Do you consider yourself a pushover? Always trying to make everyone else happy?

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I voted other. I think sometimes I am, sometimes I'm not. I think I'm a pretty good balance now!

I am completely. I've tried to stop, but I still am. :no

I was once...but I'm not anymore ;)

Now I'm a mommy, I CAN'T be a pushover!! :lol

In some instances yes. It's pretty easy for people to talk me into doing things...not like drugs or anything lol, but you know, babysitting things like that. On the other hand I do not let myself get taken advantage of...if I know for a fact I can't/won't do something I almost always stand my ground.

Ok well...I guess it depends on the circumstances :giggle

nope

I can admit that I use to be but in the last 5 yrs I have come into my own & refuse to try to please everybody all the time-Its important to learn that on your own in your own time & when you do, it feels good-SOOOOOOOOOOOO liberating!:yahoo :yahoo :cp :yes

yeah, i am.

sometimes as in the case of my in-laws i'll try and keep things smooth but i do not give in completely...i'll compromise

Ya, I do tend to be. Wish I wasn't but I guess thats just part of who I am.

I'm not but when it comes to Db yes i am very much and i would like to decrease that.

I think I am. I seem to always want to please everyone.

Nope. At times i give in to dh.. but if im very strong in opinion about something- nothing and nobody is going to change it.

I am a total pushover but I'm nowhere near as bad as I used to be!

I can be. It depends who it is, how their relationship is with me, and the situation.

i totally am. how do you think i ended up with my neighbors' dogs, in heat, and with fleas??

nope..

I like to make other people happy but I'm in no way a pushover.

I chose other, cause I think when it comes to me, I am, but when it comes to my son, or my Dh I am not. I am completly oposite.. Hugs and Kisses Nikki

I used to be, but I haven't been that way in a long time.

I'm a people pleaser by nature ... I make an attempt to not be but I can't stand people not being happy ....

yes i try to make everyone happy, i just hate when people are mad or something at me. i know its bad.

It depends on who it is. There are a few people that I will do anything to make them happy. Others...it depends on the situation. lol.

Honestly, it depends on what kind of mood I'm in and who's asking. I'm pretty easy going and usually agree to do things if I'm in a good mood, but if I'm in a bad mood the answer is always no.

pretty even

I try to make everyone happy, but only if I can do so on my own terms - such as having the time, or being able to make the time or whatever it is that I need to do. If it's possible then, yes. I won't strive for the impossible though, I know my limits. I'm out and out selfish from time to time too.

Not anymore. After being used so many times, enough is enough. If someone doesn't like it then too bad, so sad.

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nope!

Well, I am working on not being a pushover. When it comes to my kids, HELL to the NO I am not a pushover! Its my way or no way. With making others happy, it just depends. I have always been one to make everyone else happy before making myself happy. Now that train of thought has changed and I make myself happy first. SO I think I am coming out of being a pushover.

Try me and see :hystericlaugh

I usually am, but I've started to become bitchy and not let people walk all over me.

only when i want to be. ok so yes i am.

Nope! Did you forget how many kids I have?! :lmao I can't afford to be one.

When in our first year of going out I was totally a push over. But now I've toughened up and am ready to face the music!