Okay, so I know DF's been in a bad way and I have been going with "no news is good news" for the past 3-4 days. I sent one of his best friends who is deployed a myspace message telling him that if he is near DF to stop by and get some snacks from his care package. His best friend has internet and DF does not so I am thinking they may not be together, but his BF has checked his myspace today and read my message. He has not responded. He did however change his profile picture to a RIP message for someone who is a friend.

I have GOT to NOT freak out. I'm sure he just didn't have anything to say to me, right? It has NOTHING to do with DF being okay, right?

Ugh...get it together, Heather. Damn.

:hugs:goodvibes

I will keep you in my prayers...
I added you to myspace aswell.

Keep your chin up -- it's going to be okay!

oh wow, try not to freak out, but i know thats gotta be hard. You will be in my thoughts

Deep breath honey....no news is good news...hang in there until you here something for sure :hugs :hugs :hugs.....I think that all the guys right now must be SUPER busy....i've not heard anything since early Thursday am and another friend over there hasn't been online in since the 21st. Positive thoughts!

:hugs Heather think positive!!! I am sure nothing bad happened, its natural to worry of course.

Yeah, I think I am just freaking because I am seeing other people that have gotten online or called today and I haven't heard from him at all. I normally hear about once a week and it has been longer than that.

I am so torn. Part of me doesn't want the list to be updated tomorrow like it has been all weekend and another part of me just wants to know who it is since I now know that I will know at least one of the people.

ugh. tomorrow may be a tough day.

hang in there babes! is there any way you could call his family and see if they have heard anything? no news is good news, even though its so tough with all the possibilites running through your head. but i am sure that his family would call you if something happened wouldnt they?! :goodvibes :goodvibes :hugehug it will be okay!!

hang in there babes! is there any way you could call his family and see if they have heard anything? no news is good news, even though its so tough with all the possibilites running through your head. but i am sure that his family would call you if something happened wouldnt they?! :goodvibes :goodvibes :hugehug it will be okay!!

Exactly what I was going to say! Unless there are bad feelings between you and his family, I'm sure they'd let you know right away if something had happened. No news is good news! Stay strong! My thoughts and prayers are with you!

I am just being silly. I want to say that his family would call me. They have no reason not to. We have only met once, but I sent them pics from deployment and they called to thank me. So I know they know my number. I know he talks to them on the same days that he talks to me, so I just have to run the dumb thoughts out of my head.

Even if I wasn't one of the first people they called, they would have called me by now. I just gotta stop getting so riled up over this one. It's just cuz its so close. I know since it isnt him (see the positive thought?!) it is someone we are close to (really bad here). I have been pushing it out of my head for days so I just gotta chill myself out.

:hugs and I hope everything is okay.

Hang in there, it WILL all be ok. Push those thoughts out of your mind, no matter how much you think about it you won't get anything solved!! (easier said than done I know)

I'm sure the guy you messaged was just really busy and only had time to briefly get online or something. My friend's husband has gotten onto myspace the past 4 days and hasn't had time to write her back or anything.

I'll be thinking about you