Why is it that since my husband and I have planned on getting pregnant I am obssessing over it? Like I can't think about much else and I am annoyed that it is not happening because I just want to get this part of the pregnancy thing over with. It's driving me crazy!!!!!:tears

:hugs relax and itll happen!

Don't worry girly!!! The same thing happened with me! It took us 7 months to conceive Ethan. I didn't do charting or anything. And then Christmas vacation at my parent's house came around, and that's when I got preggo!!! I wasn't thinking about it!!! :) Good luck to you!!!

:hugs relax and itll happen!


I really think not obsessing about it is a key thing.

I really think not obsessing about it is a key thing.
I really believe that too!!!
Let sex be fun. :D

hi hun, i am right there beside you. It consumes my mind. I think its normal (not that it helps to know that).

:hugs let me know if you want to talk.

Its pretty much all I think about too and we're not even trying anymore. lol I wont tell you to relax and let it happen because I know how hard that is. Good luck!

enjoy :sex and don't try and make it into a necessary thing. it'll happen when your body says ok we are ready. stressing won't help much. my aunt has the same issue except she'll get preggo and then get so stressed about what she is doing to the baby even if she walks past some cleaning supplies that she ends up losing the baby. :goodluck

I wish I could relax. I try not to let it consume my mind but it is almost impossible. I know if my period comes this week that I will be soooooo bummed out. We have never planned a pregnancy before. It's always just happend. Now..... I just can't stop thinking about it. :tears

I wont tell you to relax and let it happen because I know how hard that is.
Finally, the truth.

When you finally decide to stop having :sex as a sport and it become a purpose, you are BOUND to stress over it and fret.

BUT, keep in mind that once those days pass, there is nothing you can do, either you are or are not pregnant.

I am right here along side you I UNDERSTAND!

I know how much it sucks too. We tried for nearly 2 years before I decided we need to take a break and hopefully it will happen when he comes back next summer. If you need to talk or vent about it let me know...I've been there. :)

Thanks!:)