10 Things Never To Say To Someone Who Has A Soldier Deployed. It's the top ten list of what not to say! The top ten list is on the back with a logo of your choice on the front.
1. Do you miss him?

2. I don't know how you do it.

3. I know just how you feel.

4. Are you scared something may happen to him?

5. I would die if my husband left me for that long.

6. Has he had to kill anyone?

7. Aren't you afraid of him now?

8. Aren't you worried he's going to cheat on you?

9. Are you excited he's coming home?

10. Why couldn't he get a REAL job?

DONT!!!!!!!!!!!! I think thats the reason I have no friends left...I realized asinine questions like that mean some people are just morons

Shall I say open mouth insert foot to those people that have no clue what we go through while our guys are gone etc

but of course you should say that... I am actaully thinking of buying the t-shirt and adding at the bottom bc i will punch you.

I think I hate number 10 the most. I can handle all the others. But 10 really gets under my skin.....

i almost swung on someone the other day for a convo that started with a few of those questions... and ended up with her telling me that its not THAT hard to be a military wife, and since most women only do it for the benefits, why am i complaining?? and ended with me telling her in a really not nice and expanded way what she could do to herself...and my inlaws stepped in and stopped me from hitting her.... it takes alot to get me that mad, even now, but she managed to...

DONT!!!!!!!!!!!! I think thats the reason I have no friends left...I realized asinine questions like that mean some people are just morons

:agree

DONT!!!!!!!!!!!! I think thats the reason I have no friends left...I realized asinine questions like that mean some people are just morons

i agree too my friends are getting fewer and fewer as the real ones stick by me while hes gone and the others kinda do their own thing...sucks

people really are stupid arent they?! lol

I had to let a really good friend have it today for the same thing...oh and I am 12 days into deployment. She was one who said she would stick by me no matter what and now 12 days later she #1 - Can't understand why I am STILL upset? and #2 - Constantly in my face telling me that I am not treating myself well...I'm not eating right and not sleeping and that is not healthy.

Oh excuse me?! I had to tell her that I am trying to cope with something that I doubt she will ever be strong enough to go through on her own. If I choose to eat an entire pizza and stay up all night long, then LET ME DO IT! Ugh.

My boss has already asked my 4 out of the 10 questions. Can you smack a boss and keep your job?!

I think I will make this into a poster and put it up at work? :) Ohhhh that feels good in a bad way. :)