How long did it take for you girls to really start missing the sex?

I'll give you a bit of background info on our relationship. We have an extremely healthy sex life..the daily basis kind. :) And it's been 26 days that he's been gone and I've gone without. I've thought about it some and of course when I think about it I really miss it but besides that it hasnt really been that hard for me to keep my mind off of it.

I think maybe a month and a half or two months

well, DH has only been gone for about a month at a time. Usually about halfway thru any deployment we have been thru.

when dh left for his mini deployment i missed it the day he left lol. we are getting back to the super healthy sex life what with me being pregnant and the upset tummy and him fighting off a tummy bug. now i need it like 2 times a day at least

I don't have a high sex drive right now. It really depends. I like being independant so if I am- then my stamina increases and whoomth- I want it always.

But you know- when dh was deployed. I didn't feel the burn of sexual frustration too much. I seem to be able to turn that part of me off. Ofcourse as time was coming closer for me to see him- it was abit hard. Counting down to leave- I was frustrated. Counting down to his homecoming- I was frustrated. But during the 12 months- it didn't really affect me that much at all.

now i need it like 2 times a day at least

:wow Wish i could do that. Wedding plans have forced me to ask DH to wait until the wedding nite. Basically I am so stresses, I have no drive right now. :( poor guy

i miss it tons. but we are almost always apart so i try not thinking about it. but sometimes the weirdest things make me horny as hell...i wont get into detail but believe me really weird things.

I think the first month or so is the worst. You go from daily sex to none. It tapers off slowly and then you go through spurts.

I seem to put it out of my head real fast. I start getting more excited about it right before he is scheduled to return home. I dont have a huge sex drive anyway. It is always the cuddles that I miss the most anyway.

The first week was bad but then it stopped bothering me as much. Until of course I hear his voice, then I want to walk/swim/run/ANYTHING over there & jump him! :giggle

Im always missing it but its usually not too bad after he's been gone awhile cause I really dont tend to think about it that much of course unless Im talking to him or I see him on the webcam than I feel like I just have to have it but it gets so much worse when we are so close to seeing each other yet so far away its just so damn frustrating sometimes.

well it depends varies for each person but trust me girl when it hits ya it hits ya hard!!!!:scared

of course i miss sex... hes been gone for ALMOST 3 months now and it probably took about a month? i mean i dunno i always miss it but since hes been in iraq it doesnt bother me too much because i just miss him too much and i dont care if i just LOOK at him honestly. gah

miss the sex but I really just miss him holding me and staring into my eyes and saying how much he loves me, I felt safe then.

Let's see, I dropped DH off at the airport at about noon almost 3 weeks ago, and I started missing it... by the time I got home that afternoon...

I think the first month was the hardest..After awhile you just get use to not having it but ofcourse you will always miss it.

I hibernate my sex drive while he's away (hey, I gotta store up energy for when he gets back! :teehee). So, the first few days are kinda hard, but I'm more concerned about missing him, KWIM? Then, it doesn't really bother me, except for random moments when I think about it, which happen really infrequently.

The last few weeks before he comes home though... I definitely miss it then!

first hour he walked away....lol. really. that night..it was horrible.

Db and I had a very healthy sex life and it has became really hard on the both of us. Honestly I thought that would be the last thing on my mind but now I can't seem to get it out. I mean like I never thought I would be doing things like this but we even try things over the phone it has gotten so bad, I guess i'll just have to wait 2 more months until he gets home :sigh

Well I was in "hibernation" until DB. Seriously, no sex for four years! I guess its because I can only sleep with someone I honestly care about. Well anyway when Im out of hibernation the game is on haha.

we went from several times a day to none so at first I wanted to punch someone in the face daily but now I guess I am back in hibernation until he gets home.

I take it one day at a time, then I get used to it, then I start going crazy again.

"I'm a sex addict. It's my cross to bear. It's a real disease with doctors, and medicine, and everything!"
--Chazz from Blades of Glory

Honestly.. I am pretty good with it. I think i'm doing really well.. Until he has to say something totally off subject ((Military men I swear!)) and he has to start up and then it just.. Damnit. Useually I can tell him "Don't you even try to say something perverted to me you dirty old man" just in time where he don't make me "upset" lol..

Just wait though -- because when he get's home.... :happydance :happydance :happydance

i dont generally think it's that hard cause you don't have ANY affection and therefore aren't really reminded that you're missing it. it would be very different if he was around and couldn't have sex. JMO

the 3rd week, around there :giggle