Dearsos ever since me and Dh had a child, i have not had much of a sex drive, even after a few years. I still have sex, but it just feels like i am doing it for Dh, so he wont be "frustrated". i am totally fine with not having sex, but obviously its different for Dh. Is this normal?? i dont know what to do

You should talk to your doctor about the loss of libido. I think it's so nice that even though you can live without it, you're still giving your DH the gift of sex. It is strange that even when you start the... process... ahem... that you still don't enjoy it much, so I would think that there's a medical issue involved.

You should talk to your doctor about the loss of libido. I think it's so nice that even though you can live without it, you're still giving your DH the gift of sex. It is strange that even when you start the... process... ahem... that you still don't enjoy it much, so I would think that there's a medical issue involved.

its not that i dont enjoy it after it gets started, but its short lived, and really doesnt do much for me... i dont want my Dh to think that im not attracted to him anymore, i totally am, but i just have NO sex drive.

Are you taking any form of Birth control? I know that sometimes that will take away your sex drive....Maybe you can see about chaging that..

i was on the shot for a while, but then had to get off it because i had no insurance. its been a while since i have been on B/c and i still feel the same way. i just recently started taking diff. b/c 3 months ago, so i kno its not the b/c

are you and your dh having any problems otherwise? is the sex not long enough for you? Is he paying attention to you? Like if your enjoying yourself? Is he paying attention to you outside the bedroom? If everything is as it should, I'd think its some kind of chemical imbalance and you should see a doc. Otherwise you and your dh may find some help in counseling. Good luck!