Did you test today sweetie?

I was wondering that too!!!!

i did today and it was a BFN

why oh why oh why ?

per fertility friend, youre supposed to wait until 18dpo or a missed period.

i don't understand why you people do this to yourselves ;)

what happened to waiting until monday? ;)

I'm sorry! I know how bad you want a baby! I can't imagine how painful this whole process is!

I hope you get better news in a few days! :hugs

why oh why oh why ?

per fertility friend, youre supposed to wait until 18dpo or a missed period.

i don't understand why you people do this to yourselves ;)

what happened to waiting until monday? ;)

:yes

why oh why oh why ?

per fertility friend, youre supposed to wait until 18dpo or a missed period.

i don't understand why you people do this to yourselves ;)

what happened to waiting until monday? ;)

because i was anxious and a BFN doesn't get my hopes up, AF does.

why oh why oh why ?

per fertility friend, youre supposed to wait until 18dpo or a missed period.

i don't understand why you people do this to yourselves ;)

what happened to waiting until monday? ;)

Some people don't have to wait that long though. I only had a 12 day luteal phase and could normally get a BFP by 8 or 9 DPO :yes 18 DPO would normally mean 4-5 days past a missed period, for a lot of people :nutts

my LP is usually 11-13 DPO so Tuesday I will be late.

Because everyone is different that's why we test early :dunno
I tested early and did find out I was preggo but if I hadn't tested then I wouldn't have known I lost the baby... it was a catch 22.
Will I test again before hand... yea probably.
I just won't tell anyone about it ;)

no you have to tell us.

Because everyone is different that's why we test early :dunno
I tested early and did find out I was preggo but if I hadn't tested then I wouldn't have known I lost the baby... it was a catch 22.
Will I test again before hand... yea probably.
I just won't tell anyone about it ;)

You can tell me. I'm a fellow POAS addict :giggle :hairout

Thanks Sweetie :hugs

i give it a few days in-between, does that count for anything

Because everyone is different that's why we test early :dunno
I tested early and did find out I was preggo but if I hadn't tested then I wouldn't have known I lost the baby... it was a catch 22.
Will I test again before hand... yea probably.
I just won't tell anyone about it ;)

Yea I got a BFP with this baby at 6 DPO so everyone is different!!

I would wait until you are at least due, because more of the hCG will be in you and if you are, you will get that BFP, without the doubting, wondering, worry.

But of course that is just me. And after nine years of TTC, I know the pain, worry, heartache, sickness, etc. If I was late, I was excited... not until then.

Its just sad when you guys dont get what you want :(

I was 9DPO when I 1st seen the faint positive so I agree everyone is different. :yes
And since I never had the faintest idea when my period was due I just tested....

i am not too upset with a negative its only when I get AF.

Stay positive Darling! :hugs

sure will. this temping i think makes me more hopeful that i would have been on my own

sure will. this temping i think makes me more hopeful that i would have been on my own

The temping has helped ALOT of people conceive on their own. So it does up your chances Im sure. :)

well i used the monitor this month as well

I agree! I felt so much more at ease when I could watch the temps. Before it was just hit and miss you know?

i suppose. but since they are rising it mkes me hopeful

well good luck to all you guys. I feel bad that its been so tough for some of you. I havent yet had to do the temp things so I cant be much help but I do keep ya'll in my prayers that you get what you have been wanting for so long. Good luck!

thanks