incoming poll!

Hubby doesn't go and I'm glad he doesn't! I did used to go occassionally just for entertainment but I really think most strip clubs are nasty with nasty girls.. even the ones that are supposed to be "classy" :sick Neither one of us go to them and I'm glad he has no desire to go. Total waste of money!

He doesn't go, and I'm glad he doesn't. There just isn't a place in our marriage for it. He has been before, but it pretty much tapered off once we got engaged. I don't think he really has a desire to now anyways... he is very particular about the type of girl he likes, so I don't think it would do much for him anyways...

Tony doesn't go. He used to before he met me he's also had a private stripper at a hotel. It's bugs the hell out of me but it was before he met me so there's not much I can do. If Tony went now I'd rip his nuts off :)

Hubby doesn't go and I'm glad he doesn't! I did used to go occassionally just for entertainment but I really think most strip clubs are nasty with nasty girls.. even the ones that are supposed to be "classy" :sick Neither one of us go to them and I'm glad he has no desire to go. Total waste of money!

That's another aspect of it too.. We are working 4 jobs together, I would be furious if he was out blowing that money on lap dances when we are trying to pay off our debt.... just as he would be if I did the same.

Tony doesn't go. He used to before he met me he's also had a private stripper at a hotel. It's bugs the hell out of me it was before he met me so there's not much I can do. If Tony went now I'd rip his nuts off :)

:roflmao OMG, thanks for the giggle. :lmao :lmao :lmao

He doesn't go, and I'm glad he doesn't go. I know he's gone in the past, and I didn't really care - I had a standing rule of 'no lap dances' :lol. Even his buddies knew the rule :rofl But it's really not necessary to visit strip clubs, and I think he's outgrown it. I guess we'll find out when he goes back to sea :dunno

only time he went was for his bachelor party and that's cuz thats what his groomsmen decided. he really has no desire or need to go... if he really wants to see t&a, i can oblige :)

:roflmao OMG, thanks for the giggle. :lmao :lmao :lmao


:lol I'm serious though... lol

He always got lap dances so....

I used to go with my guy friends for shits and giggles but my husband is married now, he doens't need to be looking at them anymore.

I voted that he can go where ever he wants. we have gone to them together, he has gone without me and i have gone without him. neither one of us had a blast. just was trying something new. DH likes it because the beer is cheap!!!:lol

:lol I'm serious though... lol

I used to go with my guy friends for shits and giggles but my husband is married now, he doens't need to be looking at them anymore.

I used to go with my guy friends also... before I was even legal :neutral I was young and curious. :hehe :lmao

I agree with pulling the nuts off. He'd better not waste our money on strippers.

I agree with pulling the nuts off. He'd better not waste our money on strippers.


no kidding if he wants to stick dollar bills in a thong or throw it at a neked chick then he can do it to me.

I used to go with my guy friends also... before I was even legal :neutral I was young and curious. :hehe :lmao

yea me too. back in the day LOL


oh man... the things i did back in the day.... the person i am today is NOT the person i was 6 yrs ago, or 9 yrs ago at 18

he doesn't go and i'm glad he doesn't. if my husband wants to see someone strip then i'll do it for him.

He doesn't go, and I'm glad he doesn't. There just isn't a place in our marriage for it.

That's exactly how I feel. He went before he met me, and thankfully he doesn't see the point in them. Why pay for blue balls, is his saying. :lmao

He has gone to one and even went as far as getting a VIP room!! I wasn't happy when I found out about it but it was when he got out of bootcamp and before we were engaged...so not much I could have done about it. He told me about it oh about halfway into our 1st year of marriage (only cause I asked a question about strip clubs, he wasn't gonna tell me otherwise..). If he were to go now, he wouldn't be coming home and if he did he would have a VERY peeved off wife on the other side of the door waiting to kick him in the 'jewels'....

Why pay for blue balls, is his saying. :lmao

:hehe

he has not gone to one yet, and i wouldnt mind if he does. I actually am curious about it and i would like to go w/him. i wouldn't be ok if he went offten tho.

That's exactly how I feel. He went before he met me, and thankfully he doesn't see the point in them. Why pay for blue balls, is his saying. :lmao

:lmao That's hilarious and so true!

He doesn't go and Im glad. I'd be really hurt if he did go. I think if he has the need to see a naked woman hes got full access at home

DH went to one when I was three months pregnant!! BIG MISTAKE!! He knows better than that now!! I feel like if he has to go somewhere else to look at naked women, than Im not doing it for him!!

Jeremy has gone in the past and it doesn't really bother me. He won't go alone and if they don't have a pool table though. He's more entertained by the cheap beer and pool tables than the girls. He has no inclination to go now though..

My DB and I are only 18, but we've always mentioned the 'strip club' topic.. if him/i/we did ever plan on going, i'd want to go with him (make sure he doesn't touch or try to get a lil somethin'-somethin'!) but um.. i guess i don't really care if he looked (WITH ME!) 'cause we like to critique their boob jobs, if they got one. :giggle

He doesn't, I'm glad about it.

Actually, I'd be furious if he did. Throwing away OUR money on that TRASH! I'd cut his heart out.

He's gone before and I don't mind. My only condition is that he has to talk to me about it before hand, if he goes and I don't know about it till afterward then that feels sneaky. He's only gone a few times with some buddies. I don't mind b/c I trust him and I wouldn't mind going to see what it's all about.

well my hubby used to go to them way before he met me when he was single and i have only gone to them 2 times with him but they really dont do a thing for either one of us because half the girls arent that great looking so we usually dont bother going, but if we were to go i would be going with him and i really dont want him going alone.

I'd kick his teeth out if he ever went to one and he knows it!

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you need an "other" option. i wouldn't mind if he went but come on take me. :teehee

i voted he doesn't but i wouldn't mind

NOPE!

I think it's a DEGRADING place and I would be pissed if I found out he went to one.

I can be his own personal whore stripper :giggle

He's never been to one anyways.

I've seen the women & male strippers in action & they are just plain nasty.

Matt's never been and never would go. He says he doesn't see the point in spending money just to get blue balled.

Joel has gone before... Nothing to worry about with him though he's pretty mean to the girls lol....one time they almost got kicked out for throwing pennies on stage!! LMAO!!! So i voted he doesn't but i wouldnt mind lol

Chris has gone on occasionally, and I dont like it, but what am I going to do to stop him? We're 1400 miles away. Plus it was the guys 21st b-day so that was ok and I think its ok for like bachelor parties. But an all the time thing, oh hell no, I whoop his ass.

He doesnt go, but I dont care...he's not really into it anyway, he'd rather sit and veg with his ps2...:teehee

DH was gone once because he really had no other choice. He was with friends and they wanted to go and he had no way to get home. So he went, and he said it wasn't his thing, so he wouldn't go again. I was kinda upset that he went, but since he won't go again unless I go too, it doesn't bother me now.

He doesn't go, and I'm glad he doesn't go. He isn't into strip clubs at all. I know he went to a few when he was 18-19. I didn't know him then and what young guy doesn't go to them, when they are fresh out of high school.

Bill is old fashioned, and it's just not his thing, the older he gets.

He doesn't go and I'm glad he doesn't but if he asked me and said he wanted to see what one was like I'd let him go. I doubt he'd ever go again :hehe.

He has gone before, but that was before I knew him. But I dont like it... I dont really want him looking at other females and getting somewhat happy about it. NO NO NO NO NO NO!

He doesnt go, but I dont care...he's not really into it anyway, he'd rather sit and veg with his ps2...:teehee

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he has never gone to one and he has no desire to go and im glad. we both said that neither of us go to clubs or strip clubs without one another. so i cant go to dance clubs and he cant go to strip clubs and we are okay with it.

We both don't believe in it,never have. If he said he wanted to go, it would probably mean he had a large change in his personality & spirituality because right now he is VERY against that. Similar reasons to the pornography. We think that the only time you should see an individuals naked body is when you're in love. If he decides to go then he can, I don't care. My sister's fiance had his bachelor party last weekend, and so all the groomsmen after dinner in Boston went to a strip club unexpectedly,so DF came home after dinner.All the guys respected his decision. My future brother in law called me the next day, saying that I had a real good guy and he's lucky to have a great future brother in law:)

DH can go...I really don't care....sometimes I go, so I can't tell him not to.

He's gone occasionally and i don't care if he does. He used to meet is friends there where he's from so once in a while they go back just for kicks.

I really wouldn't mind if he went. I dont think he's ever been to one but I have. I know they are nasty and that the girls there are nasty.

if he went I would be soooooooooooooo pissed!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I put that he doesn't go and I'm happy with that. He's gone a few times, but the rule is he can only go if I am with him-i want to be able to make sure no girls are sticking their asses or breasts in DH's face and that no one buys him a lap dance. Those things are no-no's in my book. Looking is fine, but no touching! As long as I'm there, I don't mind him going....

Maybe it's just me, but I'm taking a little offense to people who are calling dancers 'nasty'. I've have a few friends who are dancers, and was one for a short time....I don't consider myself or my friends to be 'nasty'.

Unless you know the girls personally, then I don't think you should pass judgement on them.

He doesn't go,but I don't care if he does. I know he never will, though.. he isn't in to all of that at all!!

he can only go if i go with him. ive never been to one, male or female. so i am curious. i have heard they are trashy as hell. but gotta try somethings once

DH used to go to strip clubs, but he hasn't in sev years. It wouldn't bother me if he did. He knows "the Rules". I have laid out very clearly what I consider cheating and what is unacceptable in a strip/gentlemen's club. I remind him of it periodically.

Girls are only "nasty" in the trashy strip clubs. There are some very classy strip joints out there.

It crossed my mind more than once to be a stripper/exotic dancer to help put myself through college. I never did it though b/c I was worried about my safety leaving the clubs at night or having someone figure out what car I was driving. I don't know how real those concerns are, but my paranoia was enough to keep me from doing it.

Maybe it's just me, but I'm taking a little offense to people who are calling dancers 'nasty'. I've have a few friends who are dancers, and was one for a short time....I don't consider myself or my friends to be 'nasty'.

Unless you know the girls personally, then I don't think you should pass judgement on them.

i was thinking the same thing but was not going to say anything. most of them are earn money to put themselves through college or to take care of their kids. i am sure we have all done something that we are not proud of for our families.

It crossed my mind more than once to be a stripper/exotic dancer to help put myself through college. I never did it though b/c I was worried about my safety leaving the clubs at night or having someone figure out what car I was driving. I don't know how real those concerns are, but my paranoia was enough to keep me from doing it.

Trust me, those are VERY real concerns.....I usually had a male friend either wait for me at work until I was finished with my set or my shift and ride home with me, or he would give me a ride to his house....all of us girls had a rule that we never walked to our cars alone, even during club hours.


i was thinking the same thing but was not going to say anything. most of them are earn money to put themselves through college or to take care of their kids. i am sure we have all done something that we are not proud of for our families.

Thank you....glad I'm not the only one who thinks like that.

Maybe it's just me, but I'm taking a little offense to people who are calling dancers 'nasty'. I've have a few friends who are dancers, and was one for a short time....I don't consider myself or my friends to be 'nasty'.

Unless you know the girls personally, then I don't think you should pass judgement on them.

well, from the ones I've been to, I feel completely comfortable in passing judgement by saying they are nasty :sick The girls were GROSS looking and had absolutely zero respect for themselves. I've seen some specials on HBO where they've shown some clubs with decent looking girls and those places actually had rules that were enforced (like no dick sucking in the back of the clubf or extra cash) but the clubs I've been to in both Tennessee and Jacksonville were filled with raunchy ass hoes :sick Yes, I'm passing judement, but I'm okay with that because I think it's pretty accurate. :pukey

well, from the ones I've been to, I feel completely comfortable in passing judgement by saying they are nasty :sick The girls were GROSS looking and had absolutely zero respect for themselves. I've seen some specials on HBO where they've shown some clubs with decent looking girls and those places actually had rules that were enforced (like no dick sucking in the back of the clubf or extra cash) but the clubs I've been to in both Tennessee and Jacksonville were filled with raunchy ass hoes :sick Yes, I'm passing judement, but I'm okay with that because I think it's pretty accurate. :pukey

I was just referring to the generalized statements that strippers are nasty, period. I guess I wouldn't have taken offense if the statement was written as 'the strip clubs I've been to and the strippers I've seen are nasty'. That would be more understandable.
I've seen some strippers totally degrade themselves for money, but that doesn't make all of them nasty.

I do feel that you have to be careful how you generalize strip clubs. And yes, it does depend on your experiences with them. Personally, it's your decision to work there, visit there, allow your man to go, or just stay out. Knowing that my man is coming home to me and is completely in love with our relationship, if he ever got the erge to go to one, I'd be okay with it. Knowing the policies of such places, I figure I stand a better chance of him coming home 'clean' to me than I would if he were checking out online porn sites and such where you contact the individual. Either way, I think it's a personal decision between you and your man. As for us, no issue because he only goes when his boys are in town and they know the deal...

He may have gone in the past, but he sure as heck doesn't go now. I'm okay with the porn thing, but I have to draw the line at strip clubs.

i didn't vote only because my rule with db is he can go IF I go. He doesn't go alone :tsktsk It's fun to go together sometimes :teehee

I know my DB has gone a few times when it has been for going away parties for some of the other guys. At one point I didn't mind, but the last time he went to one someone bought him a lap dance. :mad I know its their job to hang all over men, but dammit he's my man and you don't need to be touching him. Hell, he was tellling me that he had his nipple bit by her. :vent I was like WTF. I know he hasn't gone back to one since then, and that makes me a happy woman.

Maybe it's just me, but I'm taking a little offense to people who are calling dancers 'nasty'. I've have a few friends who are dancers, and was one for a short time....I don't consider myself or my friends to be 'nasty'.

Unless you know the girls personally, then I don't think you should pass judgement on them.

ITA with that. I don't think that all girls that strip are nasty of course I'm sure there are a few out there but it's not all of them. I have a few few friends who used to be strippers