I miss him so much and im so alone tell me what to do

Well, first of all, welcome to Military SOS. Judging from your question I need to make an assumption that you're a new military girlfriend out of North Carolina, and your other half has recently left to bootcamp?

You'll stop feeling alone as soon as you're reunited with him. In the mean time, hang out here on SOS, find a hobby, study (are you in school?), and go buy World of Warcraft...it's a great timekiller :giggle

Glad you're here :)

Hello, welcome & stay strong-It WILL pass & you can do this sweety!:goodvibes :hugs

It's hard, we all know, but things will get better. Just be strong, keep yourself busy, busy, busy and the time will go by fast. WELCOME!!!!!

like the others say, find something to do, you will be alone until he returns.

I know it is hard, but the more I think about it, and the more I talk about it, the worse I feel sometimes. For me, I work. It helps to get out of the house, and do something, where my DH can't be anyways.. and since he can't be there...then I am less likely to get sad, and then all I have to worry about is hometime...which is hard, but I just try not to think about it. Find someone to talk to.

Hope it gets better

Hey there! Welcome. I'm new too. Pretty new to this as well.

What helps for me actually is writing him every day. I first write it down in a journal (letters to him, not like keeping a real journal). It's nice. Cause I've never had a journal before and I like being able to look back and see how I felt one day. And then I rewrite them and send them. I have written one every day since my db left. At first I didn't have his address so I would decorate envelopes for each letter (I had about 11 or so before I finally got his address) and then I stuck them in a big envelope and sent them along with a picture of me. It's fun and I feel like I'm talking to him. That's just what I do. Mostly I've been fine. Some days I get really down. I just think of it as not being able to not see him but looking forward to the day that I will. I also don't think about each individual day. That would make it harder. I just take one day at a time.

Hope you get better.

Hi and welcome!

Welcome!!! Just keep busy.

Hi Christina,

Welcome to the group.:hugs I'm pretty new here myself, but I really enjoy this forum, and I'm sure you will, too. Like Peekaboo2487, I find it helps me to write daily to Scott. Somedays I'm not feeling very up :tears , so those days I write in a journal, so I don't get him down, too. I know that he's missing home enough without hearing me :tears in a letter. It really helps me to feel like we're actually talking when I write letters.

Like everyone else says...Keep Busy!!! I definitely have much better days when I'm out and about, but no matter what.. I'm always thinking of him, just not in a sad way. I look forward to when he'll be home on leave and think of what I can plan for us and the kids, etc., so that helps me to stay in a more positive mood. There will still be times when you feel like :hairout:lol

Hang in there and come visit with us often....it makes you feel so much better to know you are not alone during these tough times.:goodvibes

Haha WoW. My db played that. He tried to get me into it. It didn't stick. I was afraid of getting into it and not doing homework and stuff. I have enough trouble as it is without something like that to distract me. =)

hi christina & welcome. this site can be very helpful. keep busy!

Hi Christina! Welcome!! If You Need Anything Let Us Know!! :)

If You Need To Talk You Can Message Me On AIM At MakeLoveNotWar30

Have A Great Week!

Welcome to SOS!

Welcome! If you ever need someone to talk to I have aim.... I hope to get to know you better

Welcome! I agree with Becca (Lighthouse Girl) 100%... keep busy! This site, school, taking up a new craft or hobby, great time killers. Stay positive too! :hugs

no hes in afganistan this is the first time he has been deployed scince we have been together

You holding up okay?

welcome! it's hard to miss that boy and it doesn't get any easier, but this site is really helpful.. you'll love it! :hugs

trying to

Take college classes for your own career and use this time for you! You can always write letters and miss him but don't just wait around by the phone. If you are planning a life - better it for the both of you... this is the time to do it! :cp

It will get easier - Hang in there and we will be here for your questions, to vent, and to talk too. :hugs

Welcome! Yes it can be hard sometimes, but you learn to find the strength to keep going. Keeping busy like everyone else mentioned is really the best advice.

:welcome

I just wanted to say Hi welcome to the boards.

babe..im sorry to tell you that it doesnt get better, it only gets worse.. and thats y it's good that you have signed up on this thing. i just signed up too.. its gets toucher.. so you have to get toucher too. my bf left july 05'. hes in Baghdad. i feel your pain, but sincerly know that the feelings of lonliness do not fade. best of luck.

hi and welcome-things will get easier i am sure you just have to get used it-its hard any you have plenty of lonely nights but just pray and GOD will send him the message.