ok how do i get used not hearing from sometime for weeks,

there really is no secret-you just have to be patient-It is a sad, painful part of this life sweety-hang in there

It's very hard, up until now I've heard from DB quite frequently over there, but now it's going on 8 days w/ no word (which isn't bad, just not what I'm used to so far so it's unexpected kwim?)

You just have to know that they are thinking about you probably more than we realize and need you now more than ever...you can't focus on not hearing from them, just put it out of your mind as much as you can and look forward to when you do get word! Stay busy with stuff, and write letters to them and write about things you would be telling them if you were talking to them everyday. Keep them included, it will really help!:)

You just have to know that they are thinking about you probably more than we realize and need you now more than ever...you can't focus on not hearing from them, just put it out of your mind as much as you can and look forward to when you do get word! Stay busy with stuff, and write letters to them and write about things you would be telling them if you were talking to them everyday. Keep them included, it will really help!:)

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