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achicnsocal 11-26-2006, 09:24 PM I was wondering if anyone else has ever had this happen within their relationship ...
Nick is coming home in just a little over 3 weeks and for some reason I'm stressed over it a little .. :confuzzle He even admitted the other day that he was nervous about how things were going to be ...I keep worrying that it won't be the same as before .... Did anyone else ever worry about this ??
CoffeeGirl 11-26-2006, 09:26 PM I think it's ABSOLUTELY normal to feel nervous & scared etc but it will all fall into place after he is home, you guys can talk & be together etc-Its all good sweety-you are beautiful & he loves you & you have 2 gorgeous boys coming into this world so try to just enjoy the homecoming hun:hugs :hugs :hugs
Rachael 11-26-2006, 09:33 PM I think it's ABSOLUTELY normal to feel nervous & scared etc but it will all fall into place after he is home, you guys can talk & be together etc-Its all good sweety-you are beautfiul & he loves you & you have 2 gorgeous boys coming into this world so try to just enjoy the homecoming hun:hugs :hugs :hugs
I completely agree....I did want to kill Bill after 2 weeks last time, because of standown and him not having to work AT ALL but if you mentally prepare yourself for it, it helps. Things will slowly fall into place, routines will change, and it will all start to feel normal again :hugs
MelissaMc424 11-26-2006, 09:47 PM That's completely normal Becky! Just try and relax... things will be just fine!
I agree with the other ladies. I think it is SO normal to feel like that.
I know everytime mine has come home, I get so excited and nervous too. Not seeing him and being able to touch him let's my paranoia get the best of me. The first few hours too after my husband is home, we sort of see how the other is reacting and go off that. Within a few days, it's all back to normal, but I think it's just fine to have that anxiety!!! :)
achicnsocal 11-26-2006, 10:28 PM Thanks ladies .. I'm sure it'll be fine and I think I'm just nervous because not only have I changed mentally but there has obviously been alot of physical changes and although I'm sure that he's going to see these changes as beautiful and says he thinks my pictures are beautiful .. I think he's going to be rather shocked .. so I guess I'm a little nervous about that too ..
Maybe some of it is that we really didn't have alot of time together before he left and I'm scared of how things have changed ... :nutts
I think I just need to relax and enjoy my homecoming :giggle
*Crystal* 11-26-2006, 10:30 PM Thanks ladies .. I'm sure it'll be fine and I think I'm just nervous because not only have I changed mentally but there has obviously been alot of physical changes and although I'm sure that he's going to see these changes as beautiful and says he thinks my pictures are beautiful .. I think he's going to be rather shocked .. so I guess I'm a little nervous about that too ..
Maybe some of it is that we really didn't have alot of time together before he left and I'm scared of how things have changed ... :nutts
I think I just need to relax and enjoy my homecoming :giggle
Yea I think yall are both nervous because you are pregnant and neither of you know what to expect onces hes there!!! Totally normal honey!! :hugs
Armylove 11-26-2006, 10:32 PM I am worried that when DF gets back from his first deployment that it will be wierd. But Im sure things will be ok. It will take getting used to for sure. But Im sure things will be fine.
i think you guys will be totally fine.
He might be shocked, but I am SURE he will think you (and your boys!) are BEAUTIFUL!
hun you are gonna have an amazing homecoming!! :lovestruck im sure everything will be peachy keen! :hugs
Purplekittie 11-27-2006, 12:41 AM you are going to have a great homecoming. just try to relax :hugs
oneandonlyval 11-27-2006, 03:05 AM I was wondering if anyone else has ever had this happen within their relationship ...
Nick is coming home in just a little over 3 weeks and for some reason I'm stressed over it a little .. :confuzzle He even admitted the other day that he was nervous about how things were going to be ...I keep worrying that it won't be the same as before .... Did anyone else ever worry about this ??
omg..that is so weird..its like you took the words right out of my mouth..omg..db comes back in a little over 4 weeks and i am super nervous..nervous to see him, nervous about how things are gunna be..its killing me..but lately ive gotten to talk to him on the phone so im not as nervous..and i saw a pic..that was another thing i was dying to know..whats he gunna look like?! but yea, i think about that all the time so your totally not alone!
defying_gravity 11-27-2006, 07:09 AM i'm sure you guys will be great. i do know what you mean, db isn't coming home for almost 5 mos, and i'm already a lil nervous
*Gerbik'sGal* 11-27-2006, 07:52 AM :hugs :hugs :hugs things are going to be wonderful. you are having his babies!
achicnsocal 11-28-2006, 04:31 PM Thanks ladies! I'm sure things are going to be great but I can't help but feel flip floppy :teehee
Yea I think yall are both nervous because you are pregnant and neither of you know what to expect onces hes there!!! Totally normal honey!! :hugs
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