I am having a tough time this weekend without him here. I know we all have our good days and bad days...but I can't get my mind off how really long I still have to go until DH is back home. I just can't seem to get our of this bum mood.:sadeyes
He said I would talk to him today and I haven't heard a peep. He got internet so we can IM each other, be he hasn't logged on :sadeyes This day just sucks and I have a feeling tomorrow will too.
What can I do to get out of this mood? All I can think about is the days and months I have to deal with. :tears

:hugehug i know how you're feeling. the only thing that i can do when i'm feeling that overwhelmed is tell myself to take it one day at a time. when i think about the months and months til i can see him again i can melt down..literally. just try to look forward to your next time that you can chat with him, online or on the phone. waiting for them to sign in can be torture..i get obsessive about it :lol but hang in there stay strong keep busy and try not to think too far ahead i think that makes it worse! :hugs

I know how that is... Some days you just can't clear your head and quit thinking about it...

Kinda like when you have a chapped lips, and you keep licking them over and over, knowing that you're not making it any better, but you can't help it..

It sounds dumb, but sometimes when I am sad like that, I go buy a new pair of shoes, then walk around the house in them all night.. Victoria's Secret has some REALLY nice sandals for summer I was looking at today...

:hugs

I definitely have those days of feeling overwhelmed like you:( And I also kind of get obsessed about seeing if he's logged onto myspace or things like that.

I don't know that I really have any tips for how I get out of those moods...somedays I just put in a movie and lay in bed lol. Hanging out with my friends or going shopping usually helps. Going to the gym also makes me feel a little better, makes me feel like I did something productive.

Dont think like that. Think your already 3 months, 2 weeks and 6 days into this shindig. Thats pretty good!! We are always going to have our down days. On those days take it as a free pass to pamper yourself and eat chocolate. (L)

thanks girls. i made it through the weekend and here i am sunday night yay! I can always handle the weeks it is the weekends that just drag. And your right I have made it 3 months so that is a good think, 3 months down! yay