then I will go back to work. It's not about keeping up with the Jones, it's about what is right for our family to be happy. That being said, I think there are better ways to state an opinion than by basically attacking the people the opinion goes against.

I appologize for my comment to anyone it may have offended. I was just trying to make her understand that she can't go around making harsh, RUDE judgements on other peoples parenting & not expect anyone to say anything back to her. I was angry, and what I said was entirely out of character for me.
Everyone on here are probably great mothers & cares so deeply about their children, which is why people are getting so "fired" up. We're all strong women with strong opinions, which is a great thing. We're very lucky we live in a country where we can voice our opinions :yes :hugs
As was I trying to put my opinion out...

It is always like that on boards. An unfavored opinion is jumped on.. I really honestly dont care at all.... I feel very strongly about one parent staying home if they can... (the woman or the man)

I have lived paycheck to paycheck.. Thankfully we made it... Before my dh and I had kids we decided it was important for "our" family to have one of us stay home with the kids..

I worked many jobs.. but made sure either he was home or I could take them with me....

I don't really know what this is all about, so maybe I shouldn't post, but this is my opinion.

Everyone is entitled to their own opinion. I do think, however, that sometimes things either don't need to be said or they need to be said a different way. The way that you stated your opinion, to me, is in a way to attack people who have kids and also work. I really hope that when our baby is born, I won't have to work until it ideally starts school, but at least for 3 or 4 years. Even still, I would probably put it in a reliable daycare for a few hours a week because of the social skills toddlers will develop in them. I don't feel like that would be "pawning off" my child, but rather giving them the exposure to skills they will need when they are in school. Kids can and have failed Kindergarten because of their lack of social skills. If finances become too tight for us where we can't give our kids what we want to be able to give them, then I will go back to work. It's not about keeping up with the Jones, it's about what is right for our family to be happy. That being said, I think there are better ways to state an opinion than by basically attacking the people the opinion goes against.
Please reread the post... I never attacked. I told an opinion!

:bs i'm pulling out the flag... give it up already!

I just read the original one in the other thread...the way that one was presented wasn't bad at all. The one that started this thread was a more defensive, attack mode way of stating the same opinion.

I just read the original one in the other thread...the way that one was presented wasn't bad at all. The one that started this thread was a more defensive, attack mode way of stating the same opinion.
Yes presented a bit different.. after the "attack" of many people on this board!

Look at you re-reading all of the posts trying to dig up something else to say..

:giggle PATHETIC

It's 8:05pm. Do you know where your children are?

Look at you re-reading all of the posts trying to dig up something else to say..

:giggle PATHETIC

It's 8:05pm. Do you know where your children are?



Look at you egging the situation on. Be ashamed Be very ashamed. :no

Holy Moly I walk away from the computer for a while and the good stuff goes on!! I think everyone has their own opinion but it's the way opinions are said or in this case typed. You can have all the opinions in the world just choose your words wisely (not saying this to militarymom just in general) But to militarymom saying smartass remarks to other peoples comments isn't going to make this situation go away. Just let them go. And to everyone else just let her opinion go. But then this is just my opinion!!! :D

Look at you re-reading all of the posts trying to dig up something else to say..

:giggle PATHETIC

It's 8:05pm. Do you know where your children are?
Okay..... pathetic is.... thinking it is 8:05 for me!!!!!!!!!!


No one re-reads ... okay!

Yes I do know where all my kids are...

My oldest is at college...
My next is at Tulleys working
Next is in her room watching tv..
Next is in the shower after playing all day
Next is on his way to his friends house..
Last is sitting on the couch since her ankle is bothering her since we were gone all day playing yesterday..

But thanks for making me check!!!:teehee

Holy Moly I walk away from the computer for a while and the good stuff goes on!! I think everyone has their own opinion but it's the way opinions are said or in this case typed. You can have all the opinions in the world just choose your words wisely (not saying this to militarymom just in general) But to militarymom saying smartass remarks to other peoples comments isn't going to make this situation go away. Just let them go. And to everyone else just let her opinion go. But then this is just my opinion!!! :D
Like I have stated. I tried to PM people in private.. didnt work!

:rolleyes :hopeless

Letting you know.. that my one that was going to his friends is now using his bike to go up to the store.. I just gave him some money and a cell phone to check in.....

:rolleyes :hopeless

Im glad you can see your faults :D

Im glad you can see your faults :D


:lmao

My idea, live and let live. I'd like to stay home with my children but my mom was a single mom and worked and I'm just fine. I love my mom and I know what she did was hard so I commend mothers that work because that's an extremely difficult situation. I've seen my best friend stay home with her daughter and step son and that is difficult for her at times. Both situations offer challenges and rewards and everyone's situation is different. So IMO MOMS ARE AWESOME! :yahoo

Look at you egging the situation on. Be ashamed Be very ashamed. :no


WAIT A MINUTE! I believe Christy is the one egging the situation on! She made this ridiculous post when she didn't need to for no reason! She already gave her opinion in rachael's thread, so why this post? b/c someone asked her to stop? So she need to create more attention by doing this?

Letting you know.. that my one that was going to his friends is now using his bike to go up to the store.. I just gave him some money and a cell phone to check in.....

CAN YOU JUST GOT THE FUCK AWAY? All your doing is writing posts to rile people up. You are not even making points anymore! GO AWAY. Go back to CBC and let Noelle and whoever else ridicule you like they were doing before. Why even come here? Everyone is so annoying, except for maybe a handful or less, to you, so why come here? So you can give your much needed opinion?

This board...forget it...:no

CAN YOU JUST GOT THE FUCK AWAY? All your doing is writing posts to rile people up. You are not even making points anymore! GO AWAY. Go back to CBC and let Noelle and whoever else ridicule you like they were doing before. Why even come here? Everyone is so annoying, except for maybe a handful or less, to you, so why come here? So you can give your much needed opinion?

This board...forget it...:no

:teehee

I knew that that would be brought into Rach... No one else on here goes to other boards?

Brandi, why are you even allowing her on here? Seriously

Fuck this shit...You people have your fun.

CAN YOU JUST GOT THE FUCK AWAY? All your doing is writing posts to rile people up. You are not even making points anymore! GO AWAY. Go back to CBC and let Noelle and whoever else ridicule you like they were doing before. Why even come here? Everyone is so annoying, except for maybe a handful or less, to you, so why come here? So you can give your much needed opinion?

This board...forget it...:no
I feel the love!

Brandi, why are you even allowing her on here? Seriously

Fuck this shit...You people have your fun.
Ahhh really... allowing me on here?? I was no part of any of the crap...

Really I have been around here for a LONG time.. in fact when the first board that Brandi put up...

Seriously... give me a break!

I guess I don't understand why you keep making smartass remarks to other people remarks? Why can't you just end it? :shrug

Brandi, why are you even allowing her on here? Seriously

Fuck this shit...You people have your fun.
There are other members on here that go to both and other boards...

I was just saying my opinion...

I guess I don't understand why you keep making smartass remarks to other people remarks? Why can't you just end it? :shrug
Smart ass remarks??

I am saying my stand or views on it...

Ahh let everyone else say things.. but I sit by??? I dont think so!

There are other members on here that go to both and other boards...

I was just saying my opinion...

Hey guess what- I DONT GIVE A RATS ASS WHAT YOU OPINION IS!

You say you were just stating your opinion? If thats the case, what is all this shit? What are ALL these pointless posts your making? If your so DAMN innocent- what do you call this?

people like the fucking drama, thats all it is.

Ladies I've been trying to stay outta this but really I think everyone has expressed their opinions isn't it time to just drop it. Lets all just try leave the drama in the past :)

Hey guess what- I DONT GIVE A RATS ASS WHAT YOU OPINION IS!

You say you were just stating your opinion? If thats the case, what is all this shit? What are ALL these pointless posts your making? If your so DAMN innocent- what do you call this?

people like the fucking drama, thats all it is.
Dont read what I post then... you have an ignore button....

Re-read.. I dont think I started being rude to other people..

Im glad you can see your faults :D



Why don't you go back and ridicule everyone else that said something "not to your liking". I was just trying to be funny. I made all of two comments.

Apryl~ she doesn't need anymore cheerleaders

I don't want to get into this but don't you all think this is enough. I know it's hard to have some of these women bash your opinions but there comes a point to where you just have to drop it.

Re-read.. I dont think I started being rude to other people..

Are you seriuos? Well, you and your fans can think that.

You're right, there is an ignore button.

Are you seriuos? Well, you and your fans can think that.

You're right, there is an ignore button.
What fans??? If you only knew!!:teehee

Hey Rach, don't forget I do have a life and two children to tend to. I can not just sit and wait for hell to break loose so I can close the topic.


I'm closing this because it's no longer about staying at home versus working. Its gotten extremely sidetracked and seems to be people just taking shots at each other. If you would like to discuss stay at home versus working, open another thread and try again :)