:( I'm sitting here alone again... DH is deployed, everyone in the house is asleep... even the dog and cat are asleep.... and yet i am awake... I cant sleep anymore... having trouble eating... all i do is sit here and make plans for when he gets home... and quilt, lol.. i started quilting to stay busy.... so i guess this is just a ramble... eventually I'll get exhausted and go curl up with the dog and DH's pillow... but anywho...I just needed ramble for a moment... thanks ladies..

Oh I hope things get better. I know you sit by the computer waiting for him to log on. But, its really not healthy for you to not be eating. Maybe you should talk to your Dr. about this and see what he/she thinks.

I hope you start to feel better. He would want you to be taking care of yourself, so try and do a little bit more to that end :) Take the dog for a walk or throw the ball for a while, I'm sure it would make you both feel a lot better!

oh i hate when that hapens

DH's mom has been making sure that I eat at least something three times a day... and its not that I'm starving myself, its just that I have no appitte...i'm just not hungry... and during the day I keep myself busy doing whatever I can with being hurt, its just at night that it gets really bad... I'm sad all day, but the family is awake then so there is always someone to talk to, but at night... that is a whole different thing... so.. yeah...

Hang in there and be strong. Some days are harder than others, and it's okay to cry and show emotions....it helps for me sometimes, sometimes I just need to keep busy, take a nap, read a book, or my favorite...shopping or getting my hair done :)
Take care of yourself!!!!!!

:hugs

:hugs Sorry sweetie, just do what you have to do to get by, we all understand!

thanks yall... sometimes just tallking about it to yall really helps... talking to the family is always an option, but its harder to relate bc even though DH is their son, its just not the same as having another spouse to talk to about everything... thanks again..

thanks yall... sometimes just tallking about it to yall really helps... talking to the family is always an option, but its harder to relate bc even though DH is their son, its just not the same as having another spouse to talk to about everything... thanks again..


Tis true, these girls are great.. I guess the spouse side is a whole different angle than parent/child views. You can always vent and talk to us :)

awwww :hugs theyre right you know, seeking help doesnt mean youre crazy it just gives you someone to actually talk to. I am going to see a therapist Tuesday FINALLY found one that is taking new patients. Anyway I think it would be a huge help. Or try writing down how you feel in a journal...dont worry about being coherent or writing about "events" per see in the day. Even writing down that youre crying because you just drank a glass of juice and it reminds you that he never closes the top (totally not personal experience :) )

AND if you want to ramble I am always around ;)

PS- I wore one of his shirts back when I flew home before he was deployed...I kept it and didnt wash it for weeks and just wore it to bed all the time...creepy yes...comforting yes... its a win in my book :lol