Hmm...so...i deleted my myspace page cause my boyfriend saw a comment one of my guy friends left me. The comment wasn't bad. My sailor is just the jealous type. We got into it pretty bad. Now I dont know if we're together or what. He said he would call me when he got to Kuwait which is in like 3 weeks(yeah he's in Iraq).He said he doesn't want any emails. Its all redundant. We get into a fight, he tells me that same thing all the time, but he always comes back to me.Maybe its cause he wants to come home and is just frustrated or something I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :ohno

its not the first time I delete my page for him. But if its gonna cause these may problems Im not gonna have one. What kills me about our fight is that every time we get into it he always brings his ex up. He does it to get me mad!! And I HATE this bitch. Shes the kind that never leaves ur man alone cause if she cant have him no one can. And believe me, I would of kicked her ass a long time ago, but I live in Chicago and this trick lives in North Carolina. She goes through military guys like she would go through her underwear or something. (at least lets hope) She has no shame. And my boyfriend said he was gonna leave her a comment like the one my friends left me. But there's a difference right? Cause my friend isn't my Ex, he never tried to get with me where in his case, she does. So should I be feeling like Im giving him a double standard? Im kinda lost right now :oops

hmmm that's a tuffy I would say that's differenet because this guy isnt' your ex so there's no past between you two

I know what you mean about this situation,my df gets mad about my myspace all the time,he would read the comments that guys would leave and get so mad. So we talked about it and of course he said that same thing yours said..what if I left a comment to a girl like that bla bla...then we compromised he gets on mine..whenever he wants and he talks to his friends and I talk to mine..I guess you can say we share it. You dont ahve to do this but its just an idea, we did this so he didnt have to worry. and now he barely gets on...because he sees that sometimes guys are going to leave comments and mean TOTALLY NOTHING by it. :) hope everything works out:hugs

Why dont you just get one of those things (not sure what its called...) where you have to aprove all your comments before they can be posted...think it would save you a lot of headaches... and heartaches... hope everything works out honey...:hugs

Why dont you just get one of those things (not sure what its called...) where you have to aprove all your comments before they can be posted...think it would save you a lot of headaches... and heartaches... hope everything works out honey...:hugs

yup...there is a feature on myspace that allows you to see comments before anyone else does...

I really can't stand Myspace. It seems like too many people get hurt because of it. Seriously, if you have to choose between helping your bf trust you and having a myspace page, what would you choose. I guess I'm just bitter about myspace since there have been so many security things go wrong with chicks posting exact boat dates and all that. Good luck to you and your man. Hope things get better.