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alym
08-22-2006, 06:40 AM
:tears whom i thought was one of my best friends has just told me that she's going to call animal control on my husband. I told her that my dog has passed and she thinks she's a mortician and claims that my husband caused it. PLEASE DON'T TAKE AWAY MY DOGS. she just hung up on me when i was telling her what happened and told me that he's too harsh for saying no and swatting them on the butt a little. I'm praying to god right now, i just lost my friend, my dog and maybe soon my other two dogs in the duration of a morning.

Becca
08-22-2006, 06:59 AM
If your dogs are healthy, well fed and seemingly happy, I wouldn't be overly concerned. I know that's easy for me to say, but really...if they're not malnurished and mistreated, it'll be fine. They don't have ROOM for pets that are already loved (L)

It'll be ok :hugs

alym
08-22-2006, 08:27 AM
well i called her up to mourn and remember our dog and she didn't listen to me she just hung up on me! i listen to all of her problems and she can't listen to one of mine! my husband has saved my dog's life once before and she was his favorite pup. ALL of our pups have filtered water, food, treats, toys they are taken to the vet and were at the beginning of this month.
she had cherry eye in both of her eyes and we paid $160 for each eye. she had allergic reactions to the medicine that was given to her for her cold and we paid alot of money for that too! we don't know what happened, it could have been the medicine so im kinda weary toward my vet now.
My other TRUE friend is helping us pick out a gravestone or going with us to get her cremated. :sadeyes

missinghim
08-22-2006, 09:32 AM
:hugs I'm so sorry to hear about your dog sweetie. I'm sure everything will be fine concerning your other dogs. Like Becca said, they don't have room for dogs that are already loved. :goodvibes

Becca
08-22-2006, 10:08 AM
From the sounds of it, you are not mistreating your dogs...QUITE the opposite. Sweetie, you need to dump your 'friend' and find a real one. Seriously.

CoffeeGirl
08-22-2006, 10:17 AM
I'm so sorry for the loss of your pet & your friend-May your pet rest in peace:hugs :hugs :hugs

sunshyne
08-22-2006, 02:44 PM
I am so sorry for your loss :sadeyes :hugs

MW5M
08-22-2006, 03:16 PM
From the sounds of it, you are not mistreating your dogs...QUITE the opposite. Sweetie, you need to dump your 'friend' and find a real one. Seriously.

:agree


People can be vindictive... animal control KNOWS this, the actually will check out the situation, check that your dogs have food, water, shelter and have no obvious untreated injuries. They may ask for your proof of vaccinations *like your rabies tags*. They wont take your dogs on one persons phone call.

mara_jade81
08-22-2006, 03:21 PM
I'm sorry about your dog :( And I agree about your so called friend, you need to ditch her and find someone better.

alym
08-23-2006, 07:35 AM
Continuing... We had an autopsy & got her cremated for around $300 The vet said that it was NOT TRAUMATIC & that Animal control was called to put false accusations to rest. The doctor says that it was hemorages inside her lungs that caused her to bleed to death he says that it was NOT FROM US it is from pesticides or rat poison which we do not buy or use! I was crying scince 4:30 AM this morning and Thank you to all of my friends and family who have been here for me.


I dropped my friend as soon as she hung up the phone on me. I then found out that she was calling my husband and i "animal abusers/killers" in the afternoon ALL over the myspace groups. My friends in the group stuck up for me and told her the truth.."that you should get a hobby and that she's a horrible friend, a horrible person and to stop spreading lies"
she was then kicked off/her post taken down off of every group.

I'm not concerned about her, we're still depressed.. it's so surreal like "did it really happen? is she gone??" and i keep tearing up whenever i think about her
sometimes i want to wake up from this bad dream and see her wagging tail the next morning

Becca
08-23-2006, 07:43 AM
I'm sorry that you have such a toxic person in your life, and I'm glad you decided that you weren't going to waste anymore time on her. Life is too short. I'm also so sorry about your loss...I didn't mention that yesterday. I have found this site very helpful in the past - it is a wonderful site that is designed to help grieve the loss of a four legged friend. Check it out.

http://rainbowsbridge.com/Poem.htm

:hugs

BLBnJVB3
08-23-2006, 07:48 AM
I'm so very sorry. So sorry about your precious dog and your former friend. I'm glad to hear all got cleared up so you have no problem keeping your other dogs. From what I read you had absolutely nothing to worry about. Sounds as though you take very good care of them. :hugs :hugs

iceprincessnw
08-23-2006, 09:39 AM
Its very hard to lose a pet that you love. but remember it will be harder on your other dogs as well. just give them more attention and so forth.

Amber V
08-23-2006, 09:44 AM
Hugs sorry for your loss

sgmwife1
08-23-2006, 09:45 AM
:hugs :pray

Kris
08-23-2006, 05:51 PM
I am so sorry for your loss. It is not easy to loose a loved pet it is nice that you have a special stone and everything to remember your dog by. As for your friend I have some choice words but I am going to be good and say that you are MUCH better off without her. Your animals sound loved and cared for and she had no right to say that stuff. Once again I am EXTREAMLLY sorry for your loss.

=Mrs.AiNokeA=
08-23-2006, 06:00 PM
I'm so sorry Aly :hugs what an awful person they are. To even say stuff like that is just awful. Shaun would never do anything like that he is such a nice guy and I'm pissed that someone would even say that he would do something like that. You should tell Jaime I'm sure she could do something about it. :club You know how she is with her friends hehe. I'm glad you did the autopsy and found out what happened but I'm still so sorry that it had to happen in the first place. :( I wish I was there for you sweetie so I could help in whatever way I can. :hugs That person who was talkin crap is gonna get Karma coming after them cuz that was just uncalled for. I'm sorry sweetie if you ever need to talk I'm here for you. :hugs

Kara
08-23-2006, 06:23 PM
:hugs :hugs

Rach
08-23-2006, 06:31 PM
What a crazy person!

I'm sorry for your loss though :sadeyes :hugs

alym
08-26-2006, 12:35 PM
Its very hard to lose a pet that you love. but remember it will be harder on your other dogs as well. just give them more attention and so forth.

We have been and they're taking her passing fairly well. They are however not listening to us and raising hell. They love it when my other friends come over but it's non-stop 24/7 dominance play fight to see who gets her "big dog" spot.

VinnysGirl
08-26-2006, 06:09 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss!! I cannot imagine what it would feel like to lose a pet. We almost lost ours and I didn't know how I would handle that and cried for days!! It is reassuring that it wasn't painful and she passed peacefully! She's in no pain now and happy and healthy!

Your "friend" will get bit in the rear by karma. That was just wrong of her to say and to get on her high pedestal. the truth came out and she's lost friends and respect!

I hope your other dogs calm down soon! It's hard for them in their greiving as well!!

Many prayers for all of you!!! :pray :hugs