(I didnt really know where to put this forum?) ......
I love him so much..but its like his deployment changed him..sometimes for the better and sometimes for the worst! but why cant he admit his mistakes!.....

Im really mad that your home from you deployment...and we arent togther tonight because we got in a stupid fight and you were to COCKY to say sorry!! When its YOUR fault its YOUR fault! I said sorry for my part..now why the hell cant you be man enough to say sorry..it would be over and done with! And you want to get married,How can I egt married to a man that has a bad temper? cant admit your wrong! and you all of the sudden have to be dominant about EVERYTHING! I DONT EVEN KNOW HOW TO RESPOND TO YOU ANYMORE!!!!! I hate that you have changed so much!!!:tears

im sorry :hugs!

Im sorry

im sorry hun :hugs

I'm sorry hun...wish there was more I could say to help. :hug

sorry hun

I'm sorry- I am kinda dealing with the same thing so PM me if you want to chat :)

I hope he pulls his head out of his ass soon!!! Sorry he's being such a jerk!!! :hugs

"Love means never having to say you're sorry." Sorry I was watching Love Story earlier, why I love it I just do not know.
After having been married for nearly nine years and with my man for over 11, I will offer a piece of advice. Bear in mind that I am not sure what the fight was about, but here is goes...
Do you want to be right, or do you want to be with your man? Sometimes, when the fight is not going to alter the rest of your life, it is better just to let it go. I have had MANY fights with my man. Stuff that started small, and then just escalated to the point where we were starting to consider divorce. At some point we realized that we were always going to see somethings differently and just to respect it. He respects that I am batty, afraid to leave the house sometimes, jealous over any female, and just in general a nut case. I respect that he procrastinates, loves his car (even though its not being driven), picks his cuticles, leaves his underwear behind the bathroom door...
These seem petty things, but each of these things have nearly ended my marriage. Take care with your relationship.
Like I said, take what I say with a grain of salt, I am just an old, married woman.

:agree I have only been married for about a year, but being together for 3 years prior, there have been MANY petty incidents that threatened to end it for us, all because we are both very stubborn, often intense, volatile personalities. Some may say that we're not a good match, but there's some reason we've made it through years of a long distance relationship without questioning the love and devotion we have for one another... it simply comes down to that.

You must choose which you value more and let go... in heinz sight, the majority of your worries are not worth your hassle; of course, if they are, discuss it like adults and make sure that he understands it's critical to your well-being and the relationship's also that you keep communication open.

I'm not exactly sure what it is you have going on, and I'm not trying to give advice on something I know nothing about, so forgive me if I seem a little off. But I've been there, I know your pain! LOL. PM me if you ever need someone to talk to. Hope things get better soon. :hugs

Nichole

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Pick your battles wisely. Sometimes it's not worth it to try and change a man's mind.

im sorry sweetie. that's aint cool.:hugs

2 very important words before you are married: couples counseling. I've insisted on it with DF when he comes home this spring.

Yeah I have thought about it