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Jennifer
05-19-2007, 11:20 AM
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Below are the Secret Sister Guildelines and Questionnaire:

PM (http://www.forum.military.com/private.php?do=newpm) myself (Jennifer) or Bubbleheadwife, the questionnaire when you have read over everything and filled in the questions.

PLEASE read the rules carefully. THE RULES MAY HAVE CHANGED SINCE THE LAST ROUND. If you are unsure about any aspect, PM one of us!

Please have your questionnaire to us by Friday, June 1st at 11:59pm EST, so that we have time to pair everyone up and send out PM's. Thanks!!

What Is Secret Sister?

It is like Secret Santa. You are randomly assigned to a person who will not know who you are. Over the next month you will have the opportunity to get to know someone you might not have known so well before on SOS and to make them feel special. This can be anything from sending emails, e-cards, snail mail or maybe a little package. Someone else in return is assigned to you and you will get emails, etc. as well from them.

Secret Sister will start June 4th(Monday) and end July 2nd(Monday) for a total of 4 weeks. Fill out the questionnaire below and email or PM it back to one of us if you would like to join.


The Rules:

1. ONLY PARTICIPATE if you truly intend to do it and know that you will be able to for the full month. If you have doubts about whether you will be in town or online, then DO NOT SIGN UP!

2. CONTACT REQUIRED. You are responsible for contacting your sister and to send email, snail mail etc. It doesn't have to be anything big. So don't worry if you feel that you can't participate due to money. Being a sis means making the other person feel special and to pay attention to them. A simple e-mail can do the same. Try to get to know her even better, ask about her family, read her posts on SOS and comment on them, be interested in everything going on in her life. Remember that its okay to ask more questions than just whats on the questionnaire already. :)

A lot of girls make up a screename on here just for secret sister. For example: Jennifer's_SS. That way you can make posts and give gifts to your sister right here on the boards. You can also make a free email account through Yahoo or Hotmail to use for secret sister. Just make sure you don't use your real name when you sign up for the account!

3. CONTACT 3-4 TIMES/WEEK. Send a form of contact (email, e-card, PM, snail mail, gifts, posts on the board) at least 3-4 times a week. If you can not do this for any reason, contact us IMMEDIATELY. Not once a week, or once every other week! 3-4 TIMES PER WEEK!

4. TWO STRIKES and you are out. After having problems in the past with people not doing their end of things, this is necessary, especially since this lasts only 1 month. If we receive two complaints and after talking to that person, we feel that it would be unfair for your sis to keep waiting for emails, etc. we will give her a new secret sister. If you have to be removed from secret sister for not holding up your end of the deal, and you DON'T have a darn good reason, you WILL NOT be allowed to participate in other swap meet rounds.

5. TALK TO US if you for one reason or another you cannot continue during this round. We will not be mad. Life happens, and everyone understands that. We just want to be able to reassign your sister to someone else ASAP.

6. ACKNOWLEDGE YOUR SECRET SISTER. Whomever is supporting you, make sure you let them know when you've received their gift or card, reply to their mail or posts, etc. It is just as frustrating to support someone and not hear back from your Secret Sister in return. If you know that you’ll be out of town for a couple of days – just tell them so no one worries about you or thinks you’re giving them the cold shoulder.

7. IT’S A SECRET! The whole point of secret sister is to keep it a secret until we reveal everyone at the end of the round. Don't use your real name or screenname when you send things. Just simply sign it, YOUR SECERT SISTER. And if you PM your sister, or send them an email make up a username just for this. Make a new Photobucket account if you're going to post graphics. Use your SS e-mail address if you sign up for an e-card service. See number 2 above!

8. This is supposed to be fun ladies! Please do not sign up if you don't intend to be a GREAT sister.

Thanks to EVERYONE who chooses to participate, if you feel like you cannot participate the entire time but would be willing to be a fill-in Secret Sister in case of emergency, etc., please let us know also!


NOTE: *Only people with 200 posts or more can participate (If you're new, you have a few weeks to reach that, so keep on posting!)

The Questionnaire
_______________________________________________________________

Name:
Military SOS Screen Name:
E-mail:
Home Address (for snail mail):

Questionnaire:

What's you SO's name?
Is your SO currently in a different location than you (deployed, LDR, etc)?
When is your anniversary?
When is your birthday?
Do you have children? What are their names and ages?
Any pets?
Are you a student, SAH, or work outside the house?
Do you have any allergies or major dislikes that might be a concern with a gift?

What color/theme is your:
A. kitchen
B. bedroom
C. living room
D. bathroom
What is your favorite color?
Color you look best wearing?
Do you have a favorite sport or professional team?
What book are you reading right now?
Who are your favorite authors?
What are some of your favorite TV shows?
What kind of movies do you like?
What music genres do you listen to?
What are some of your guilty pleasures?

What are some of your hobbies (specific, collections, sports, charity, crafts, etc.)?
Favorite musicians, singers?
What is your favorite candy?
What is your favorite flower?
Do you have pierced ears?
Do you like bath products and/or beauty products? (gels, scrubs, nail polish, etc.) If so, what scents, types or brands?
Do you like candles? What scents/brands?
What are some of your favorite beverages (virgin or alcoholic)?

Tell your sister something interesting about yourself:[/QUOTE]

MelissaMc424
05-19-2007, 12:25 PM
PM'd you my questionnaire!

bubbleheadwife
05-19-2007, 12:44 PM
:cp

Angela P.
05-19-2007, 12:54 PM
Wooo Hoooo I sent my questions!:cp :hi

cangelicious
05-19-2007, 02:27 PM
Sent you my questioneer

Jennifer
05-19-2007, 02:33 PM
I'm excited ladies, I need to fill MY questionaire out and send it to bubbleheadwife.

SchlegelsBaby
05-19-2007, 03:21 PM
Mine is sent to you Jennifer.

Del
05-19-2007, 03:51 PM
Exciting! I'll have to catch the next one, I think. :( My last final isn't until June 5 and then I've gotta get home and settled, and that may take the whole month! lol.

Wonderful, ladies!

Nickschic
05-19-2007, 04:15 PM
I sent mine sorry didnt mean to send it twice :oops

Angelina
05-19-2007, 08:35 PM
I sent mine in!

Angela P.
05-19-2007, 08:37 PM
I can't wait! YAY...I know this is going to be so much fun!:cp

Germanchick
05-20-2007, 01:24 AM
Sent mine

msdarbonne
05-20-2007, 06:22 AM
I can't make it. We will be moving part of that time. But I am willing to fill in for anybody. Do I still need to submit a questionaire?

Jennifer
05-20-2007, 08:30 AM
How long will you be gone during part of the time and what time? PM me, and we'll see if we can work out a way for you to be in it!

navyaowife2005
05-20-2007, 11:02 AM
Just sent mine to you Jennifer. :grin: I cant wait for this next round. :D :cp

mama_of_3
05-20-2007, 11:36 AM
I just sent my questioniare to you Jennifer!!

JudyB
05-20-2007, 04:02 PM
I sent mine!!! I so need this right now too!!!:D

Jennifer
05-20-2007, 04:10 PM
My PM box is getting lots of loves! We're going to have a great round ladies!

Armylove
05-20-2007, 04:18 PM
SENT! this is my frist ss and ive been here a year lol

Jennifer
05-20-2007, 04:21 PM
Bout time Marnie!

Armylove
05-20-2007, 04:29 PM
Bout time Marnie!
I know right... I always seem to be really busy or miss it for some reason

Cat
05-20-2007, 04:53 PM
well i didnt do the last round because i was involved in secret sis on TWH but I kinda want to do both. i have already signed up to do the one on TWH and I really want to be able to do the one on here to so i will try but if something happens and i cant continue i will let you know. i will PM my questionaire.

dodson2006
05-20-2007, 04:57 PM
I would love to do this, my only concern is I am having a C-section June 25th and I will be in the hospital and I will need some recovery time. I will be on the computer some, but I am afraid not enough...maybe next time....this sounds great....what a good idea :)

Cat
05-20-2007, 05:08 PM
Jennifer I pm'd you my questionaire.

Traci
05-21-2007, 01:23 AM
Done! :cp

Jennifer
05-23-2007, 05:33 AM
Bumping this!

showgirl85
05-23-2007, 06:25 AM
I want to do it but I will be in AK for the whole month of June. Should I put the addy up here and my addy at home since I am going to be home July 2nd

Jennifer
05-23-2007, 07:02 AM
You could do that Willow! I'm going back and forth from Italy to Utah in that time frame, and I still am def. doing it!

showgirl85
05-23-2007, 02:43 PM
oh goodie

showgirl85
05-23-2007, 02:53 PM
I just sent mine in Jennifer!!! I can't wait

Jennifer
05-23-2007, 02:54 PM
got it willow!

Crystal520
05-23-2007, 03:52 PM
I sent mine!

girl20racer
05-23-2007, 03:53 PM
I sent mine in too!!

Jennifer
05-24-2007, 01:49 PM
:bump I've gotten quite a few surveys, but I don't want anyone to miss out!

Jennifer
05-26-2007, 12:27 PM
:bump less than one week to sign up!

aggoer
05-26-2007, 03:09 PM
PMed you my stuff....i cant wait the last one was so much fun!!!

Jennifer
05-27-2007, 12:29 PM
bumping again

If you don't have 200 posts now, but will by June 1st, go ahead and send in your SS questionnaire. If you do not have enough posts by thursday, May 31, I will PM you and warn you about needing to reach 200 posts by the next day.

aggoer
05-28-2007, 02:21 AM
oh ok....sounds good thanks for letting everyone know

Jennifer
05-28-2007, 02:26 AM
BUMP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Jennifer
05-29-2007, 02:09 AM
:bump

Reminder, you still have 3 more days to sign up and to reach 200 posts if you are not there yet.

Jennifer
05-29-2007, 01:05 PM
:bump Two more days to sign up!

Jennifer
05-29-2007, 03:55 PM
:bump last few days to sign up-anymore ladies want to join in?

aggoer
05-31-2007, 03:27 AM
come one ladies....this is so much fun and a great way to get to know each other

Jennifer
05-31-2007, 10:30 AM
just about 36 hours remaining to sign up ladies!

Germanchick
05-31-2007, 01:20 PM
SOOOOOO< when are we getting our sisters assigned???

Jennifer
05-31-2007, 01:34 PM
:giggle Kris, did you read the rules?

Sisters will come out on sunday afternoon/evening depending on if I have you on my list or if bubbleheadwife has you on her list. SS officially starts on monday though!

Angelina
05-31-2007, 01:46 PM
I can't wait!!

hbeaudet
05-31-2007, 08:00 PM
i sent you my stuff, i finally had enough posts to join. glad i looked in this thread today! LOL

Germanchick
06-01-2007, 01:02 AM
:giggle Kris, did you read the rules?

Sisters will come out on sunday afternoon/evening depending on if I have you on my list or if bubbleheadwife has you on her list. SS officially starts on monday though!

I've done this so often I kinda skipped over the rules... :blush:P

Jennifer
06-01-2007, 01:04 AM
I've done this so often I kinda skipped over the rules... :blush:P

lol..I should have put a code word or something into the rules that you had to include in your questionnaire:P

Germanchick
06-01-2007, 01:46 AM
lol..I should have put a code word or something into the rules that you had to include in your questionnaire:P

Now THAT would have been mean! :lmao

Jennifer
06-01-2007, 01:52 AM
Now THAT would have been mean! :lmao

yeah but maybe people would have read the rules:P

Jennifer
06-01-2007, 12:50 PM
11 hours left to sign up ladies!

aggoer
06-01-2007, 11:25 PM
i cant wait!!!!

Jennifer
06-02-2007, 02:48 AM
Secret SIster is CLOSED!

Jennifer
07-03-2007, 11:08 AM
This round of secret sister is now over:( :tears Reveal yourselves if you have not already, and make sure you vote in the poll about next round and let me know if you have any feedback!