~Jess~
12-14-2006, 09:37 AM
incoming poll
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View Full Version : Does your SO go to all your dr appts? ~Jess~ 12-14-2006, 09:37 AM incoming poll MelissaMc424 12-14-2006, 09:39 AM Nope... he wasn't allowed off work for most of my OB appointments, has only been to 2 of Cam's drs. appointments as well. I'm used to it by now... ~Jess~ 12-14-2006, 09:40 AM My hubby comes to all of mine. we make them later in the day so he can come. After lossing Ethan I wont go alone incase of bad news. Rileysmom 12-14-2006, 09:42 AM Yes he comes to them all.. he always asks the doctor a million questions.. Scarlett 12-14-2006, 09:54 AM nope, hes a full time student so he cant just take time off. Its nobiggie though....they are basic and fast so he isnt missing anything...its our third baby, he knows the routine! Rach 12-14-2006, 10:30 AM Yes he comes to them all.. he always asks the doctor a million questions.. :yes It would embarress me! :lol Donna 12-14-2006, 10:32 AM nope, he never went to my appts..... he went to all my big ultrasounds though. he never could get off work to go. CMPCAP 12-14-2006, 10:36 AM He came to all of mine but then decided he didn't want to be there when they did an internal exam. He just stepped out while they did it. Kara 12-14-2006, 10:38 AM I haven't had a child yet and I'm not married but I would like, if it's possible, to have Mike go to all of them. Not only because it's important to me for him to be there, but also he knows a great deal about medical things, and could be a second opinion and explain things to me. Kaymara 12-14-2006, 10:47 AM He came to all of Ethans appts but now he takes off work and stays home with Ethan because my Dr runs late alot and theres nothing for him (Ethan) to do there Rileysmom 12-14-2006, 10:50 AM :yes It would embarress me! :lol Me too! :lol He's like "so if his poop is a little bit brown, a little bit green, but not too green, and is really stinky, what does that mean?" :no It means he took a crap, dumbass, that's what it means! :lmao But he is very interested in it all so I am thankful for that! TrishaM 12-14-2006, 10:54 AM When I was prego, he tried to go, but I knew he didnt want to be there. For women I think its a big deal for theor partners to be with them to share everything they can. NavyChiefs_Wife 12-14-2006, 11:21 AM when i was pregnant matthew was only able to go to the very first two which was a blood test and the second one was just paper work. he would have went to them all if he hadn't have been deployed. now when i have to go to the doc he tries to take off and i try to schedule them late in the day so he can make it to them. Chevy_Gurl 12-14-2006, 11:30 AM He only made it to 2 appointments. The big U/S at 20 weeks. And my amnio. Cherrish 12-14-2006, 11:36 AM With DD, he couldn't, because he was in Tech School....before he left for Tech School, he went with me to my first one, and for my second one, they gave me an ultrasound so he could see the baby before he left. I think with this one, he wants to. MichelleB 12-14-2006, 11:41 AM John came to several of mine when he could get off. He was there for the important ones, so that's all that mattered to me :) Potatocup 12-14-2006, 11:55 AM DH went to the important ones and one of the short ones. it was a long trip for a 15 minutes appt. i didn't even want to go, but it was harder for me to get out of it. :P BGsWIFE 12-14-2006, 12:03 PM well he tries goes to all of them but i think he missed one. like if he has duty or something on that day he tells me that i have to change my appt:teehee ! but i think that is the one time he missed it, but it was just a regular appt!lol......he just doesn't want to miss anything! Legs 12-14-2006, 01:04 PM With my daughter's he was gone for almost all Doc appts. He has only ever seen 2 ultra sounds and that is it. All I care about is him being there for the birth!!! :D Kristin 12-14-2006, 01:06 PM Well......obviously I'm not pregnant, but I voted anyways :teehee my ex H and my dh went to EVERY OB appt. and u/s with me and my ex H went to every pedi. appt. until we got divorced, Brian has only been to 2 pedi. appts. with me for Emilee, but it's hard for him to get off of work for those now. wolfspawprint 12-14-2006, 01:20 PM I voted other. Because I know Dh would be there in a heartbeat if he wasn't in Cuba for the first 4 and the big ultrasound. He will be there for the January appt and every one he can get to after that. I have always had a girlfriend with me everytime that he wasn't there though. *Crystal* 12-14-2006, 01:33 PM DH went to all my appointments when I was pregnant! BzzzWife 12-14-2006, 01:37 PM Yeppers..He has been to most of my TTC/Gyno appts so far..He plans on going to every visit when we (knocking on wood) get pregnant too. He said since it's his baby also he wants to be involved in everything.. Brooke 12-14-2006, 01:40 PM He tries to come to all of mine, but if we don't have a babystiier, he has to wait outside. Brandi 12-14-2006, 01:48 PM He came to all of Ethans appts but now he takes off work and stays home with Ethan because my Dr runs late alot and theres nothing for him (Ethan) to do there ditto! he tried to with Jaxon and even with Shelby sometimes but he didn't go to ANY of them for my preg with Hunter... except the one big ultrasound. Caimbrie 12-14-2006, 01:58 PM He tried to go to as many as he could but a lot of the times he couldn't get off work. Frankie Lee 12-14-2006, 04:03 PM Yes, always!! *~*Cori*~* 12-14-2006, 04:28 PM He will be at as many as humanly possible to be at... Since it will be a civi dr Im sure I can make them for later in the afternoon after he gets off at 1:30. He says he will be there especially for the big ones! (L) dollface 12-14-2006, 04:45 PM I am sure he would if I wanted to but I don't see the point. mara_jade81 12-14-2006, 05:39 PM Jason missed every one with Madison because of C school and then being in DG. I tried to schedule my appointments around his work schedule when I was pregnant with Hayden and he only missed a couple, they were the boring ones anyhow :hehe. navycorpsmanwife 12-14-2006, 08:33 PM yes but he works at the hospital so its not that hard to get off work EscosGurl 12-15-2006, 12:10 AM He only made it to 2 appts, cause they we always underway when I had my appts. He went to the big ultrasound and to a checkup the day before he left for deployment! :( Victoria 12-15-2006, 02:09 PM No, I go alone, unless I *need* him there. Before I got preggo, I had and wanted Bryan to come with me when I got my colposcopy done. When I went to the ER the other night for Ethan, Bryan was surely by my side. Now if he was on duty, that may be a different story... ETA: When it came to my pregnancy appts, he was there 95% of the time. I always scheduled them on non-duty days. :) jennyb 12-15-2006, 03:45 PM Jason made it to Every appt with Blake and only missed 1 of Jers cause he was underway. MontanaSweetie 12-16-2006, 08:54 PM When I was pregnant, my DH came to all my doctor's appts, when the boat wasn't out on det. The boat was in the middle of work-ups during my pregnancy, so he was gone alot, but when he was home he came with me to everything. :D KevzQueen 12-16-2006, 09:16 PM When he's here he comes with me. We have one car, so he has to leave work anyway. airyn1 12-18-2006, 12:00 AM Joe only went to the last couple appointments with me when I was preggo with Mara. He was in A/C school in Great Lakes and I was living with my parents in Texas. With Morgan he only went to the one where my doctor put in all his information for his vasectomy (that we never went through with), my 20 week ultrasound, and then at the end for my amnio. He's never gone to a Well Baby/Child check with me for either of the girls. Ste9 12-18-2006, 12:03 AM He goes when he can but not all the time MRussell 12-18-2006, 07:57 AM DH always made it to all my OB appointments since he didn't want me driving. Now that we have Austin he comes to most since I need him to watch Austin. momto5lilmonkeys 12-18-2006, 08:09 AM DH went to as many as he could. all of my pregnancies were high risk and so I had a lot of appts. he just couldnt get time off for all of them.. he tried though :) piggypunkinetta 12-18-2006, 11:03 AM I never asked him and always made the appointments around my other kids school schedules so it wasnt a big deal if he didn't come. He was always there for all three's big ultrasounds. He does go to the kids appointments if we have a major concern. Tiffany 12-18-2006, 11:06 AM When I was Preggo DH wanted to come but was at school in FL and couldnt make it to any... But I think next time he will be here and can go... |