incoming poll!

We both will watch it together every once in a while. We had an issue a while back and now he knows he he cannot watch it without me. I don't bother watching it alone.

It's a no-no in this house! I just have really strong feelings about it.

Jason looks occassionally and I'm okay with it. We've been through some serious issues with addiction so I don't like for it to be an every day/all the time type of thing and I'm NOT okay with it if it interferes with our sex life.

I'm okay with it as long as:

It's in moderation
He doesn't hide it from me
It does not take away from our relationship/sex life

We don't really look together because it doesn't do too much for me.

It doesn't do much for me - but I'm ok if he watches.

Jason looks occassionally and I'm okay with it. We've been through some serious issues with addiction so I don't like for it to be an every day/all the time type of thing and I'm NOT okay with it if it interferes with our sex life.

I'm okay with it as long as:

It's in moderation
He doesn't hide it from me
It does not take away from our relationship/sex life

We don't really look together because it doesn't do too much for me.


Tony screwed himself out of it when he was hiding it from me.

To me it's a big NO -NO!!! He used to watch it ALL the time before we got married, and then I told him how I felt about it...I feel that the only naked woman his eyes should see is me! I've caught him sneaking it a few times and WHOA did he find out that I wouldn't tolerate it even for a quick look!! As far as I know now, he hasn't watched porn or anything since the last time he 'snuck' it and I found out, which was oh about 14 months ago.

Jason looks occassionally and I'm okay with it. We've been through some serious issues with addiction so I don't like for it to be an every day/all the time type of thing and I'm NOT okay with it if it interferes with our sex life.

I'm okay with it as long as:

It's in moderation
He doesn't hide it from me
It does not take away from our relationship/sex life

We don't really look together because it doesn't do too much for me.

EXACT same thing here.. Ryan has some, and during pregnancy and after my sex drive was very very low, so it didn't bother me that he has some... but like you said, he can't hide it, and its in moderation...

Jason looks occassionally and I'm okay with it.

I'm okay with it as long as:

It's in moderation
He doesn't hide it from me
It does not take away from our relationship/sex life

I feel the same. I am ok with it. I look at it too and I prefer it to be together. I am NOT okay if it is done behind my back. To me that means there is something to hide. As long as he is honest I dont care. And yeah I do watch with him on occasions

DH doesnt watch it, we do watch it together once in a blue moon!

too many problems in our history involving porn. BIG no-no:refuse

Tony screwed himself out of it when he was hiding it from me.

we went through that also.... we had some major major issues. It's been about 5 years though so we've worked through and past them, thankfully. I totally feel your pain though. There was a time when I couldn't even trust him enough to leave the dang room! :nutts

I'd have a problem if it was hidden from me too. We have one movie that we hardly ever watch. I mostly laugh at it when I do watch it. It's really not a big part of our lives though. We never buy mags except for a Playgirl I bought sometime this year. I really wouldn't like him looking at that on a daily, or even weekly, basis though.

we went through that also.... we had some major major issues. It's been about 5 years though so we've worked through and past them, thankfully. I totally feel your pain though. There was a time when I couldn't even trust him enough to leave the dang room! :nutts

Yah.. Tony was stupid about it and now I just wont put up with him watching it. Then again I still don't trust him with the other crap he has done.

we don't really like watching but we both love looking at playboy. we are very open to that stuff b/c we dont want to hide things from one another. but ithink that's a reason guys hide it b/c its the thrill to them. still no excuse for it tho. i like doing it together

I don't really have a problem with it. We watch it together or he'll watch it sometimes. When he was in VA at school I sent him a video (not of me). Its not something I'd watch alone though. Its fine with us.

We have watched it together before and I know he watched it on the ship during deployment (he told me) we both like the read the mags like hustler, playboy and stuff they really do have some good articles in them.

ok i have a question for the ladies here that have said that they have caught their hubbys hiding it from them. how did you know he was hiding it from you. we watch it together and alone and I have also caught my hubby somewhat hiding it from me. some stuff he tells me about but some stuff he hasnt or he will deny it. so my question is how do you know that they arent still hiding it. my hubby deletes things but i have found certain things that he cant delete but i have never questioned him about it yet until i have good reason too. i dont have a problem with him doing it alone as long as it doesnt interfere in our life and it doesnt become an addiction, but my question to you is if you tell them not to do it behind your back and they tell you yes but yet they are being even more cautious about you not finding it out. how do you know? what tells you if they arent still hiding it or if they are. someone can PM me about this privately. and I am not saying that he has an addiction or anything. he knows that i dont like him watching certain things without me. once it becomes a problem then I will be saying something.

ok i have a question for the ladies here that have said that they have caught their hubbys hiding it from them. how did you know he was hiding it from you. we watch it together and alone and I have also caught my hubby somewhat hiding it from me. some stuff he tells me about but some stuff he hasnt or he will deny it. so my question is how do you know that they arent still hiding it. my hubby deletes things but i have found certain things that he cant delete but i have never questioned him about it yet until i have good reason too. i dont have a problem with him doing it alone as long as it doesnt interfere in our life and it doesnt become an addiction, but my question to you is if you tell them not to do it behind your back and they tell you yes but yet they are being even more cautious about you not finding it out. how do you know? what tells you if they arent still hiding it or if they are. someone can PM me about this privately. and I am not saying that he has an addiction or anything. he knows that i dont like him watching certain things without me. once it becomes a problem then I will be saying something.



dh actually realized that he had a problem and confess to it. I still ask every once and while if he has and he wont lie.

well my hubby says he can take it or leave it and if i am very adament about him not watching it one day or however many days like if i tell him to be a good boy he will usually listen to me. LOL..

DH watches it every now and then, occasionally he'll bring up ideas he's thought about since he watched this or that.. It doesn't bother me, I'm not threatened by it, but then again he's not doing it all the time, and making it something more important than what he and I share together.

I'm not cool with him watching porn.

Like some of you posted, we had a 'hiding' issue....you know the rest...:club

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well we haven't yet but that's going to be a new exploration for us.

my husband feels sorry for those that feel the need to expose their bodies to the world for money, pleasure, addiction, etc...he married me to look at me naked only...it goes against the word of GOD...

I'm okay with it as long as:

It's in moderation
He doesn't hide it from me
It does not take away from our relationship/sex life

We don't really look together because it doesn't do too much for me.


that's us. i watch it with him sometimes for laughs. but he really doesn't look at it alone... he could if he wanted to...we find it amusing for the most part....and having some friends in the industry i guess i feel a little differently about it -- i don't have an issue with it.

I'm not cool with him watching porn.

Like some of you posted, we had a 'hiding' issue....you know the rest...:club

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i was trying to PM you to ask you something and apparently I cant?

that's us. i watch it with him sometimes for laughs. but he really doesn't look at it alone... he could if he wanted to...we find it amusing for the most part....and having some friends in the industry i guess i feel a little differently about it -- i don't have an issue with it.


I have several friends who are in the industry as well... I still wont let Tony watch it after the crap he has pulled. Unless of course he wants to watch "kyles" movies :lol

Well, I know for a fact he doesn't look at it at home & I don't think he does at work (who knows) but NO I wouldn't be ok with it.

If we both were to watch a vid together, that's one thing.

It's a no-no in this house! I just have really strong feelings about it.

Same here...although I'm a bit 'laxed on us watching a porn that involves a couple.

my husband feels sorry for those that feel the need to expose their bodies to the world for money, pleasure, addiction, etc...

Good for him! Those are my beliefs when it comes to porn, strip clubs, etc. and my hubby knows I feel VERY passionate about this & he'd be in for it if he crossed that line & disrespected me.

It's a no-no in this house! I just have really strong feelings about it.

Same here.

I have several friends who are in the industry as well... I still wont let Tony watch it after the crap he has pulled. Unless of course he wants to watch "kyles" movies :lol


ahaha yup.... kyle... LOL

did you see him in my wedding pics? lol

ahaha yup.... kyle... LOL

did you see him in my wedding pics? lol

No I didn't even notice him.. Now I need to go back and look lol

look at the garter toss pics

To be totally honest, I dont think he hardly ever watches it unless its on at a buddies house. I hate porn. If you watch it and get all turned on and want some nookie, mine as well get your happy sock. Dont come lookin for it from me.

look at the garter toss pics


I just saw him in them. He's so cute :giggle

I don't mind. I know its bound to happen when they are gone for 3+ months. We both have watched it together and Its ok....most are really kinda funny. We end up laughing at them lol .

I just saw him in them. He's so cute :giggle

yea he is.

shhh

i didn't say that.

It is a faith issue for us. It is immoral. We have both been exposed to it in the past but our beliefs have changed so we choose not to have anything to do with it. Besides the faith issue, we simply don't think it would be necessary in our marriage.

I wish there was an other button. But it's a BIG NO in this house. I'm not comfortable with it and I feel it's disrespectful to me. He's been caught hiding it before and it's a major issue with us. As far as I know he hasn't looked at it in a long time.

I wish there was an other button. But it's a BIG NO in this house. I'm not comfortable with it and I feel it's disrespectful to me. He's been caught hiding it before and it's a major issue with us. As far as I know he hasn't looked at it in a long time.

Yep, same here. I DO NOT want that shit in my house.

I'm okay with it as long as:

It's in moderation
He doesn't hide it from me
It does not take away from our relationship/sex life

This is exactly what I told Russ when we first started dating and we've never had a problem with it.

Neither of us ever have or ever will. I consider it disgusting, and he considers it cheating if one of us is to watch a tape or look at a magazine or wherever those things are. And I agree and respect that. I've learned in classes and through educational programs what those poor women(and men) go through. Many don't want to be taped, but are forced to. You NEVER know what those people are going through, or who they are. They are people, and many are not willingly "performing". Many become injured, doing things they are not comfortable with. Obviously the viewer does not see it in the tape or magazine but sometimes there is a scum bag with a gun to the womans/mans head literally FORCING them to do that. Not even to mention how many people are underage, as in under the age of 18, on many tapes and magazines. They look older, but they aren't. Which makes some "harmless" porn as child pornography, illegal and disgraceful. I don't think there should be bans because hey, freedom of expression & such. I don't think badly of anyone who watches. But, with this knowledge my fiance and I have a hard time respecting it by any means.

We'll occassionally watch it together. He hasn't watched it by himself in months and the only reason was because apparently I made him incredible horny and he needed to relieve himself. I didn't know that I had made him horny and if I did, I would have taken care of it! But yeah, he doesn't watch it now unless I'm watching it too, and we don't even do that ina while.

he knows that as long as it doesnt take away from us and he isnt hiding it, i have no problems.

I have no problem with porn. DH and I watch it together at times, and he can watch it on his own if he wants to, which is rare.

He used to look at it/watch it and it didn't bother me that much but I told him I would rather he didn't so he stopped. Well while my parents were here visiting he was up late one night and I guess he was looking at some when my mom came down to go to the bathroom in the middle of the night. She said she thought he was looking at it since she didn't have her glasses on and couldn't see much. I asked him and he said he was... On my computer! Not like he doesn't have his own. So I told him to keep it on his own computer and like I said, I'd rather he didn't look at it. Dunno what crawled up his butt that one night :dunno

we both look/watch it at some point wether we're alone or together... I dont really mind if its an occasional thing while hes is in virgina... but if i'm in town together with him... it better be me me me me me me! No need for porn then!!!

he does watch and look sometimes but not allll the time, and im okay with it. he says he would much rather look at me.

Neither of us ever have or ever will. I consider it disgusting, and he considers it cheating if one of us is to watch a tape or look at a magazine or wherever those things are. And I agree and respect that. I've learned in classes and through educational programs what those poor women(and men) go through. Many don't want to be taped, but are forced to. You NEVER know what those people are going through, or who they are. They are people, and many are not willingly "performing". Many become injured, doing things they are not comfortable with. Obviously the viewer does not see it in the tape or magazine but sometimes there is a scum bag with a gun to the womans/mans head literally FORCING them to do that. Not even to mention how many people are underage, as in under the age of 18, on many tapes and magazines. They look older, but they aren't. Which makes some "harmless" porn as child pornography, illegal and disgraceful. I don't think there should be bans because hey, freedom of expression & such. I don't think badly of anyone who watches. But, with this knowledge my fiance and I have a hard time respecting it by any means.


:yes

It's whatever to me.....if I'm not in the mood, and it keeps him from bugging me, then I'm all for it.
We watch it together, but not often...
If it turns into an obsession, then it becomes a problem.

I voted that both of us look at it, though for me it's a rarity.

I don't really have a problem w/DH looking at porn. He has a subscription to Playboy (and yes, they do actually have some really interesting articles in there). I know he looks at it on the computer sometimes, and while he was TDY recently, he download a whole bunch onto his laptop for us to watch together.

I will admit that sometimes, stumbling across porn on the computer I wasn't expecting to find makes my heart skip a beat. I do have my moments on insecurity and worry if he still finds me attractive, etc...In those situations, I'll mention it to him, we talk about it, and everything is fine.

And when he's gone for lengths of time, such as deployment, I make sure he's loaded up on "punchie porn". I do prefer it if he's doing his thing to me as opposed to nameless women.

The only time I would ever have a beef w/porn is if it replaced our sex life. THAT is when you have a problem on your hands. As long as he still wants me and porn is just something on the side, I'm good.

I know he watches it, since we havent been around each other yet. And I watch it too. Its not a regualr thing for me, but if the mood is right I'll watch it with my SO. Some of them are just too funny. SUch bad making.

I like how punchie put it "loaded up with punchie porn" i agree with that statement :o)

I'm ok with it as long as it is in moderation. It's been a while since he's looked at it though.