different towards gay people that display pda than towards heterosexual couples? if you do, do you feel different towards lesbian couples than gay couples?

i'm asking this because i know alot of people that are disgusted by 2 men but not 2 women..for whatever reason.

imo i don't want to see anybody playing tonsil hockey or groping each other. it weirds me out a bit to see homosexual couples making out because its not something i see everyday. but then again it makes me uncomfortable to see a heterosexual couple almost going at it too.

ETA: i don't mean a quick peck or holding hands i mean all out groping each other.

it doesn't bother me when i see pda whether it being a hetrosexual couple or a homosexual couple wheter they be men or women.

One of my very good friends is gay and although I love him to death I think I would feel a lil weird seeing him make out with some guy. Then again if I saw anyone just making out in front of me I'd feel uncomfortable. I really dont care about gays being together though it's their lives not mine and I'm just glad that they are happy. :shrug It also depends on how much they are going at it too.. if it's just small kisses and hugs then I really dont care it's when they are like on each other and wont stop that makes me uncomfortable. :teehee

It doesn't bother me. I have a gay friend that I see show affection towards his boyfriend all the time.

well for me it really depends on how far they are going and if my child is present, because some things are to be left behind closed doors. i dont mind some pda but not all of it. i would not want to see a man fondling a womans breast in public. or a woman doing something to a man in public. KWIM? kissing and hugging and a coping a feel here and there is fine. but the really physical stuff. no way.

cat...you always manage to say it better than me lol

well i dont know if the way i said was any better or not, but i just put it in words that i can understand LOL..

Well for me, I just dont want to see it. That is sticking your damn tongue down his/her mouth. Eww thats nasty. That goes for gay or straight. Holding hands and you know a pinch on the butt here and there, thats fine. Like Cat said, some things should just be left behind closed doors.

Extreme PDA is just gross, period. Have some tact....if it's that serious, go the hell home or get a hotel room....

I don't appreciate seeing any two people playing tonsil hockey - be they male/female, female/female, or male/male. Holding hands is one thing (and perfectly fine by me) but sometimes people just need to get a room...

Heterosexual, homosexual...I don't care. I dislike PDA period. I don't want to watch anyone playing tonsil hockey, etc...in public. It's rude all the way around. Holding hands, huggin, a quick peck on the cheek/lips...those don't bother me.

I don't want to see anyone making out. Holding hands, hugging, a peck here and there is fine. But the groping, tonguing, nastiness is right out, doesn't matter homo or hetero.

Heterosexual, homosexual...I don't care. I dislike PDA period. I don't want to watch anyone playing tonsil hockey, etc...in public. It's rude all the way around. Holding hands, huggin, a quick peck on the cheek/lips...those don't bother me.

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I dont like to see anyone making out period. lol A quick kiss or holding hands doesn't bother me but when they're going at it for several minutes at a time...thats something that should be done at home not in public.

this got posted earlier because i was walking to my class on campus and this girl was dry humping her boyfriend on in the grass. i was like ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

I dont care for it..and it doesnt matter, homosexual or straight..

Heterosexual, homosexual...I don't care. I dislike PDA period. I don't want to watch anyone playing tonsil hockey, etc...in public. It's rude all the way around. Holding hands, huggin, a quick peck on the cheek/lips...those don't bother me.

I'm the same - I don't mind hugs, holding hands, quick kisses, but I really don't like other PDAs like out and out snogging or groping (no matter what sexuality they are!) Call me prudish.. :blush

Im not found of PDA either way

i am happy this was brought up!

Db picked me up at the airport and thier were to men hugging and giving each other light kisses. not making out and gropping. he was disgusted and was saying OUT LOUD how wrong it was and cursing. he was sooo pissed off. but i told them i didnt see it that way! I just saw two ppl inlove. Db said two men OR two women can not be inlove that is not love it is just sex.

i GREW up w/a lesbian aunt. i GREW up learning it was ok. So i don't mind seeing two men hug and kiss JUST PLEASE KEEP YOUR TOUNGE IN UR MOUTH!

I don't feel any different at all. I have so many gay friends I'm used to it.

I don't like it either way but I get sick when I see two same-sex people doing. I feel bad saying that, but it's true. I wish I didn't feel that way but I do. I'm very against it. That's very mean of me but I'm being honest.

I don't like it either way but I get sick when I see two same-sex people doing. I feel bad saying that, but it's true. I wish I didn't feel that way but I do. I'm very against it. That's very mean of me but I'm being honest.

honey your entitled to feel that way. i'm guessing because of your religious views..not trying to sound like a b-i-t-c-h but from other posts you have made i'm assuming its because of that. don't feel bad that's your opinion

I don't like it either way but I get sick when I see two same-sex people doing. I feel bad saying that, but it's true. I wish I didn't feel that way but I do. I'm very against it. That's very mean of me but I'm being honest.

You're entitled to your opinion :)

Seeing anyone really making out is to much for me. But that being said I find nothing wrong with same sex couples being men or women.

if i see a gay couple together walking down the street or at the mall, i dont have a problem with it. its their right just as much as it is a straight couples right to hold hands, kiss and hold each other in public. i hate watching anyone whether it being a gay or straight couple grop each other and making out in public, but i dont see a problem with gay couples holding hands and giving each other pecks.

Same sex couples don't bother me, PDA doesn't bother me either. I'm just an open person like that. My kids have seen people make out in public at the parks and stuff (for some reason teens like to make out in the park LOL) and we just have to explain to them that people do that because they love each other. No big deal, kids are going to see it sometime in their life anyways.

It doesn't bother me, hetero, gay men, lesbians...it's all the same to me. But, 2 men kissing, now that's pretty hot. :neener

i am happy this was brought up!

Db picked me up at the airport and thier were to men hugging and giving each other light kisses. not making out and gropping. he was disgusted and was saying OUT LOUD how wrong it was and cursing. he was sooo pissed off. but i told them i didnt see it that way! I just saw two ppl inlove. Db said two men OR two women can not be inlove that is not love it is just sex.

i GREW up w/a lesbian aunt. i GREW up learning it was ok. So i don't mind seeing two men hug and kiss JUST PLEASE KEEP YOUR TOUNGE IN UR MOUTH!

I will probably be considered the strange person in this post... I agree with your DB. I don't think two people of the same sex are really in love...I think they grew up lacking attention from the male/female parent and that is where they are finding that attention now that they are older.

Granted, I don't want to see ANYBODY making out or dry humping their SO, it just is something better kept private. Although I do not agree with homosexuals I know they are there and as long as I don't have to see anything I don't mind. I have a gay friend too and he knows I disaprove and that I don't want to know anything about what he and his "friends" do. I don't mind if they are holding hands or a quick hug but anything else I don't want to see. JMO though!

well, to take it back the old saying...two men can hold guns in the name of war, but cannot hold hands in the name of love.

how sad.

i am a big fan of queer theory which states that gender is fluid, and essentially a social construction. why does the outside have to match the inside and vice versa? we are what we are. let's live and let live eh? :lovestruck

I'm not a big PDA fan normally. I don't care if it's a heterosexual or homosexual couple. Holding hands and peck kisses are fine, but groping does not belong in a public place, imo.

The one thing that always drives me crazy is when two people are walking together almost in a line as if they are glued together. How can they even walk like that. PDA doesn't really bug me unless people are half way down the road to humping on the spot. Kisses, hugs, hand holding is cute for the most part heterosexual or gay, doesn't matter to me.