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harrisonsdream
08-22-2006, 07:22 PM
how do you feel about it? i mean are you okay with the occasional peck on the lips or cheek and holding hands and if you are waiting in line having your arms around each other? are you okay with the all out making out, feeling each other up?

just wondering because i saw some girl today in the library practically jerking off her bf and it was quite sickening.

so in general what is your stance on pda?

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imho i think the first part of my post is fine--the occasional peck on the lips or cheek, holding hands, etc etc is fine. it crosses the line where i can hear you kissing your SO or it looks like a sex scene from a movie. if there is tongue involved in the kiss (unless in our case its the first time seeing them in months and months and months :giggle) it is too much imo

CoffeeGirl
08-22-2006, 07:24 PM
kissing & holding hands, & hugging I feel are ok with classy limitations but to be doing what you saw in the library is SICK-nobody wants to see your private business you know? I have no problem showing affection in public or having dh show me affection but we are discreet about it too

Pebbles
08-22-2006, 07:32 PM
kissing & holding hands, & hugging I feel are ok with classy limitations but to be doing what you saw in the library is SICK-nobody wants to see your private business you know? I have no problem showing affection in public or having dh show me affection but we are discreet about it too

:yes :yes Well said!

Joy
08-22-2006, 07:36 PM
Holding hands, light kisses, hugs, and leaning into each other or holding the other close all find and dandy for me, a little more at the terminal before the guys leave for deployment or det, and when they get home, no biggy. Even a slap on the ass doesn't bother me.

The spit, tongue everywhere kissing bugs me in the grocery line. Groping, fondling, and just all out dry humping in public drives me insane. I dont care if you are boy/girl, girl/girl, boy/boy...I don't want to see any of it. Wait unitl you get home and have some common courtesy, especially if my children can see and hear you.

Pebbles
08-22-2006, 07:58 PM
Ugh now I'm reminded of a couple in front of me at a store. They were kissing & then the dude licked the girl's face some kind of freaking dog.

:pukey

mara_jade81
08-23-2006, 03:13 AM
Hand holding, hugs, smooches, are all fine by me. The heavy petting/dry humping make out sessions should be left for private. I don't want to see other people practically having sex or sticking their tongues down each other's throats just like they probably don't care to see me doing the same.

KevzQueen
08-23-2006, 04:43 AM
I don't care to see people sucking face or grabbing tail.

Victoria
08-23-2006, 04:58 AM
Basically...if I don't do it infront of my parents then I definitely won't be doing it out in public.
I don't mind hugging, light kissing, and holding hands. I feel awkward if I have a makeout session with Bryan in public. I like to keep things discreet and save things to do in the privacy of our bedroom. :D

Victoria
08-23-2006, 04:59 AM
What does PDA stand for?

USAF_Gal
08-23-2006, 05:16 AM
What does PDA stand for?

Public Display of Affection

Chevy_Gurl
08-23-2006, 11:33 AM
:duh I was thinking at frist you were talking about a handheld PDA. :lmao

But the other type of PDA... its fine in small doses. But too much is :sick and just needs to be taken into a dressing room, the car, or a bedroom.

MichelleB
08-23-2006, 02:35 PM
Keep it PG. If it goes beyond that, take it to the bedroom.

Amber V
08-23-2006, 02:37 PM
kissing & holding hands, & hugging I feel are ok with classy limitations but to be doing what you saw in the library is SICK-nobody wants to see your private business you know? I have no problem showing affection in public or having dh show me affection but we are discreet about it too


This is how I feel also.

Toni
08-23-2006, 02:37 PM
Holding hands, a kiss is fine nothing else. Everything else needs to stay private.

sdshorty
08-23-2006, 05:16 PM
I don't think I've ever really met anyone who had a problem with seeing others have a little bit of PDA for each other in public, it shows that the two people care for each other. But I do think that most people have a problem with other practically having sex in public, that's something NOONE needs to see.

PrincessMia
08-23-2006, 05:40 PM
Keep it PG. If it goes beyond that, take it to the bedroom.


ITA!!:thumbsup

Kara
08-23-2006, 05:44 PM
I think it is okay as long as you know your limits and just limit it to hugs, kisses, holding hands, etc. You just have to be reasonable and respect your surroundings. Doing that in a library is just disgusting IMO!

JoyS
08-23-2006, 06:06 PM
kissing & holding hands, & hugging I feel are ok with classy limitations but to be doing what you saw in the library is SICK-nobody wants to see your private business you know? I have no problem showing affection in public or having dh show me affection but we are discreet about it too

We are the same way.