well i have been reading somethings on here and it sounds like alot of you are already moms of at least one maybe more! i want to have a baby soooo bad!! and the reason why my husband joined the navy was because i was pregnant and he wanted to make this a career and he wanted to be able to support a family! well the day he was suppose to leave to go to boot camp we found out we lost our baby i was 12 1/2 weeks and i found out when i was 7 weeks and 1 day so it wasn't that long that we knew we were going to have a baby! but i had to have surgery (DNC) and my hubby stayed with me he got delayed to going to boot camp but he went 2 weeks later and it was really hard but i got through it and so did he! we want to have a baby but i want to know right away! and my period is kinda crazy right now! but any one who has any advice please let me know! i would greatly appreciate it! my hubby is stationed in NOrfolk and that is where we were living before he went into the navy so that is a good thing for now! but the ship he is stationed to is suppose to be going to japan in 2009 so we aren't sure if he wants to stay on that ship. he isn't sure how it is over there and he doesn't know if he wants to have a baby (our child) over there! whenever we have one!! well i think i have said a little bit too much in this so i will go for now but i look forward to reading your responses
thanks
genia:P

Well, TRY!!!

I have had similar things happen to me, losing a baby even at 12 weeks is devistating. But you can try try again!! Are you having any fertility problems?

is he on the washington? i think thats the one i heard hubbys freinds talkin about that ship going over there. anyways i have 3 kids 2 year old twins and 3 1/2 month little boy. a few months after i had the twins i unexpectedly got pregnant and thats why dh joined i lost the baby shortly after. it was sad but i knew it was for the best. we were not ready for another child. do they know what cause you to misscarry?? the baby just stoped delvloping in our case and it sounds like thats what has happened to you. its a hrad time to deal with but you will get through it. i wish you luck in trying to concive it ya need to talk you can pm me i will be up there around the 9th or so maybe we could hang out. good luck :)

G'luck trying!

I tried for 9.5 years to have my son. And here he is. (with the aid of fertility meds) So anything is possible. I do have fertility problems though. I did get pregnant 1 time before my son but I lost that baby around 7 weeks pregnant.

I would personally start tracking your ovulation so you know when to do the deed which can increase the odds. But dont get discouraged. Because there is only a 25% chance in any given month you will conceive even if you hit ovulation right etc.

G'luck! :sex

I would say keep trying! They are so worth it. :) We miscarried six and were told they stopped growing around the third 1/2 months, each time. We went to a speacialist and was told it was due to my low progesterone (sp?) levels and that is why we lost them. The doc prescribed some medications and now we have 5 little ones running around here:D Hope everything goes great for you guys!!!

Well Thanks For Sharing Your Experiance. I Am Wondering If I Need To Go See A Specialist...my Doctor Said That Miscarriages Happen Alot In Womens First Pregnancy. But I Am Not Too Sure About That! I Am Just So Ready To Be A Mom! And I Know My Hubby Wants To Have At Least One Like Real Soon! I Am Trying To Loose Some Weight Right Now So I Won't Be Too Over Weight If/when I Get Pregnant! I Got Real Depressed When I Lost The Baby And I Gained I Know At Least 20-30 Lbs In The Past 6-8 Mths.....and Plus Having A Job Where All You Do Is Sit For Like 8 Hours Straight A Day Doesn't Help! Ya Know?!!? But I Am Going To Do My Best To Get Healthy And We Are Going To Continue To Try!! :-)

That's awesome!! You will get there!!

keep trying. My husband had a friend thats in the navy and was stationed in Japan. They have a little girl. I asked his wife how she liked it and she said it was fine. She said she mostly stayed on base b/c she didn't speak japanesse (sp?). She also said there weren't very many kids there for their daughter to play with. I think now they are stationed in Hawaii now