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SezzySue
01-11-2007, 06:16 PM
Ok so I am kinda stuck. Right now EVERY one of my close friends are pregnant. I don't even know how to deal with it. I am so jealous because that is the one thing I want and can't seem to have. I am so happy for everyone of the, but I am unsure how to deal with it (inside). Any tips?

*~*Cori*~*
01-11-2007, 06:22 PM
Im so sorry Sarah... I am right in the same boat. I don't want to be jealous because its a blessing for the,.... but just want to know when it will be my turn... :sadeyes

CoffeeGirl
01-11-2007, 06:23 PM
:hugs :hugs :hugs :hugs :hugs to you both;)

Kaymara
01-11-2007, 06:29 PM
Sorry. No advice. I went thru this for 9 and a half years while TTC my son. I just kinda got used to the fact and would smile and congratulate them etc. I was truly happy for them but jealous it wasnt me.

Kat
01-11-2007, 07:05 PM
Sorry. No advice. I went thru this for 9 and a half years while TTC my son. I just kinda got used to the fact and would smile and congratulate them etc. I was truly happy for them but jealous it wasnt me.

:yes Same here.
Just remember you will get your turn some day. I use to get so jealous, but then I had to realize that was selfish of me. They didnt get pregnant to make me mad. Just trust that God knows what he is doing.

And that saying.... it will happen when you LEAST expect it. :hi Im living proof. I had actually given up. Totally.

Ashnbri
01-12-2007, 12:16 PM
Before I was pregnant with this one..both of me and DH's good friends were pregnant and it was really hard..but they were in dif states So i guess it was a little easier for me because I didnt have to see them everyday. It is okay that you feel this way. Just try to not think about it and things will be fine.

Ellen
01-12-2007, 12:21 PM
Patience. You just have to know that when it's the right time for you to get pregant, it will happen. I think that stressing out about trying to become pregnant is not going to help your trying. Patience. (I have to keep telling myself this)

missinghim
01-12-2007, 01:35 PM
I am in a similar situation with being in all my friends weddings here lately. I have three weddings to be in and two more that I will be attending :sigh I know it's not the same exactly but I know what you mean about the jealousy part.

You WILL get preggo soon though girlie...and when you do you will make a wonderful mommy! :yes

MichelleB
01-12-2007, 01:41 PM
I have no experience with this sort of thing. But I do have my faith. And I believe everything happens for a reason. Even if you don't have the same beliefs, know that someone else has a bigger and better plan for you. And when the time is right, it will happen.

You'll be in my thoughts!

iLuvKev
01-12-2007, 01:42 PM
aaww Sarah, all i can do for you is pray and pray for ur lil miricale to come. all good things come to those who wait. i know you feel like you have been waiting for ever i am sure of. good luck sweety.

have you guys looked into adopting? if you don't mind me asking. i know i don't know the whole situation, just curious tho.

MRussell
01-12-2007, 03:44 PM
I know how you feel. I have Austin but all of my friends just had their 2nd or are preggers with their second. I feel out of the cool pregnant loop. I just keep telling myself when the time is right we will have another one.

:hugs

Amanda
01-12-2007, 05:24 PM
aww hun it will come for you I promise. Even though I wasn't trying to concieve it always felt like all my friends were pregnant and having babies and I couldn't WAIT for my turn to come. Well, let me tell you, my time came when I LEAST expected it to. Just relax and have fun with your man never know that may be when it happens ;)

Shep's Wife
01-12-2007, 05:49 PM
I am so sorry your having to deal with that sweetie. I know your time will come :hugs :hugs :hugs

SezzySue
01-13-2007, 12:16 AM
i know my time will come but it doesn't make me feel any better today. Its so hard knowing we should have a baby already but instead we lost it. Things happened our first time together and now that we want them too its just not happening. :dunno

Callie
01-13-2007, 04:01 PM
I'm sorry!!! I know exactly how you feel, and it sucks!!! I hated being upset and jealous of people that I cared for because they were having a baby and I wasn't. But let me say, when the time is right, it will happen. I promise. It took us five years. Good luck!!

SezzySue
01-13-2007, 06:31 PM
i can't imagine going for 5 years and not giving up.