My husband and I got married in August and well let's just say very few people know that we are married. My husband just went TDY for 90 days. I have no idea what I am doing, I moved to Nebraska from West Virginia just to be with him. Now here I am stuck with everything in a mess and he's hardly calling me, eventhough he can. I know that he is allowed to call me any time that he isn't working and it just doesn't seem like he wants to talk to me or like he doesn't even miss me. I have so many things that I need to talk to him about and no way to get ahold of him. The last time I talked to him was Wednesday morning, I don't know if I should be worried or what. I have never had to deal with anything like this because I have always been close to family and friends. Out here I haven't really had the chance to make any friends and my family is all in West Virginia. I am so lost and confused right now, i just really need help.

Amy

Try and get out and do things, to keep your mind off of it. We are all here for you, if you need to talk PM me and I will gladly talk to you. I hope you hear from him soon.

That's my biggest problem. When he left we had just gotten a puppy, which I ended up having to decide to give up because she had already cost us $500 in vet bills. So now the bills are so messed up that I can't do anything and it doesn't seem to bother him that I am sitting here misserable while he is out running around having fun. Cause where he's at that's pretty much what they do. They might work 4 days a week then they go out and drink. And to me it's just not right.

I had the same issue. My fiance was gone when I was trying to find a new place to live and I ended up having to make decisions without him. And trust me, it was not done without some tears and anger that I couldn't talk to him. I have been there, trust me. If you wanna PM me, I am here to talk.